Masturbation Parties?

summitcouple · 06-26-2006, 04:13 PM

We a very new to the lifestyle. We have read some posts here about men masturbating at clubs while watching others have sex. We do not mind as long as they "keep to themselves" unless invited. We were wondering about attending a masturbation party. We both like to masturbate, and often do in front of each other, the thought of doing it in the presence of others doing the same is something of a turn on. May seem naive, but do these exsist? has anyone been? do they happen at clubs? are we alone out here?

Thank You in advance

J&R

sands35071 · 06-26-2006, 06:19 PM

Not sure where you live, but there is a very active group like this in central FL. www.clubrelate.com I believe is the web site. Nice goup of people, from the party I attended.

JnCC · 06-26-2006, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by summitcouple

We have read some posts here about men masturbating at clubs while watching others have sex. We were wondering about attending a masturbation party. We both like to masturbate, and often do in front of each other, the thought of doing it in the presence of others doing the same is something of a turn on. May seem naive, but do these exsist? has anyone been? do they happen at clubs? are we alone out here?

I thought the purpose of going to a swing club was so you didn't have to masturbate?

Going to a club, only to spank your own monkey all night would seem to defeat the purpose of going in the first place.

What's next...a "Banquet for Bulimics?"

CuriousInOregon · 06-26-2006, 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by JnCC

I thought the purpose of going to a swing club was so you didn't have to masturbate?

Going to a club, only to spank your own monkey all night would seem to defeat the purpose of going in the first place.

What's next...a "Banquet for Bulimics?"

OUCH I do belive the question was NOT going go to a swingers club to masterbate but is there a CLUB that has masturbation instead of full on swap, Not to jump an ass but Read before you comment sometimes words can be hurtful

as far as the question goes I have not Personally heard of any 'Masturbation clubs around here but Good Luck Surrender

sereneiders · 06-26-2006, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by JnCC

I thought the purpose of going to a swing club was so you didn't have to masturbate?

Going to a club, only to spank your own monkey all night would seem to defeat the purpose of going in the first place.

What's next...a "Banquet for Bulimics?"

It's obvious that for you the masturbation is the last resource to get some pleasure when you cannot get "the real thing".

And it is obvious for the OP masturbation is just another way to express and enjoy their sexuality, not intended to replace "the real thing".

In any case, theres no reason to be harsh with them just because this isn't your cup of tea.

JnCC · 06-26-2006, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by CuriousInOregon

OUCH I do belive the question was NOT going go to a swingers club to masterbate but is there a CLUB that has masturbation instead of full on swap, Not to jump an ass but Read before you comment sometimes words can be hurtful

as far as the question goes I have not Personally heard of any 'Masturbation clubs around here but Good Luck Surrender

OK, serious answer then...

Yes, there ARE such clubs. One is in San Francisco, and was profiled in an episode of "Real Sex" a few years ago, but I have heard of others. As I recall, the problem with them was that they were supportive of mutual-masturbation only. Meaning that, even if the mood did strike to touch another, it was not permitted in the club. It seemed like a lot of people, flogging a lot of meat, but not really experiencing anything other than a sort of "shared loneliness." It's definitely a "fringe" activity, which means it may be hard to find such a group in every locale.

Gee, what do you think they show on the video monitors at clubs like that? Good, old-fashioned porn, or excerpts from "Beavis and Butthead" and "Something About Mary?"

Thrax · 06-26-2006, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by JnCC

Gee, what do you think they show on the video monitors at clubs like that..."Something About Mary?"

Ooooooohhhh...fap, fap, fap...

Thrax

JnCC · 06-26-2006, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Thrax

Ooooooohhhh...fap, fap, fap...

Thrax

Yea, assuming they even have showers at the club, I don't think I'd be using their hair-gel...

singleagain · 06-26-2006, 08:24 PM

When I was growing up "mutual masturbation" was called a "circle jerk". If you participated people looked at you funny

JnCC · 06-26-2006, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by singleagain

When I was growing up "mutual masturbation" was called a "circle jerk". If you participated people looked at you funny

And when you told them that you were the "Pivot Man" they looked at you REAL funny...

Suncouple · 06-27-2006, 12:40 AM

I remember an old Boy Scout legend about a party where a small number of boys would have a masturbation contest in the dark. Masturbation noises filled the room after lights out. The first one to come would shout out "done" to announce his winner-dom.

The lights would be turned on when the unlucky scout shouted "done!" and the winner would actually be the mark. Everyone else was fully clothed and staring at the embarrased Tenderfoot.

I don't know if this ever really happened but we were all warned.

visaman · 06-27-2006, 01:00 AM

In Vancouver, there used to be a men's only Vancouver Jacks club, but it was homo based, and folded ver quickly.

**BiloxiCouple** · 06-27-2006, 01:06 AM

Damn, and I thought the internet was suppose to be the information highway and has degenerated to whacking with porn.

I guess that means those adult magazines aren't intended for art?

Masturbation parties are great if that is what you want. Just like any other type of party you want to attend.

If you are enjoying what you are doing and hurting no one, then go for it. Everyone has an opinion, some just stink worse than others.

Wife Watcher · 03-29-2007, 01:28 AM

I would love to go to a masturbation club. The thought of men watching my wife play with herself is very arousing as well as the thought of me masturbating infront of strangers. I have masturbated infront of my wifes brother who is my age when we where team driving over the road. He enjoyed watching me but that's all that happened.

daviscpl · 10-01-2009, 09:59 AM

my wife and I would love to have party like that-- people jacking and jilling for others to watch and join in the fun maybe help each other get off-- that make us hot

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06-26-2006, 04:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
summitcouple Active Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 36 Location: Summit, NJ Status: Couple	Masturbation Parties? We a very new to the lifestyle. We have read some posts here about men masturbating at clubs while watching others have sex. We do not mind as long as they "keep to themselves" unless invited. We were wondering about attending a masturbation party. We both like to masturbate, and often do in front of each other, the thought of doing it in the presence of others doing the same is something of a turn on. May seem naive, but do these exsist? has anyone been? do they happen at clubs? are we alone out here? Thank You in advance J&R

06-26-2006, 06:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
sands35071 Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Alabama	Re: Masturbation Parties? Not sure where you live, but there is a very active group like this in central FL. www.clubrelate.com I believe is the web site. Nice goup of people, from the party I attended.

06-26-2006, 08:24 PM	#9 (permalink)
singleagain Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 110 Location: Charlotte, NC	Re: Masturbation Parties? When I was growing up "mutual masturbation" was called a "circle jerk". If you participated people looked at you funny

06-27-2006, 12:40 AM	#11 (permalink)
Suncouple Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 52 Location: Texas	Re: Masturbation Parties? I remember an old Boy Scout legend about a party where a small number of boys would have a masturbation contest in the dark. Masturbation noises filled the room after lights out. The first one to come would shout out "done" to announce his winner-dom. The lights would be turned on when the unlucky scout shouted "done!" and the winner would actually be the mark. Everyone else was fully clothed and staring at the embarrased Tenderfoot. I don't know if this ever really happened but we were all warned.

06-27-2006, 01:00 AM	#12 (permalink)
visaman Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 14 Location: Vancouver	Re: Masturbation Parties? In Vancouver, there used to be a men's only Vancouver Jacks club, but it was homo based, and folded ver quickly.

06-27-2006, 01:06 AM	#13 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Masturbation Parties? Damn, and I thought the internet was suppose to be the information highway and has degenerated to whacking with porn. I guess that means those adult magazines aren't intended for art? Masturbation parties are great if that is what you want. Just like any other type of party you want to attend. If you are enjoying what you are doing and hurting no one, then go for it. Everyone has an opinion, some just stink worse than others.
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03-29-2007, 01:28 AM	#14 (permalink)
Wife Watcher Registered Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 6 Location: South Status: Couple	Re: Masturbation Parties? I would love to go to a masturbation club. The thought of men watching my wife play with herself is very arousing as well as the thought of me masturbating infront of strangers. I have masturbated infront of my wifes brother who is my age when we where team driving over the road. He enjoyed watching me but that's all that happened.

10-01-2009, 09:59 AM	#15 (permalink)
daviscpl Registered User Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1 Location: utah Status: couple	Re: Masturbation Parties? my wife and I would love to have party like that-- people jacking and jilling for others to watch and join in the fun maybe help each other get off-- that make us hot

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