No risk swinger fun & games

[Desi]

Hi everyone,

I'm new to the forum, but not completely new to the lifestyle. I recently took a two-year break from the typical monogamous relationships I'd always been in to experience new things as a SF, and it's been an empowering and fun time overall.

I'm starting to feel ready for something more committed again, but now I know I'd like it to be with someone interested in similar exploration, so I'm grateful for the experiences I have had.

That being said, I also recently had an STD scare that just about sent my world crashing down around me. The first tests came back negative (praise Jah), but doctor says I need another round of tests in four months to be absolutely sure I wasn't exposed.

To make a long story short, I'd love some help compiling a list of some really hot, but 100% safe swinging activities and/or games. I think it would be a handy thing to have for many situations:

* Hot and fun things to do that wouldn't put your partner(s) at risk, while waiting for the results of an STD test

* Hot and fun things to do for people who have STDs and don't want to spread them

* Hot and fun things to do when you're in a committed relationship and want to color outside the lines without the risk of bringing home an STD

I'm not saying these are the only activities I'll ever engage in again, but I want to have some tools in my arsenal. Especially while waiting for my final test results. I think it's only fair to my potential partners that we engage in very safe sex in the meantime.

Please be so kind as to share some of your ideas. I'd love to devise an entire menu. Full-swapping and unprotected oral are hot, too, but that's not what I'm looking for in this thread. Coming up with very safe activities that are still hot is much more difficult; that's why I need your help!

Here are a few ideas to get started:

* simple voyeurism/same room sex: two committed couples watch each other but don't participate with one another

* in a group setting: one person masturbates while the others caress, massage, encourage and watch. Perhaps the group undresses the person first.

Any others? The hotter the better.

Thanks!

Desi

[curiousinNC]

Found these online, hope this helps.

THE BIG GAME OF SEDUCTION
Have the men blindfold sitted (or laid down on a matress if you can) in a row
The ladies are numbered 1-2-3... Starting with the first male, lady #1 has a minute to kiss, caress, breast-feed, lick, blowin his neck or ear, etc (nothing going on below the belt). when time's over, she moves to the next guy as lady #2 takes over the first guy. When all have perform their seduction thing, the men have to vote. Same for the oposite sex.
Winner gets etheir a full body massage or a slow dance with two of the participant of his/her choice.

HELLO MY NAME IS....
For this one, the host has to prepare forms in advance that guests wishing to participate fill as the arrive the party. The form made for the women ask about thinks she's wearing as:
bra size/color (match with panties) (not wearing a bra) garter belt socking/pantyhose/stay-up, jewelry (specify gold or silver)
regular or mini-panty thong or string as well as color
Don't forget to ask about tatoos or niple rings. Anything that can be found easily under the clothes is fine.
For the men you might add tan lines, belly or muscles size, hairy chest, (circumcise ?.?.?), etc...
Have the women stand in a line as the first male participant has to find the things ask by the host. Suppose it's a black leather bra with matching panty or could be a watch with a logo for example. WHen the object is found the participant has to give te name of the person he found the thing on (that could be more than one tough) to the host who writes it down. Each participant should be asked for 3-4 items given a certain time. The winner gets etheir a full body massage or a slow dance with two of the participant of his/her choice.

SUPER NINTENDO
This game is intended for a small group (2-3 couples) but you can also try it at home with your mate
An "open" couple doesn't always mean you get involve in trios or group sex, it also means you can bring new ideas and try new things with your partner.
Get a nintendo (or other electronic game) and choose a game as a car race
or other hability game you like. Each contestant plays his/her turn. Meanwhile the others have to distract the player anyway they want. Kiss, blow, scratch, pintch, lick, nible you name it. The only things who are not allowed are to obstruct the vision and the movements of the player on the joystick. The lowest score looses a piece of clothing.
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Those 3 games have been suggested by the capital club in Ottawa

WORD GAME - 2 sets of cards each set being a different color. The guys pick
one of the colors and the ladies the other. Each card has a word on it and
each set of cards have the same words as the other set. The words on the
cards will have sexual meanings, e.g. hard, long, orgasm, wet'n juicy, g-spot, 4 1/2", 36DD,
etc.. The idea is for each person to match the word on their card with the
card of a person of the opposite sex (cannnot be with your partner) When a
match is made they are suppose to get each others name, possibly dance and then they will return to the receptionist or host/hostess to get a new set
of cards, an ice breaker ticket for a draw later on, and then go off and do
it all over again. Many interesting conversations will be had by asking
someone whether they are: (the work on the card).

69 - 2 sets of cards each set being a different color. The guys pick one
of the colors and the ladies the other. Each card has a number on it which
when added to a matching card will total 69. Same rules as above once you
have found a match.

FAMOUS COUPLES - 2 sets of cards each set being a different color. The guys
pick one of the colors and the ladies the other. Each card has a name on
it one set having the males name of the famous couple and the other set
have the females name of the famous couple, e.g. Romeo & Juliet. Same rules as above once you have found a match.
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Games found on Eric & Tina's page (French European couple)

The purpose was to touch the other members of the group, preferably in an erotic manner. Therefore, everybody was asked to wear clothes through which you could feel others very well. And, don't wear shoes.

First little play to get "in touch":

All stand very close to eachother, the eyes closed. Turn around and walk a little (if you can...) and then take an other's hand into each of your hands. You are now a link in a chain.
Now try to disentangle the chain into one or more circles WITHOUT releasing the other's hands. Step over others, and so on, to do this. You will sometimes have close contact to one's body...

Feel a little more of someone's body:

Now stand in a circle and one person in the middle, blindfolded. Turn him/her around while the others walk to another place. Stop. The person in the middle must by touching/feeling a body guess who is the one he's touching. If you guess wrong: try another time, if you guess right: the other goes in the middle.
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Third play, getting little more erotic:

Now it's cleaning-time! Get a partner. Do as if you have a washing- glove, and make the moves as if you are washing your partner very carefully. Do not forget any place! Your partner can wash you then.
Now change to another partner to do the same. Until nobody wants to be washed anymore.
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The sex-machine:

One person can enter the sex-machine. He/she is blindfolded.
Everybody stands around and tries to touch and caress the one in the "machine" in a way he thinks that is MOST erotic for him/her. When it's enough for the one in the machine, another can enter it.
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A dark finale:

Now I hope everybody is "hot" enough for the dark finale. Everyone now must stand on a carpet or so, you must feel that you are still at the right place. Then, the lights go off, it must be real dark.
Everybody is invited to meet the others, just by feeling. Nobody is allowed to say a word.
You can do what you want with the ones you meet, but be careful NOT to do things that the other doesn't want.
So walk around, feel if you like the bodies you meet, and what you want to do with them. Of course, if the other body feels to allow you, you can move your hands under it's clothes or undress a bit or more.
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Everybody knows this kind of games, I think. But once we played it in a way that turned out to be rather exciting for most of our guests. For this game I think it is good when you are with 8 - 16 people, preferably mixed up according to the guest's sexual preferences.

There is some preparation. Everybody has to write down 3 (or 4...) erotic fantasies each on a card (that is, on three cards... one fantasy per card). The cards then are shuffled and placed upside down in the middle of the group.

The first person takes a card and reads the erotic fantasy for the others. Then he or she can say what he/she thinks or likes about that fantasy. Don't take a card that you wrote yourself!

Now, make a guess who is the owner/writer of that fantasy. If you are right, you must give an order to the one you guessed right. If you are wrong, the one you thought it was, must give you an order. The orders must have something to do with sex or erotics. Such as: do a striptease for me, or: be a slave and give me something to drink while licking my legs.....
anything is OK, as long as the one who is to be "punished" agrees. May be it is a good idea to try to fullfil a part of the fantasy concerned!

When you guessed right, the other one has the next turn. Otherwise, it's your turn once again.

When we played it, it turned out that more people have some kind of SM-like feelings than you might think. May be it's because of the "punishing"-idea....

Have a nice play!
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This is the game of the goose (several versions will folow).That seems to be a very popular game in Europe and you can find the game board at this adress:
http://web.inter.nl.net/users/F.D.Al...mes/game04.htm (Eric & Tina's page)

I hope you know the game of goose.
In this one the board is a large room, a house, a site to party, and the game needs some 20 persons to play it, preferably in a mixture that applies to the sexual preferences o your guests. Also in this play, the people themselves are the tokens. That is, every COUPLE is a token.

This game needs some preparation. The most important is to know enough of the particularities of the place where it is to be played, to know what orders can be given best on what numbers. You must make a sheet of paper for EVERY number, and write the applying order on it. Glue the sheets in the correct order on the walls and so.

The next thing you need are the ingredients to fulfill the orders. See later on, they are described at the place where they are needed.

Then you need something to form couples of your guests. I mostly buy a new porn-magazine, take the most horny pictures, cut them into 2 pieces, do the upper half in one envelope for the women and the other half in another envelope for the men. Be careful to have exactly the right number of corresponding pieces for your guests! I do have some other funny tricks.

Give everyone a half-piece of porn, and let them find the complementary part. You can do variations like "find them without talking", and then everybody has to wear them under their clothes. There are enough possibilities.

Every thus formed couple comes to the leader and gets 1 dice (per couple), and other things you may need (like make-up things if there will be a mini-body-painting-order - not in this example). Now they can start before number one to go their way along all numbers on the walls. Of course they have to perform the orders mentioned at the papers where they happen to arrive because of their using the dice.

And now for an example of such a game, to let you see what kind of things you can do. I give some comments on the orders.

1."bad luck...... go 5 places ahead" (at 6 must be an interesting order)
2."o no! pinch eachother somewhere"
3."hurray... go 6 places ahead" (at 9 there is an 'erotic' order)
4."boast boast.... name one of your good qualities" (to your partner)
5."hurray... go 7 places ahead" (at 12 is another 'erotic' order)
6."laugh laugh.... tickle each other"
7."bad luck... go back to #2"
8."hurray... go on to #15" (many jumps must go to the partner swapping places)
9."for shame.. together form an erotic statue" (please make it a little horny if you like)
10."hi (nothing of interest)
11."nope" (again nothing of interest)
12."look the other way.... undo two buttons at each other's clothes"
(may be you plan this in a dark corner to invite people to do a little bit more...)
13."no bad luck here..." (nothing of interest)
14."okay... go 4 places ahead" (to a place to have a warm hug)
15."swapping partners... wait until another couple arrives at this place, then swap partners"
(this is one of the very important things in this game to make real fun)
16."nope"
17."bad luck... go back by 5 places" (to the unbutton-place..)
18."hugging corner... you have to stay here for at least 5 minutes and do a nice hugging!!" (here must be a large couch or something where some more couples can lie close together and have an exciting hug)
19."darling... say something lovely to eachother"
20."that's nice.... go 3 places ahead" (to another swapping)
21."nope"
22."place of art... close your eyes and draw a nice pornographic drawing on this paper"
(there must be a large paper here sticked to the wall, and some pencils to make the drawing, the partners may help eachothers a little....)
23."swapping partners... wait until another couple arrives at this place, then swap partners" (this is one of the very imporatnt things in this game to make real fun)
24."bad luck.... go all the way back to #15" (a swapping place)
25."M/F?....... swap a peace of clothes" (do this in a dark corner or behind the door of an unlighted room.... people undress for some part and may want to do a little lovin'...)
26."bad luck... go back 3 places" (to the swapping...)
27."almost there..... go ahead to #29" (squeezing at 29....)
28."bad luck..... go back to #25" (the clothes-swapping)
29."mmm nice.... take some time to caress each other eroticly" (may be here is not too much light)
30."helas.... go back to #18" (where's the hugging) (there are many jumping-back orders almost at the end)
31."you're the looser.... you may replay the game by taking another looser as partner" (new opportunities, new chances)
32."you won!.... jump into the bed together and wait there until at least one other couple comes to share the bed with you" (there must of course be some matresses and blankets at the end to give this opportunity.....
when you have had lots of fun with your different partners in the game, you might now go a little further....).

Be sure to use the specialties of your party-site as elements in the game!!!

Have a nice play!
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Needs 8 - 16 persons to play it, preferably in a mixture that
applies to the sexual preferences of your guests. It's played about the same way as the normal game of goose, except for these rules:

If you arrive at a spot that is already occupied by another, you have to
change a piece of clothes or something that you wear with this person.
When there are already two persons, make a triple exchange... and so on.

On blue places with an arrow, you must jump to the place that the arrow points to. Execute the order if there is one!

On red places there are "normal" orders as follows:

3 Tell the group what is your favorite music.
5 Tell the others what you love most at dinner.
7 Do you like sex, and what kind(s) of?
9 Put your hand on somebody's forehead.
11 Name a (new) word for ....(it).
15 How contented are you about your appearance?
18 Wait for one turn and then tell a game that you played at
children's parties when you were young.
19 Name one of your bad qualities.
22 Think of a new abusive word.
24 Try a mini-body-painting (using some make-up things),
if you succeed: go 4 places ahead.
30 Try a little theatre play: do a proposal of marriage (with
or without words).
31 Sing a song and then throw the dice again.
32 Make a funny/silly face.
35 Say something nice to your left neighbour.
37 Ask another person and together form an erotic statue.
38 Let someone tickle you, or otherwise go 8 places
backward.
41 Tell the others what is your favorite (sex) position.
43 What quality is not yours, but do you want to possess?
47 Take each other's hands, together make a dance around
the table.
49 Undo two buttons of your clothes.
52 You won! Get a kiss from someone you choose.
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This game needs some 8 - 16 persons to play it, preferably in a mixture that
applies to the sexual preferences of your guests. It's played about the same way as the normal game of goose, except for these rules:

If you arrive at a spot that is already occupied by another, you have to
change a piece of clothes or something that you wear with this person.
When there are already two persons, make a triple exchange... and so on.

On blue places with an arrow, you must jump to the place that the arrow points to. Execute the order if there is one!

On red places there are "normal" orders as follows:

3 Tell the group what is your favorite (sexual) position.
5 Take a card corresponding to your gender (see below)
and follow the instructions on it.
7 In what kind of places do you like to make love?
9 Caress someones face or neck.
11 Name another word for "fucking" you didn't hear until
now in this game.
15 How contented are you about your sexual "apparatus"?
18 Wait for one turn and then tell a touching game that you
would like to play with the others.
19 Tell why you think you are such a good lover.
22 Take a card corresponding to your gender and follow
the instructions on it.
24 Try a mini-body-painting (using some make-up things),
if you succeed on intimate places: go 4 places ahead.
30 Try a little theatre play: do an intimate proposal to a
group member (with or without using any words).
31 Try to make the sound of a sort of kiss of your choice.
32 Take a card corresponding to your gender and follow
the instructions on it.
35 Hug your left or right neighbour.
37 Ask another person and together perform an erotic act.
38 Let someone undress you for one peace of clothes of
his/her choice, or otherwise go 8 places backward.
41 Tell the others one of your sexual fantasies.
43 What romantic quality is not yours, but do you want to
possess?
47 Together sit behind each others on the floor moving like
an old-fashioned train, and thus move yourself around
the table to the next station (got the idea?).
49 Undo 3 buttons or 1 zipper or 2 laces of someone's
clothes.
52 You won! Get an intimate embrace from someone you
choose.

For this game you have to make some additional cards.
Ten cards are red and have a F or female-sign on their back, ten cards are blue and have a M or male-sign on their back.
On the frontside each card for either men or women has the following instruction: for the women: "as soon as there is a man that has also number [here is written one of the numbers 1 to 10], then you can use the bed with him for at least 5 minutes" for the men: "as soon as there is a woman that has also number [here is written one of the numbers 1 to 10], then you can use the bed with her for at least 5 minutes"

The card lie upside down on two piles.
After being used the cards go back to the bottom of the pile.
Of course there must be a mattress or something like that near to the table where you play the game.
You can also use more explicit intructions, but I think these suffice. Explicity is not really heating..... fun is more.
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next ones from Whispers http://www.whispers.net/
BLOW ME
Need: Saltine crackers, and thick balloons. Each player receives 2 saltine crackers and a balloon,
The idea is to prove just what your oral skills are, by being the first one to eat both of the saltines, and then show how good you still are at blowing...by getting your balloon to be the first one fully inflated!!!!!!

HOT CONDOM
Need:Condom & can of whipped cream. Fill the condom with the whip cream and tie it off. A player is chosen as the IT. He stands in the center, while the others stand in a circle. The players toss the condom to one another; making many false moves and gestures. The IT must touch the condom while in the air. If he does so, the last to throw becomes IT. The passing should move quickly and not be delayed. This is a fun outside beach party type of game, but can be very messy, when it cums to your turn!!!!!!!!

SUCK IT CONTEST
Need: Blindfolds For this game, the "judges" (the males) need a comfortable place to sit and relax.
Make sure there's some space between them so they can open up their legs. Because this is a contest and fairs fair, the judges will need to be blindfolded. Soft lights usually make it easier for the "contestants" (the females) to get in the proper mood. Instead of using the contestants' names, each is assigned a number. This is to preserve the anonymity of the contestants and the fairness of the contest. The "Master of Ceremonies" starts the contest with contestant #1 taking her place between the first judges legs. The idea behind this game is to find the person who's most skilled in deep throat and cock sucking, so naturally all contestants will want to win! After about a minute of showing the first judge her talents, contestant #1 moves down to judge #2, making room for the second contestant to show the first judge what she can do. Then contestants #1 and #2 move down the line again to make room for contestant #3.
The M.C. guides the contestants throughout, making sure they move to
the next judge at the right time, while also letting the judges know which contestants they're judging at the moment. Remember: The object of this game is to tease, not to please. Neither contestants nor judges are allowed to use their hands. When the last judge has finally judged the last contestant, the judges get to remove their blindfolds and select a winner by agreeing on which contestant was the best. When they've made their decision, the winner is revealed; but don't tell the judges who the others contestants were. Half of the fun is after the game, when they try to figure out who the other numbers were!

LONGUEST TONGUE CONTEST
Need: Blindfolds This game is just like the Suck It Contest, except that now it's the ladies' turn to be the judges. Ladies can also be contestants if they're bisexual. Again, no hands are allowed, and the contestant's tongue must stay in contact with the judge's pussy at all times. Sometimes this game is referred to as the Mystery Pussy Eating Contest.

SENSUAL MASSAGE
Need: Large plastic coverings (paint tarps), Massage oils, (can be done with or with-out Blindfolds)
This game requires a large area for everyone to lay down and stretch out in, a large sheet of plastic, and hot or cold massage oils. Everyone starts out with their own partner of choice. It usually works best if one sex is massaging the other sex that is, either all the males or all the females are giving the massages.
Those who receive the massage lie on their stomachs, after removing all their clothing; the people giving the massage need to lose as much clothing as possible too (to avoid oil stains on clothing, its best to play this game completely nude). The M.C. starts the action by having the people giving the massage place oil in their hands, then rubbing it onto just the shoulder and u pper-back area of their partner. The idea is to make the massage soft and sensual. After a couple of minutes, the M.C. directs everyone who's giving the massage to move over one person to their right and massage the lower-back area of their new partner. (Those who are not comfortable changing partners just stay where they are and the others skip them.) At the next change, the massage moves to the buttocks. After a couple minutes, another change, and those giving the massage concentrate on their new partner's legs. Another change, and this time the feet. Then those receiving the massage turn over on their backs. Once again, the people giving the massage start at the shoulders and arms, change, move to the chest and stomach, change, massage the hips and thighs, change, and, if it gets that far, the legs after the next change of partners. Never put oil on the vaginal area or the penis, because different people have reactions to different oils. If things start heating up, just roll with the flow and let it happen! (have a full body massage ?.?.?.?. hehe)

THE SCAVENGER HUNT
Make up several lists with about 12 items found on females. Then make up as many lists with the same number of items found on males. Give these lists to people of the opposite sex. The idea behind this game is to get up and mix, mingle, and meet each other! Find one item on the list from all of the different people who are playing the game. For females, these items can include stockings, ankle bracelet, thong, matching bra and panty set, teddy, a flower tattoo, etc. For the males, items can include a hairy chest, tan lines, big hands, towel wrap, colored boxers, G-string, etc. This game is great for shy people and groups of people who are new to each other.

Peek 'n' Feel Game
Need: Several Sheets, Scissors. For this game, you'll need to cut holes that are big enough for a hand to get through in a couple of bed sheets. The holes should be at different heights. Hang the sheets up as one big curtain, in a place where people can stand behind it. Get either all the females or all the males behind the curtain. Contestants place their hands in the holes and try to guess either who a person is or who their partner is from the area that they are touching. This is great for both the shy and outgoing, because people behind the curtain can choose where they want to be touched. Make sure that you cut the holes at different heights. Only the M.C. of the game gets to see who is behind the curtain until after everyone is done guessing.

Body S'Mooooores
Need: large sheet of plastic, chocolate syrup, marshmallow cream, and graham cracker crumbs. The idea here is to make your partner edible. People select their own partner and the person being s'mooored can be either male or female. Start by using just a few graham cracker crumbs on the stomach area. The chocolate syrup goes on top of the crumbs. Go light on the ingredients, because the goal is to lick off what you put on! After the syrup, pour on the marshmallow cream. Removing this treat is a treat in itself! The game always turns erotic, with everyone eventually getting a taste!

Rambo Night
Need: Water Pistols, T-shirts. (oups I guess it would be messy to try this inside.?.?.)This is an even sexier version of the traditional Wet T-shirt & Panty Party. Place squirt guns filled with water in the 'fridge to cool down (it really gets the ladies' nipples to stand out!). All of the contestants get dressed to play, and the males draw for the squirt guns and the lady they'll be squirting. The female stands in front of the male who has drawn her name, and the guys get to squirt all over them as they dance to music. Three judges are chosen to pick the female with the best moves and chest action. The action is wet, and can get very steamy!

VIBRATOR RACE Need: One Battery operated Vibrator per couple Pairs stand back to back, their backs touching. Take a a vibrator, turn it on and slide it in between them. They must move together to a finish line and back with one going forward and the other going backward. If they separate,or drop their vibrator they get to start over again.

SKIN THE SNAKE
Team members stand one behind the other with legs apart and pass their right hands between the legs to grasp the left hands of those behind. Starting at the back, members crawl through the legs of those in front of them, without losing hand grip, until the whole team is standing in a line holding hands.

DILDO ROLL
Need: Dildo's Place an even number of people on each team. Team members stand in line behind
one another with their legs spread apart with afew feet of distance between them. First player in line
rolls the dildo between all of the players open legs,back to the last player who catches it then moves to the front, the fun part is that once you place your feet you cannot move them until you have caught the dildo, so if you don't catch your dildo, you have to use whatever means you have to get it back (hands, teeth, chin..etc.) until your entire team is done.
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"Party Themes"

When you get tired of playing ice-breaker games it is always a good time to try some sort of a theme party...here are some fun ideas that you might want to try.

Chocolate Sensual Food Fun
We all like the sensual excitement that comes from trying out new ideas on our lovers, these are a few that will help to open a new door or two in the realm of sensuality, close your eyes, taste the sweetness, and enjoy the erotic flavor.

·Try tasting chocolate blindfolded or watching your lover taste blindfolded. ·Eat off of a more interesting table - like each other. ·Buy an assortment of chocolates and taste them with your own milk or honey. ·Melt chocolate and drip it over your lover like hot wax. ·Dip your favorite body part in melted chocolate. ·The following recipe for Chocolate dipped fruit is simple and
easily made.

CHOCOLATE DIPPED FRUIT
1) Choose an assortment of dippable fruit. Try:
·strawberries (of course) ·orange slices ·pieces of banana ·large green grapes ·pieces of apple
Okay, these aren't fruits but they are sooo good dipped in chocolate! ·marshmallows ·pretzels
2) Prepare fruit by rinsing and cutting into bite-size pieces. Bite-size is the key here. Nothing larger than a whole strawberry.
3) Melt 16 oz. of chocolate (semi-sweet or bittersweet) in a double-boiler over medium heat, stirring frequently until smooth and creamy. (You can also melt chocolate in the microwave. Use a glass measuring cup and be sure to stir often so that the chocolate stays creamy.) 16 oz. of chocolate is enough to dip about 3 cups of fruit.
4) When chocolate is smooth remove from heat and dip fruit halfway. Place on a sheet of wax paper and let cool.
5) When chocolate is hardened, peal from wax paper and arrange on a plate.
Always be sure to experiment with consent. People deal with new experiences in different ways.
For some it produces anxiety and for others supreme excitement. You need not spoil the surprise to gain consent. A simple warning of newness in a trusting environment usually is sufficent.

Get Laid Party!
For those of you that need the pretext, and the laughter that can go around at one of these types of parties, and since we are all in this for the same basic reason...Throw a Get Laid Party!

The Get Laid Party is one thrown for the fun and simplicity of the idea, The premise is simple enough, every male in attendance is allowed only one alcoholic beverage throughout the course of the evening. Females attendants can consume all they wish. Now, why is this the case and not
the other way around? Two reasons. One, women are not this perverted and twisted as a general rule, and two, men, after a few to many drinks, are not exactly much use to women.

It is important to remember that one does not have to engage in fornication if one does not wish. However, since people are often quick to disregard such things as trivial, here are two simple reminders. Men: NO means NO, regardless of how schnookered your female guests may be.
Ladies: DO NOT under any circumstances accept a ride home with anyone whose friends affectionately refer to him as Captain Schlong. It is a bad situation just waiting to spring to life.
However, it's a safe bet that any one who attends will have the same ideas, so have fun and stock up on the condoms.

Music: Soothing, to put people in the mood. We suggest anything by Barry White.
Drink: Champagne. There is no substitute. For those of you who absolutely hate bubbles, try a good wine instead.

Screw your Neighbor

While the title may conjure up some wild fantasies within your mind, keep in mind that simple little idea..."What goes around, Comes Around". The idea behind this game is to have some fun, get even if you want to and maybe, just maybe end up screwed yourself. Everyone sits in a circle, with a variety of adult items in the center, that everyone might use. Starting with the
person that the host designates and going to the right. The first person gets the first chance to screw their neighbor...how boldly and pretentiously is up to them. As they get to chose an idea or object from the center to give to the person to their right to use, in what ever manner the challenger wishes... It might be a vibrator handed to Jane, to use in front of everyone, on
herself....Jane then has the choice of either taking the challenge, or She can pass it BACK to the challenger, who has no choice but to do the activity as they suggested it, thereby Screwed instead. After The first persons challenge is completed, it goes to the second person (who was
challenged already) in the circle to issue the challenge, it moves around the circle sometimes getting the challenge thrown back and sometimes just moving forward. Remember that you need to keep all challenges on a fun level, as it may get thrown back at you and you will have no choice but to complete the task you offered. Be as specific as possible when you give a
challenge, or they might just turn it on you. This is a great game to have some high spirited fun, laughter, and find out just how daring your friends are, and just how much you would like to screw them.

Show and Tell Party

At least for us, "show and tell" time was, unquestionably, the best thing about Kindergarten. Yes sir, "show and tell" and eating paste; the stuff dreams are made of. So return with us now to those thrilling days of yester-year. Return with us now, to kindergarten.

A Show and Tell Party is a rather simple affair. The party should progress as any party would until all guests have arrived and been given sufficient time to mingle and relax. In truth, this party is not unlike any other run of the mill affair you may have thrown in your life with one key exception. At a predetermined time, all guests should be summoned to a main room where
"show and tell" will commence. All guests are required to bring something to the gathering. It can be anything (See Below) as long as you can A.) show it and B.) ramble on endlessly about it. Prizes can be given for the best presentation and "penalties" doled out for those who do not seem
to grasp the concept of this effort. Here's a short list of some possible items that can be shown:

* Favorite vibrator * Partners Penis * Flavored Condom * Connection Magazine * Whip and blindfold * handcuff

Yes gang it is that simple, anything that you can talk about can be shown and told how it works, from condoms to blow-up dolls, but keep the adult theme in mind, and have some great laughs. *
Host can also provide prop items to be shown, and put the name of it in a fishbowl to be drawn by the person whose turn is next.

MUD WRESTLING PARTY

So you say you like to get down and dirty? You say you want a party where you can let out some
pent up energy? You say you want to relive your childhood memories of playing in the mud?
Well, have we got a party for you! Yes boy's and girl's, you've seen it in the movies, you've
seen it in bars, now you to can have your own Mud Wrestling Party. See if the ladies have the
courage and vigor they claim to have when it comes to fantasy play! Just follow these few handy
tips and your next party is sure to be a complete mess and maybe an erotic delite!

A Mud Wrestling Party may sound silly, not to mention messy, but they actually can be a lot of
fun. All you really need to have one is a place to have one. Of course you also need some dirt,
water and people to wrestle, but those are details we can handle latter. As we said before, the
most important thing you need for this type of party is a place to actually wrestle. This can be
accomplished in one of two ways. You can either have an area outdoors or you can get a large
kiddie pool type thing-a-ma-jiggy. Each have their own pros and cons. Lets talk about an
outdoor party first.

Obviously if this party is to be held outdoors then it would be best held during the summer. All
you really need to do is get a flat area where you can create a mud puddle. This area does not
have to be very large, a 10' x 10' area would do quite nicely. Be sure to mark off the area so the
contestants will know just where the heck they are supposed to be. Make sure to prepare the area
before hand so that you know you'll have mud. If necessary you might want to add some dirt,
just to be sure. Be sure to have a hose to wash the contestants off afterwards. A supply of towels
is also a must. On the day of the festive event the mud arena should be the center piece of the
party. Refreshments and music should be centered around the arena. Having this party outdoors
is the best way to make sure you won't have any mud in your house.

Inside Now what if it's the dead of winter and you have a hankering to roll around in liquidy
dirt? No problem, have a mud wrestling party indoors. In order to do this you should have a
garage or basement that you don't mind getting a little messy. You will need either a good sized
kiddie pool or else you can create an acceptable area with a plastic tarp and some plywood. If
you are going for the second option then take either some 2' x 10' or 2' x 12' planks and cut
them to about 10 feet long, or what ever size you think adequate. Nail the planks together into a
large square. Lie the tarp down on the floor in the middle of the wooden square. Make sure the
tarp is larger than the wooden square. Pull the sides of the tarp up and over the planks. Make
sure the tarp is lying flat on the ground. Staple or nail the tarp to the sides of the planks. Viola!
you now have your own homemade empty mud arena. After you have the arena built you will
need to fill it with a couple of inches of dirt. Add water. You should now have a top quality mud
filled wrestling arena. Be sure that it is easy to get the dirt, and later mud, in and out the area
you are going to play in.

If you have the party indoors, depending on the size of the area you have to work with, the mud
wrestling should be an activity at your party and not necessarily the center of the party. The
simple reason for this being that you may not want to track large amounts of mud into your
house, ahh screw it, what do we care, it's your party, you do what you want. A small kiddie
filled with clean water would be a good way to clean contestants off after their matches. If not
then buckets of water dumped over their head also works very well, at least to get enough mud
off so that they can go get in the shower without clogging the drain. Be sure to have plenty of
towels on hand.

Contestants should come dressed for battle, i.e., in bathing suits with a change of clothes for
afterwards, or nude would be even more fun. The wrestling can be any type you want. Just be
careful that no one hurts themselves. You can try and have a championship style contest where
there is one ultimate winner. Whatever your little hearts desire is okay with us. We won't be
there so what do we care, that is unless we get an invite which would be greatly appreciated.
Have fun and get dirty.

TRUTH or DARE

We're sure that nearly all of you have at least heard of this game, and most of you have probably played it at least once. For the benefit of those of you that have lived under a rock for the majority of your life we thought we would set down the rules.

Truth or Dare is a simple game that requires nothing but a few fun loving people to play. The object of the game is to get each of the players to either reveal some deep dark secret about themselves or else perform an act that will create a new dark secret, as well as embarrass the hell out of them. This game is usually best played with some people who know each other as this
tends to be slightly less embarrassing for all.
To begin play, one participant simply chooses to begin and asks any one of the other players the seemingly harmless question, "Truth or Dare?" The player asked the question must respond by choosing either 'Truth' or 'Dare.' One or the other, sorry folks, them's the rules. If they responded with 'Truth' then the asking player now asks a question to which the player must answer truthfully. If not then they may be punished severely with beatings or heavy consuming.
Easy questions should not be tolerated. Asking a player if they masturbate to Playgirl or Penthouse is a much better question than asking if they like strawberry ice cream.

If the player answered 'Dare' then it is up to the asking player to come up with a dare that is somewhat humiliating but amusing. The more outrageous the better. Challenges such as, "I dare you to kiss Bob on the lips" is much more acceptable than, "I dare you to walk naked into the
police station." If the responding player refuses the dare then punishment should be very severe.
This could include being locked in the basement or ejection from the game. Use your judgment, don't do anything that will leave a mark. After the responding player has either told the truth or completed his or her dare it is now their turn to ask one of the other players, "Truth or Dare." Play continues in this manner until all players have died of embarrassment or humiliation.

Quarters

Quarters is a game of skill that can provide hours of fun and amusement to as little as two
players or as many as one hundred. All that is needed to play is at least one quarter, a shot glass
big enough to fit the quarter into and a hard surface to play on.

Players can position themselves anyway they like however a circle is usually the easiest way to
sit a round a table so try that first. Any player can start the game and future play simply moves
around the gaming area to the left of the player who begins the game. If you find a different
order to be more to your liking then please feel free to play as such. To play the game all you
have to do is bounce the quarter off the table, or whatever surface you are using, and into the
shot glass. That's it. Of course this simple task is a bit more difficult to accomplish than it may
seem. There is no set way to bounce the quarter off the table and each player usually develops
their own technique. Some advanced players can roll the quarter off their nose, onto the table
and into the glass. Others can roll the quarter off their forearm, onto the table and into the
glass. Develop your own special technique and you will be the envy of your peers.

Once a player manages to get the quarter into the glass they are given the privilege of choosing
another player and making them take a drink. The player who got the quarter in the glass then
gets to shoot again. If a player misses the glass then they can either a) pass the quarter and glass
to the next player without penalty or b) they can 'chance it' and take another shot at getting the
quarter in the glass. If they make it then they get to shoot again and make a player drink. If they
miss then they have to take a drink themselves. If a player is skilled enough to get three shots in
a row in the glass, including taking chances, then they get to make a rule. This rule can be
anything within reason that relates to the game or gaming environment. Popular rules include:

·No dragging of anything across the table, which includes the quarter. ·No pointing, especially
at the other players to tell them to drink. "

If a player hits the rim of the glass then it is called a "rimmer" and depending on how the group
wants to play, that can either count as a shot in or else the player has to take a drink.

Some final advice: Don't play on a glass surface or on a good table. Bouncing a piece of metal
on wood does have a tendency to cause marks. We have found that formica provides the best
surface. Other house rules can be implemented such as; If a player bounces a quarter into an
ashtray, or if they bounce it off of the table then they have to drink a certain amount which can
be determined by the players involved in the game. One on one games of Quarters can be quite
painful, especially if one player is hot and the other is having trouble finding the glass.

Naked Party!

As most of us can attest, the human body is perhaps never so pure in it's elegance and beauty as
it is when presented in the nude. It is beyond our faculties to understand why so many refuse to
accept this absolute truth, cowering in fear when confronted with an individual sans fabric of
any sort. Perhaps they simply haven't been introduced to the joys of nakedness in quite the right
atmosphere. It is time that situation is rectified.... It is time for you to throw... a Naked Party.

The party itself is a rather simple affair, the party itself takes care of itself. Be up front with
your guests. Explain to them the nature of the evening, soothing fears and stroking egos, and
impress upon them the reality that all that is truly required of them is the unveiling of the flesh
they so lovingly louffa in the shower each and every morning.

Guests should not come to the party in the buff, however. Those wishing to do so should be
reminded of the difficulties one can encounter when completely naked and pulled to the side of
the road for some traffic violation of some sort. The words party and bail do not tend to dance
harmoniously together in the grand scheme of life. You should further not expect invitees to
disrobe immediately upon entering your home. Ease into things. Phrases like "lets see that
schlong, Brad" or "time to finally get a peek at that hairy bush of yours, eh' Janice" tend to be
less than effective. Play the proper host. Hand out beverages, engage in small talk, and wait until
the time is right. Twenty minutes will do. Then, simply exclaim "let's see some tan lines!!!", and
your party has begun. Who knows, if you play your cards right, you just may find yourself with
a "Get Laid Party" on your hands. Which is, quite rightly, the whole fucking point, now isn't it.
Well, isn't it?

Games: Strip Twister fits in nicely at a Naked Party.

Music: Good music with a fast beat is essential to get those body parts moving.

Drink: Strong alcohol is suggested.

Location: It's always a good idea to throw one of these parties in a house where you won't be
bothered by nosy neighbors, the shades can be closed.


Shaving Party!

This party has a name that kind of explains itself, but is best done with a smaller more intimate group of people. The idea here is to shave someone, and to be shaved, in a fun, exciting manner (Yes it takes some guts, but it is a blast!)....You can have your genitals, legs, head or whatever
other ideas that you have done by a volunteer or a trusted friend.

Let your mind wander with this idea and go as far as you dare. Remember though, if anyone is uncomfortable with this idea then the experience for all can be ruined.

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Ron & Wendy's monthly themes

Sheer Pleasure
If you can see through it ...
... it's "Sheer Pleasure" ...
... and right for tonight!
A really perfect theme for exhibitionists who like to flaunt it ...
... and also for voyeurs who love to see it!
A great contest for the sexiest, shimmeriest, slinkiest, sheerest outfit ...
... either on or off your body!


Great Panty Hunt
An Erotic Scavenger Hunt with a very sexy twist!
You'll get a list describing various panties.
Your mission is to go out and find them!
You'll get points for identifying who is wearing what ...
... you'll get double points for scooping their panties off them!
If you'll be wearing any unusual panties
(guys boxers & briefs too!)
that you think should be on the list, please let us know!
Exceptional fun!

Amateur Strip Night
If you've ever had a fantasy of having the dance floor all to yourself
with all eyes on you as you do a slow seductive strip,
then this is the night for you!
Come on out and let your hair down
(along with everything else!)
Come on out and see what our members can do when they really let loose!
As with all our contests, this is open to guys and girls
- the ladies want to see some flesh, too!
A 1 year Club Eros Gold Card membership for the overall winner!


Mean Jeans Night
The ultimate denim night!
Wear your tightest, ass huggin jeans,
the ones with the sexy rips and tears in places
that you simply can't show in public!
Denim jeans, denim shorts, denim shirts, denim skirts ...
... blue denim, black denim, white denim ...
... denim reigns supreme on this night
(I even remember a denim corset one gal wore a couple of years back!)
Naturally enough, a contest for the sexiest denim outfit!


Hallowe'en Costume Ball
Our busiest most exciting dance of the year!
Our Annual Hallowe'en Costume Party,
a bash like no other you have seen before!
Fantasies are not merely unleashed ...
... they are paraded front & centre!
This is the night when everybody comes out in costume,
from mild to wild to beyond description or belief!
We will judge the Costume Contest to End All Costume Contests in 3 separate categories:
Most Together Couple,
Most Original Costume and
Sexiest Costume.
(Don't forget to sign up at the door for the category(s) you wish to enter)

The wildest, busiest, most outrageous event on our calendar!
The costumes are simply unbelievable!
Sexy ... Scary ... Simple ... Scanty ... Sensuous ... Seductive
Come on out and let your fantasies take over!

Living in Lingerie
Everyone's absolute favorite dress-up
(or is that un-dress) theme: Lingerie Night!
Wear your sexiest lingerie and come out to check everyone else out in theirs!
Enter the Sexiest Lingerie Contest!


Sadie Hawkins
In the fine old Dogpatch traditions of L'il Abner and Daisy Mae,
we invite you to come on out for the ultimate ladies night
- Ladies Choice all night long!
That's right, the ladies do the askin' ...
... the ladies do the chasin' ...
... and the ladies do the grabbin' and clutchin'!
And hey guys... if'n they catch you,
well ... you're fair game!

Ladies get out your Daisy Duke shorts and your off-the-shoulder blouses,
'cause we'll have a prize for the best Daisy Mae costume in the house!


Fall Ball
A chance to get gussied up in your finery
for one of our two semi-annual, semi-formals!
Dress to impress this evening!
Special spot dance prizes!
Sexy, slinky evening wear!
(Lingerie of course as always is an acceptable alternative!
Semi formal, or semi dressed - the choice is yours!)

Jammin' Jammies
Get out your sexiest PJ's and come on out to our Pajama Party.
Who knows, you just might get invited to someone's sleepover!
And if you don't wear PJ's ... that's OK ...
... simply wear what you wear - or don't wear - to bed!
Naturally enough we'll have a prize for the Sexiest & Slinkiest PJ's,
also a prize for the warmest, fuzziest flannel PJ's too!
Half off bonus - Half price admission to those who wear their jammies!
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1) Wet T-shirt contest- Ladies bring along your t-shirts. tank tops and
a towel. If you haven t got a garment you want wetted down borrow one of
ours.At the appointed hour climb aboard the big bar and prepare to be
hosed down from every direction. Men bring along your watering devices or we can supply you.


2) Homage to Tushies- At midnight we ll feature a contest to select a
variety of not-so-cheap champagne winning backsides. Maybe the most
beautiful, the biggest, the smallest, the hairiest (it is a coed event)
the best show by a bottom. We haven t quite decided yet. We do know there
will be five winners so we may honor every type of ass imaginable.


3) Almost Naked Night.- Please wear your thongs, bikinis and speedos.
We ll pretend we re on a very private beach and see what develops. You
won t need any sunblock, but a little body oil might be in order.
The evening will be capped off with a bathing beauty contest. Climb
aboard the big bar and show off your thinned down buffed up bodies.
Not-so-cheap champagne to the best bod, another to the best showoff in almost nothing, and one more to a participant non-winner of a previous contest. Let's get raunchy!!!


4) Adults Only" interactive intramural Graffiti Night - Wear an old
t-shirt, undershirt, sweat shirt or tank top. We ll distribute non-toxic
markers, crayons and chalk. Then it will your turn to display you artistic
talents all over one another. Don't hold back. It will be fun!

4) Sexual Scavenger Hunt- Here is how this fun game works. Have a
couple of cocktails, to get in the mood to play. Then form a group of four to
eight and register your team at the DJ booth. Each team will be given a list
of items to search for. You will be looking for things like special styles
or colors of undergarments, stylized and fanciful birth control devices,
sex toys, and/or special body parts and/or decorations and enhancements.


5) Braille Beauty Pageant - Here is how this fabulous coed contest
works. First male contestants line up on the bartop. Blindfolded female judges, standing on a platform, work their way up and down the line judging the silent entrants by touch alone. Touch, caress, fondle, lick, whatever,
but no peeking. Winners will be selected by number. Bottles of not-so-cheap
champagne to the top two contestants. The more cooperative the entrant

[Desi]

Holy cow, curiousinNC! You hit the motherlode, didn't you??

I'll have to sift through these. Thanks for all the ideas. You're a star!



Desi

[curiousinNC]

We were just laughing about that, our post is awfully long and goes on and on....

Anyhow, glad to be a help, hope you find something of interest in there for you.

Take care!

J&L