How do you start things at a house party?

[crazy4u]

We have been to a few house parties in the past and a new couple has invited us over next week for an evening of hot tubbing and whatever. My question is this, how do you start the actual act? This might sound funny but I find the hardest part is getting things started in a private house setting (with only 2 couples). We aren't into ice breaker games but does anyone have a few suggestions? You ended up talking for hours waiting for the first move to be made...help.

[JustAskJulie]

The hot tub should be enough to get things going. If they don't encourage it then suggest that everyone get in naked. Once bodies are naked things tend to move pretty easily on their own.

[wiscpl]

We host couples at our house from time to time and have a hot tub for just this reason. We find that if a couple is comfortable enough to go into our hot tub with us then we're fairly certain they are ready for more.

The hot tub is secluded so we offer the option of wearing suits or not. If the couple is really hot we just come walking out of the bathroom naked and ask what they are waiting for. facelick

[BiloxiCouple]

Originally Posted by crazy47

We have been to a few house parties in the past and a new couple has invited us over next week for an evening of hot tubbing and whatever.

If it was just us and another couple it wouldn't really be "whatever" it would be for sex. If you don't want to have sex with this couple I wouldn't go at all.

Now if it was a house party with multiple couples attending then it may be whatever.

Forget the ice breakers and games with only two couples. Get in the hot tub, naked of course, and cozy up to the other couple and things will get going without having to wait for hours.

[discoandvyper]

I dunno Biloxi. There's more to meeting a couple than having sex with them, at least in our books. There's no rule that says they have to have sex - if it's not the right time/date, there's always another day.

[naughtyblonde]

I have a phobia of hot tubs, and no experience with swinging yet, but I plan on using the old, "Oh, my lower back is killing me! Could someone please give me a quick back rub?"

teehee

[ht805cpl]

Hot tubs are a good intro, especially if everyone gets naked first, and we love it as an intro. But if you are a couple like us who does not own one, my experence is it is always awakard at first, but after some small talk, a couple things we do, is one my wife will say well shall we go in the bed room, and we all usually go there and things get going, or I will mention how it is always awakard the first time couples meet, followed by a "1, 2, 3 go, and start taking off my clothes, and others will follow. Face it we all know going into the meeting we are there to play, once the clothes come off, all is good, things happen naturally.
One other thing we do alot is the wife is dressed in a sheer night gown with a light silk robe over it, so it is easy for me to slip off her robe as we are all talking and things just progress from there. It is amazing how nudity or simi nudity moves the party along to the next level.
Good luck, and enjoy, once you are all naked or start stripping the rest will fall into place. The good thing about couples who are comfortable with each other, is sometimes it is almost a race to see who gets naked first.

[flkeyscouple]

Hot tubs seem to be the 'let's start' button! And a great way to start too! Once one person starts to strip to get to the hot tub, the rest just follow along. Once in the tub the fun just starts. If it takes some time to start you can sit up on the edge (too hot in the tub) and your SO can simply rub your leg, or something equally innocent. OR... if you are lucky the opposite partner will do the rubbing!

Have a great time!

Sarah

[cuzzeyesaidso]

I remember we had this one couple over 2 times before we actually got down to having some fun. The first two times we just sat around watching TV and chatting about......a whole bunch of nothing. So on the 3rd visit I went into the bathroom and showered. I came out with a towel around my waist and walked over the the other woman. She had a surprised look on her face. I grabber her by the hand and walked her to our room. My wife and her husband followed soon after. If it wasn't for that we would have never played I don't think. Turned out later that we were better off not playing with them.

[Second of 2]

Originally Posted by cuzzeyesaidso

Turned out later that we were better off not playing with them.

Could something be said for their early hesitation that was a warning about what the future held?

[EricSacto2]

We played strip poker. After somebody lost all their clothes, then they have to perform acts. This eases everybody into the mood and provides a bit of suspense.

When we played with my wife's old college roommate and her boyfriend, we were pleasantly surprised when we found her college roommate didn't wear any underwear.

[two_open_minds]

We have a stip poker game called "Naked" each card has an article of clothing on it, so if you have the winning hand you give one of your wining cards to each player, this specifies what comes off. After clothing is gone, favors work well I also recently bought a book of party games, they go from mild to wild. Havent had a chance to use it yet but they are all set up for foursomes or moresomes. I think how you start out and with what depends on the people you are with, the boudries which are in place and the comfort levels already developed. And as someone else said, Sex doesnt have the be the end result everytime. Fun can be had in many different ways and there is always another night for additional fun if all has gone well.

[digger_22]

When we throw a house party with 6-8 couples,we always put it on the invite. Party starts at 8:00 (drinks,food and socializing),clothes come off at 10:00. My wife and I always pick a partner to start the ball rolling,we have had 2 hours to entice our choice and things have always worked from their. Once the hosts and their choice is naked, then there partner usually follows and pretty soon we have a nice group swing going. we have had over 8 parties started in this manner and have 100% success.

[hmr]

A great ice breaker is sex dice. They can be gotten at most "toy stores'. We use them rather often especially at larger parties. One die has a body part ( above waist, nipples, etc.) the other has a function( lick, suck, etc.) good way to start things. the dice thrower gets to pick who he or she plays with for about 30 seconds.We have 2 sets in case it is a larger party and in case some people seem to take longer

However, that IS the idea.

[spectraschain]

Spectra usually attacks the dude. By the time she has her sights set, well, the rest is history...
As aggressive as this sounds, we've not had an issue...she's good at what she does, and does it in such a way that everyone is comfortable.
I love this chick...........