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Erotic Massage Party??

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Old 01-13-2008, 02:28 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Has anyone ever tried or attended a party like this?

We want to try it with maybe four or five couples. We really won't have five massage tables. Will the floor work OK?

We plan to show a DVD like this:

http://www.amazon.com/Nina-Hartleys-...0208899&sr=1-1

and let everyone practice as a couple or try a rotation system of some sort to mix it up.

Any advice from massage professionals?
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Old 01-13-2008, 08:37 AM   #2 (permalink)
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i don't have any advice as a massage therapist, but jeezz i wish you lived near us massages feel sooooo goooood

we made contact with an actual massage therapist, he is the therapist and his wife likes to watch him give sensual massages. (its their idea of soft swap no sex, Mrs.fun reaps the rewards. i initiated the contact on Swing Lifestyle, i just wanted to find my wife a great massage.to some this scenario may seem strange, but we understand them and their level. it works out great.

i don't think they would have a party though, (us) as a swinging couple, involves their discretion. otherwise its his profession.
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When we go to swingers weekends away, my partner always brings his massage table. He teaches specific massage techniques to students, but is not an RMT.

We're going away again with the same group in a couple of weeks, and we've already had messages from women, and their husbands on their behalf, asking if they can have a turn for a massage!
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That sounds great. As my pet was being sweet and giving me a good rub last night I was thinking how great it would be if we could find a couples massage class or something to attend together.
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When we go to swingers weekends away, my partner always brings his massage table. He teaches specific massage techniques to students, but is not an RMT.

We're going away again with the same group in a couple of weeks, and we've already had messages from women, and their husbands on their behalf, asking if they can have a turn for a massage!
That reminds me of our last trip to Hedo.
An very generous guy was giving vulva/genital massage to any woman who volunteered right out on the platform in the nude pool.
Very happy customers! One lady in her 60's could hardly walk after her session.

But I digress ...
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Old 05-29-2008, 03:19 AM   #6 (permalink)
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RE massage party

Hi, we are a couple and had a friend help us move. He stayed overnight. My wife gave him a massage on massage table, both were naked. She ended by going down on him.
We both gave her a massage, he loved feeling her all over and went down on her while I held her legs open. Fun evening! Never know what will happen.
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Old 06-03-2008, 07:28 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Every party we have attended there has been a room where a group would be in there and everybody getting a massage by every one else
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in toronto, "good for her" store has couples massage classes,

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While we've never "attended" such a party, we have been the great benefactors of sharing and learning the talents of the other half of our play couple's expertise. He is a professional Massage Therapist. As a consequence we have had some very, very erotic play sessions which begin with some time in the jacuzzi followed by as much time as possible on the massage table prior to evolving the experience into more sexual play.

We both would highly recommend it!
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Alexander Institute offers a couple of DVDs promoting massage for relaxation, focus, and, above all, sharing.
All Titles
Titles are Lover's Massage and Ultimate Sexual Massage. (BTW, there's Swinging also.)
What better company for intimate play! We should all have learned this when we were teenagers. (Well, maybe... )
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That reminds me of our last trip to Hedo.
An very generous guy was giving vulva/genital massage to any woman who volunteered right out on the platform in the nude pool.
Very happy customers! One lady in her 60's could hardly walk after her session.

But I digress ...
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We have visited AMP's in NYC and they get a little frisky with us, but would love to visit a massage parlor that specializes in mutual release.
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About 4 or 5 years ago I was involved with a local polyamory support group and they scheduled a sensual massage event. It was held at a large private home of one of the members and there were 24 people in attendance and were paired off with 2 ladies and 2 men at each of the 6 tables. Many pairs were established couples but for those who did not have an opposite sex partner for that evening, they were paired off with an opposite sex person by the organizers, taking into account who they felt might be compatible.

There was incense burning, warm massage oils available, low lighting, a fire in the fireplace, and soft sensual music playing. All six tables were in view of the others in two large rooms connected by a wide open archway. Nudity was suggested but not required and one lady in her 20’s kept her bra and panties on and one lady in her 50’s at our table left her panties on. The rest were totally nude. For many including me it was their first public nude event other than for those who had been in swinging situations, etc.

Each person could tell the others at their table where they did not wish to be touched if they had personal restrictions about that. When giving a massage, one would only touch areas of another person’s body the massager felt comfortable making contact with.

The makeup of the group included those from their 20’s to their 70’s and included the merely polyamory curious to those in established poly relationships as well as swingers.

At my table we were fortunate to have a lady who was an experienced masseuse, though not licensed or certified. The other lady was rather shy and kept her panties on and she indicated she would welcome being massaged anywhere she was exposed. For her and me it was our first public nude event. I am not sure what the other single male’s nudist etc. experiences were.

Each person lay face down for 15 minutes and 15 minutes face up and received massage by 6 hands at once. Then another person would receive a 30 minute massage and in a little over 2 hours all had had a 30 minute massage by the other three persons at their table. At the table I was at, there was some brief genital massage by some participants. I did note while changing table positions, that 2 couples at an adjacent table were taking it from sensual to erotic with one of the ladies giving each of the other men a brief (a few seconds) of oral-penile “massage!” However, as we were giving our full attention to the person we were massaging it did not seem appropriate to “stare” at the other tables so I cannot say how much overt sexual activity might have occurred elsewhere.

For me it was a great introduction to being nude in front of so many others and in 2-3 minutes I felt quite comfortable with it. It was also great that such a spectrum of ages and those from poly curious to established polys and swingers could enjoy such an occasion and no one freaked out despite the range of experience levels represented. I am sure if the event was more segregated by experience those who were more lifestyle friendly would been less inhibited and more inclined to enjoy the voyeuristic opportunities available.
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About 4 or 5 years ago I was involved with a local polyamory support group and they scheduled a sensual massage event.....
Sounds wonderful! Thanks for sharing!
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About 4 or 5 years ago I was involved with a local polyamory support group and they scheduled a sensual massage event. It was held at a large private home of one of the members and there were 24 people in attendance and were paired off with 2 ladies and 2 men at each of the 6 tables. Many pairs were established couples but for those who did not have an opposite sex partner for that evening, they were paired off with an opposite sex person by the organizers, taking into account who they felt might be compatible.

There was incense burning, warm massage oils available, low lighting, a fire in the fireplace, and soft sensual music playing. All six tables were in view of the others in two large rooms connected by a wide open archway. Nudity was suggested but not required and one lady in her 20’s kept her bra and panties on and one lady in her 50’s at our table left her panties on. The rest were totally nude. For many including me it was their first public nude event other than for those who had been in swinging situations, etc.

Each person could tell the others at their table where they did not wish to be touched if they had personal restrictions about that. When giving a massage, one would only touch areas of another person’s body the massager felt comfortable making contact with.

The makeup of the group included those from their 20’s to their 70’s and included the merely polyamory curious to those in established poly relationships as well as swingers.

At my table we were fortunate to have a lady who was an experienced masseuse, though not licensed or certified. The other lady was rather shy and kept her panties on and she indicated she would welcome being massaged anywhere she was exposed. For her and me it was our first public nude event. I am not sure what the other single male’s nudist etc. experiences were.

Each person lay face down for 15 minutes and 15 minutes face up and received massage by 6 hands at once. Then another person would receive a 30 minute massage and in a little over 2 hours all had had a 30 minute massage by the other three persons at their table. At the table I was at, there was some brief genital massage by some participants. I did note while changing table positions, that 2 couples at an adjacent table were taking it from sensual to erotic with one of the ladies giving each of the other men a brief (a few seconds) of oral-penile “massage!” However, as we were giving our full attention to the person we were massaging it did not seem appropriate to “stare” at the other tables so I cannot say how much overt sexual activity might have occurred elsewhere.

For me it was a great introduction to being nude in front of so many others and in 2-3 minutes I felt quite comfortable with it. It was also great that such a spectrum of ages and those from poly curious to established polys and swingers could enjoy such an occasion and no one freaked out despite the range of experience levels represented. I am sure if the event was more segregated by experience those who were more lifestyle friendly would been less inhibited and more inclined to enjoy the voyeuristic opportunities available.
6 hand massages are wonderful treats and a great form of foreplay!
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