Public Play or Private

Just_us49 · 04-04-2005, 09:31 AM

In the club setting, I'm wondering if you prefer to play in a public area or opt for the private rooms.

-D

Vespertine · 04-04-2005, 10:13 AM

I voted for the private areas, though we haven't been to a lifestyle club yet.

I like to concentrate on the task at hand, I'm not big on having an audience.

**good times** · 04-04-2005, 02:20 PM

We prefer private play over public but do both.

ALilOEverything · 04-04-2005, 06:30 PM

I found that it totally depended on my mood. The first public play all the rooms were taken but I was so turned on that we went at it right in front of everyone drawing a small crowd. I didn't notice them too much as I went inside myself with the intensity of the situation. The next time we went we used a private room in the beginning of the night and nothing was lost by not having all the spectators.

BradAndJanet · 04-04-2005, 07:45 PM

I chose private, but it depends on the definition of 'play'. Does J giving me a blowjob in the 'couch room' count?

-B

Spoomonkey · 04-04-2005, 08:06 PM

Private...

I would love to be watched - have a fantasy about that - but playing in the public room wouldn't work for us at all. I guess we would want to control who watched. To be honest, I am very particular (as is Mrs Spoo) about who sees her naked...

Go figure...

Well - even us swingers have our quirks

Spoomonkey

Just_us49 · 04-05-2005, 09:49 AM

Spoo - Once again you have taken the words right out of my mouth...I must have a touch of simian in my family tree somewhere.....

We both love the idea of being watched, BUT we prefer to choose who gets that special treat.

9 times out of 10 when M gets up on the dance floor, and especially with another woman, it feels like the entire club gathers around to watch. I'm fine with that cause she isn’t naked. Well not completely anyway.

We have played one time in public with another couple and I felt like that we were surrounded by a pack of hunger wolves

I didn't care for it at all. The other female loved it, so I realize it's all about what you like. We ended up going to a private room to finish up and it had a curtain separating you from the public and people kept pulling back the curtain to look. It really bugged me probably because I would never do that. (I brought it to the attention of the owners and they are fixing the problem.)

I agree with Vespertine, I like to focus on the task at hand and I can't do that with distractions.

-D

sensuality · 04-05-2005, 01:13 PM

facelick Public and semi-private...Hubby and I are seriously exhibitionistic...we like the "possibility" that someone is watching as well as knowing for sure people are watching.We also love to put on a show on the dancefloor. <EG>

northindycpl · 04-05-2005, 01:25 PM

I don't mind either. Although... I have an issue with playing in the sex swing in public, or being completely naked. I don't have an issue with much else.

I supposed it matters most to me what the comfort level is of those I am with. I want to know the experience is the best it can be, and others can often be distracted or uncomfortable, and I don't like that.

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View Poll Results: When at a club, do you like play in Public or Private?
We/I like them both - No Preference	23	54.76%
We/I play in private areas	9	21.43%
We/I play in public areas	9	21.43%
We don't play at clubs - We watch others play	0	0%
No option for me I'll post below	1	2.38%
Voters: 42. You may not vote on this poll

04-04-2005, 09:31 AM	#1 (permalink)
Just_us49 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 153 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	Public Play or Private In the club setting, I'm wondering if you prefer to play in a public area or opt for the private rooms. -D __________________ D (male) M (Female) The problem with popular thinking is that it doesn't require you to think at all.

04-04-2005, 10:13 AM	#2 (permalink)
Vespertine Retired Mod Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: Public Play or Private I voted for the private areas, though we haven't been to a lifestyle club yet. I like to concentrate on the task at hand, I'm not big on having an audience. __________________ Ves The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral.

04-04-2005, 02:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,755 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Public Play or Private We prefer private play over public but do both. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

04-04-2005, 06:30 PM	#4 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,647 Location: Michigan Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:aliloeverything	Re: Public Play or Private I found that it totally depended on my mood. The first public play all the rooms were taken but I was so turned on that we went at it right in front of everyone drawing a small crowd. I didn't notice them too much as I went inside myself with the intensity of the situation. The next time we went we used a private room in the beginning of the night and nothing was lost by not having all the spectators. __________________ ~Lilo

04-04-2005, 07:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,072 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Re: Public Play or Private I chose private, but it depends on the definition of 'play'. Does J giving me a blowjob in the 'couch room' count? -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

04-04-2005, 08:06 PM	#6 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,732 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Public Play or Private Private... I would love to be watched - have a fantasy about that - but playing in the public room wouldn't work for us at all. I guess we would want to control who watched. To be honest, I am very particular (as is Mrs Spoo) about who sees her naked... Go figure... Well - even us swingers have our quirks Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

04-05-2005, 09:49 AM	#7 (permalink)
Just_us49 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 153 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	Re: Public Play or Private Spoo - Once again you have taken the words right out of my mouth...I must have a touch of simian in my family tree somewhere..... We both love the idea of being watched, BUT we prefer to choose who gets that special treat. 9 times out of 10 when M gets up on the dance floor, and especially with another woman, it feels like the entire club gathers around to watch. I'm fine with that cause she isn’t naked. Well not completely anyway. We have played one time in public with another couple and I felt like that we were surrounded by a pack of hunger wolves I didn't care for it at all. The other female loved it, so I realize it's all about what you like. We ended up going to a private room to finish up and it had a curtain separating you from the public and people kept pulling back the curtain to look. It really bugged me probably because I would never do that. (I brought it to the attention of the owners and they are fixing the problem.) I agree with Vespertine, I like to focus on the task at hand and I can't do that with distractions. -D __________________ D (male) M (Female) The problem with popular thinking is that it doesn't require you to think at all.

04-05-2005, 01:13 PM	#8 (permalink)
sensuality Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 298 Location: california Status: happily,ecstatically married	Re: Public Play or Private facelick Public and semi-private...Hubby and I are seriously exhibitionistic...we like the "possibility" that someone is watching as well as knowing for sure people are watching.We also love to put on a show on the dancefloor. <EG> __________________ To truly see beauty, close your eyes...and see with your heart....mois

04-05-2005, 01:25 PM	#9 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,425 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM Swing Lifestyle Name:northindycpl	Re: Public Play or Private I don't mind either. Although... I have an issue with playing in the sex swing in public, or being completely naked. I don't have an issue with much else. I supposed it matters most to me what the comfort level is of those I am with. I want to know the experience is the best it can be, and others can often be distracted or uncomfortable, and I don't like that. __________________ Mrs. Indy

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