Clubwear

[arcpl4mfm]

We are going to attend our first club next month and was wondering what type of costume the guys like seeing most.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

We've seen everything from jeans, leather pants/miniskirt, nice dress or skirts, etc.

I think the main thing that is a turn on for the guys is not so much 'what the woman is wearing' as how she acts in it. Wear something that "you" feel really sexy in, something that makes you feel irresistable. Mr Spoo can tell when I am not happy with the outfit I have chosen for club night but when I get into something that I feel oh so sexy in we almost can't get out of the house and on those nights I get a lot of attention. It just makes you feel more flirtly and carry yourself in a seductive way when you feel good in your clothes. I've seen women in jeans and a sweater command the attention of every man in the room.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[LikeMinds321]

Being comfortable with your choice of clothing is most important.

One thing I'd suggest: Don't make yourself wear something revealing if you won't feel like yourself in it.

Give yourself time to get to know the club atmosphere and with more visits to the club you may change your attire.

To start, wear what you like, not what you think you should be wearing.

LM

[NakedInSeattle]

Mrs. Naked always wears something sexy under conservative or takes something sexy to change into (never know if you will be stopped by cops - lol). You might even take more than one outfit if you are uncertain what would fit in with the rest of the gals. Then change when comfortable.

facelick Always remember, however, showing a little is sexier than showing it all. And make sure it is easy for a guy to reach into in case you click on the dance floor. You don't want to be wrestling with snaps, buckles and such when getting a little frisky.

Have fun! facelick

[eager4more]

Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle

facelick Always remember, however, showing a little is sexier than showing it all.

That's what I say, but hubby disagrees. His excuse is that guys must have things clearly spelled out for them

[northindycpl]

Dito LM and Mrs. Spoo!

I have to wear what I feel sexy in. And my outfits go from Jeans and my favorite AE monkey t-shirt to sequined slip dresses.

The most important thing to me in dressing is that I feel sexy and confident.

I am also bothered when I see women at the clubs that are fidgety with their clothes. It is clear immediately that they aren't comfortable showing that much, or the ties and ribbons are in the way, etc. etc. etc.

When I shop for something, I have a rule that I must be able to move in it, sit in it, kneel in it and remove it quickly. No matter what it is that I am wearing/buying I run it through my personal test when I get home and make sure that it fits the bill. (Mr. Indy loves to watch my ritual)

I also look for things made of natual fibers now. It seems the temperatures at clubs vary so dramatically that they are sometimes really hot at the worst times. I make sure that I find cotton, leather, silk. It is worth the extra money for me to buy quality and be as comfortable as possible. I will never again wear vinyl! LOL

[Doug19482000]

The owners of the club we attend is unhappy because over the last year members, women I assume, are not dressing as sexy as they did in the past. He took the mic the encourage more comfortable attire as he put it. He would like more nudity. I'm sure he figures attire is why we go to his club. I think he is probably right. Any ideas on how to get more couples to disrobe after a certain hour? Games maybe?

[Funovit]

The best party we ever attended was an underwear and lingerie party. The hostess mandated that everyone undress upon entering the party. No one was permitted to get dressed until they were ready to leave for the night.

Having 30+ couples wearing underwear/lingerie and less sure does set the mood. Plus there's that much less to remove when passion strikes.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Doug19482000

Any ideas on how to get more couples to disrobe after a certain hour? Games maybe?

We went to a club where they really tried to push folks out of their comfort zones - some of those folks were us. We never went back.

We aren't comfortable getting naked in the public areas. Some people prefer to keep their clothes on until things get intimate.

But - I would guess that getting everyone involved in some sort of game and comfortable with everyone in the room would be a great way to help people move towards nudity. But, I think it should be fairly clear that this is expected, so people can choose to come to the club/party or not. The lingerie party mentioned above let's people know what they are in for - and that is just fine.

Spoomonkey

[MrNorthIndyCpl]

Mrs. Spoomonkey hit the nail on the head!

Wear what makes you feel sexy! A woman that feels sexy - IS sexy.

John

[FunCalifCple]

What works best for my wife is not a particular costume, but several changes as the evening progresses. The club we attend provides lockers, and allows all members to store their personals for retrieval throughout the night. Early in the evening she may wear a short sexy cocktail dress. This gives us a chance to mingle in, say hi to old acquaintances, and make new ones. Depending how the evening progresses, she may change into something more daring, again, depending on how the evening goes. Some of her lingerie is almost non-removable, other ones totally suggestive and provocative to be undone by the persons’ discresion she’s with. On most Saturday nights after midnight, especially during summer nights, most ladies end up dancing in their high heels and just a smile.

[CandTinLorainCo]

I (MO) suggest you both wear what makes you feel comfy and really not worry so much as what not to wear, the key is "on the floor naked, we all look the same" As far as others have said personal preferances are just that go with what makes you both happy, afterall thats what it is about anyhow. just my thought.

-C

[BradAndJanet]

J likes to dress up in clothes that make her feel sexy, especially stuff like PVC or leather. Lately she's been into corsets, which flatter the middle, push up the boobs and show off her nice shoulders. Getting 'into costume' helps set the mood for her and makes her feel good about herself. I love what she looks like and we go shopping together a lot.

In general, I like to see women in clothes or lingerie that both flatters the body type they have and leaves something to the imagination. It's more enticing to wonder about what I can't see!

-B