Sex in public - we're thinking of trying a nude resort that allows sex

[DeanJG]

Wow! My post sure struck a nerve in a lot of people. Unfortunately, many didn't read my post carefully to find answers to most of the concerns. First, there are indeed nudist resorts that allow sex. I used the term "nude resort" because that's how they describe themselves. Yes, my girlfriend I went to one place before, but it was during a weekday and practically nobody was there. We're trying it again next month on one of their party weekend nights to get the real flavor of the place. Not knowing what to expect, yes, we're nervous. We FULLY understand the difference with traditional nudist resorts, and understand how naturists view the "nude not lewd" edict. The places we're talking about are NOT family places, and no children are allowed.

Secondly, our escapades in public are very controlled. We only go nude in public at night and in deserted places in "safe" neighborhoods. Certainly if we saw families and children around, duh, that's a no-go.

I hope to have cleared up some misconceptions. We've been doing this for nearly two years now, and have had the times of our lives.

[tribbles]

I understand not going to FA since they don't allow the nudity you like....but there are other clubs/parties that do allow it and there is often some great sex as well.

socalpleasureseekers at some parties and clubcb at all of them are okay with being nude except around the food.

Go to the Club Listings here and just start emailing or calling and asking "Can we both be nude everywhere but by the food?"

And for sure, do go back to SMI on a Saturday. Both times we have been have been a total blast....just be sure to stay for the evening as well....the super good stuff doesn't start till after 9 or 10 pm

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[Amanda69]

We're just into being watched and we're thinking of trying a nude resort that allows sex. We don't know what to expect at all, and we're very nervous.

DeanJG this is from your original post. You did not mention there that you have actually found a place just that you were thinking of trying one.

Now in the recent post you said:

Unfortunately, many didn't read my post carefully to find answers to most of the concerns. First, there are indeed nudist resorts that allow sex. I used the term "nude resort" because that's how they describe themselves. Yes, my girlfriend I went to one place before, but it was during a weekday and practically nobody was there.

A little confusing, in the first post you don't mention having been just that you want to try one. So the responses from the posters were to that comment. Now that you have clarified that point I think you also have your answer to the other question.


It seems that most of us do not know any "nudist resorts" strictly for adults that allow sex and therefore would have difficulty giving you advice on what to expect.

Maybe you can share where these places are or how to find them. What are they like? How do they prevent families from coming in? Do they advertise?

Secondly, our escapades in public are very controlled.

Odd comment as the part most people get off on about having sex in public is the possibility of being caught. You can't control who is around you or walking by at the time especially out on an open field. Personally I used to prefer to stick to inside the car or better yet van. Though once just outside a car, daylight, during a lightning storm was a real kick.

[Chris&Suzanne]

Amanda, if you are still reading this post..

"Chris and Suzanne what is reasonable to one is not to someone else. We spent recently $1,400 all inclusive, for two at a 4 + star resort in the Dominican. Heck you can have sex and fun whereever you go. For us the cost is too prohibitive just to see naked bodies."

Wow 1400 is great. did that include airfare? Our airfare is about 1200 for two as we are on the west coast.

Please tell all of us about the resore I'm sure we are all interested in it.

[Amanda69]

Yes it did include airfare....there are many last minute vacations available from Canada and the US to many destinations on the various Islands. We have been 3 times since last November, twice to the Dominican and once to Cuba never paying more than $1500 for the two of us.

My suggestions for the Dominican would be any of the Rui hotels, very good quality and close to all sorts of things. There is also the Bahi Principe in the Playa Grande Resort that comes highly recommended.

Try selloffvacations.com or itravel2000 for websites that specialize in selling off vacations. Try to book at min 2 weeks before as in the last week before alot of hotels pull off their offers and the prices go up a bit.

The Dominican and Cuba are also open to topless sunbathing. They don't even give a second glance. I got so comfortable I used to go to the bar for drinks with my top off.

[Chris&Suzanne]

Ha Ha, boy am I an idiot. Just noticed/realised you are in Canada.

Cuba is out for us here in the US.

Now I assume 1400 is $CDN still a pretty good price even when converted to $US.

The Dominican resorts do they put up with full nudity and fun and games among the guests whithout having to retreat to you rooms?

I will try to find the resort on the web, unless you have a link to them already.

Thanks

(are we thread drifting here board? If so I apologise)

[bimickie26]

There's a whole bunch of nude and swingers resorts here - http://www.travelsdc.com/

Shag yourselves silly babies...

[dmandfw]

we have found in the nudist clubs we are members of or visited, that swing LS is usually just below the surface, and it depends on how the ownership of the club handles it ... none will accept open sexual acts ... that is a ticket to the gate ... but after dark, and in descrete locations it is tollerated and maybe in some cases allowed because they also particpate in the lifestyle ... so they just look the other way as long as no one complains or there are minors around

[tribbles]

Another one in California...yahoo search for hideawaycouples

[webbguy]

Hedo 2 is the place to go for nude sex. A lot on the nude beach and at the pool and hot tub. I even had sex at the bar on new years eve.

[fitcouple]

Check out Sea mountain inn in Palm Springs area, close to you and it would be right up your alley. We are alot like you guys and have a great time there.

[seamountain]

the only true resort that is a Nude resort for swing lifestyle is sea mountain inn
very clean
very classy
very cool
open every day of the year
respect the Nude resorts all of them in the usa are for families -dont disturb them with swing activity
come visit sea mountain inn
where you have the best of both worlds
Sea Mountain Ranch Resort and Spa Palm Springs Desert Hot Springs California - Luxurious Romantic Hotel Nudist Clothing Optional Resort Palm Springs Desert Hot Springs California - 5-Star Adult Day Spa in Palm Springs Desert Hot Springs - Relaxation

[Farcanal]

Google : Dogging" and see what comes up

[sexyvegascarla]

Well we have one, and I can honestly say that people seem to be really at ease. Half are nudist and the others are lifestylist............i am a nudist during the summer but not in this chilly temp..........hehehehehehehe

[celtic239]

If being voyeuristic is a great turn on why not join an on premise swingers club. You can also try Desire resort in Cancun. While the public policy is no PDA's the hot tub and the beach beds at night are rockin.