Party Games and Icebreakers - Sexy, fun ideas!

[JustAskJulie]

Here is a question I received a while back:

We have been in the lifestyle for about 2.5 years. We have 2 couples whom we party with, separtely though. We are thinking of having a party at our house and inviting those two couples. I have been searching for ideas on ice breakers. I guess we are looking for something a bit on the mature, erotic side and have not found anything. We were just wondering if you have any ideas or can point us in the right direction. Even some party themes would be a possibility.

Any thoughts for party games and icebreakers?

Julie

[JudeTx]

We have a game called "Intimate Commands" which can be as tame or wild as you and your friends are willing to let it me. It's a board game with a layout similar to Monopoly, with various "commands" given through the game. The best "commands" are the ones the players get to create themselves! We found it at a Lingerie type store that also has toys and games. Hope this helps.

[JustAskJulie]

There are actually lots of really great board games out there aimed at couples.. and some at multiple couples. The ones aimed at couples, can be adapted so that more than one couple can play.. you just play as teams...

There are quite a few in the Swingers ToyStore..
http://www.sextoyfun.com/cgibin/conv...tert/game.html

I would suggest to avoid the games with multiple spinners. Based on sexperience.. by the time you finish getting all those spinner to actually land on somethign other than a line.. you can lose the mood. One game on the list above that I have personally tried and would reccomend is "Hearts Are Wild".

Julie

[TxCpl1972]

The Behind Closed Doors Party Game
By
Jack Handy

Items need for this game:
6 3 Dice of 3 different colors
7 3-4 players (maybe more)
8 What ever you like to drink
9 Open mind that is willing to have fun

How to get started
Each person needs to role a die to see who goes first, lowest number goes 1st Lowest role goes first and goes clock wise from there. The group playing the game will have to decide before the game starts what category each of the different colored dies will belong too. Before each role of the dice, you must take a drink for 5 seconds. Role dice at the same time (so no one can say that you planned the numbers that come up). At that time you will have to perform the act the 3 different numbers tell you to do, from the list below (you may add anything you like to the list, this could add more fun to the game). There is no time limit on how long the game will last (that will be up to the members playing the game), but there is one on the time you have to perform the act the numbers tell you to do. You have to start the act with 1 minute of rolling the dice, if you don't then you must drink for 8 seconds, and then perform the act (there is no getting out of the act, must be done). Each act has a minimum time of 1 minute and no less, more if you would like

Die One is for the Person for which the activity will include.
1 Person to Left
2 Person to Right
3 Person Across
4 Persons to L&R
5 Persons toLeft & Across
6 Persons to Right & Across

Die Two is for the Part of the Body to receive the action.
1 Face
2 Neck to Waist
3 Waist to Feet
4 Crotch area only
5 Butt area only
6 Your Choice

Die three is for the action.
1 Kiss
2 Caress
3 Lick
4 Rub & Kiss
5 Fuck
6 Your Choice

[LaylaSusanne]

Hey Everyone!
My hubby and I go to a club regularly that has fun and exciting "theme" nights and games to "break the ice"

One of our favorites was the "Everyone Gets Screwed" game.

You go to the hardware store, and buy a selection of Nuts and Bolts of various sizes.

You give each guy a Bolt, and each Girl a Nut. And you make a peice of paper with each person's name on it.

You then appoint one person the "Foreman"

The object is to walk around the club, and ask everyone if they "want to get screwed" You try to match up your Nut/Bolt with as many other Nuts/Bolts as you can. Every time you make a match, you both go to the "Foreman", who writes it down on their sheets. After an appropriate amount of time (this is a club game, so, say, from opening to about midnight, an hour or so in a house party) You then add up the totals.
The man and woman with the most totals win a prize...
For a house party, this could be to "get screwed"

Does anyone know where we can find more club games like this? Or do you have any you could post? We'd like to give the club some ideas for new and exciting games to play.

[JustAskJulie]

For an on-premise club/ house party one game you could do (which I did recently at a party I was at) is to

have the guys line up in chairs, blindfolded and sitting on their hands. The girls go by and for a set amount time they are "naughty" to the guys.. doing whatever they want/ feel comfortable with.. when the set time is up they move to the next guy until they have played with each of the guys. When it's over the guys have to vote on which girl is the "naughtiest" and try to pick out who she was from the line up. Definately gets a party started.. cuz by the time that's done everyone is ready to screw (no nuts or bolts needed..lol).

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

[TNT]

Sorry about the last post..was making sure I had the right password here.

Ted and I went to a new social in our area last night and the host and hostess had a great ice breaker game. Hopefully I can relay it correctly for everyone here.

At the begining of the evening, when everyone is arriving, pass out "funny money" to everone. This can be Monopoly money or just money that someone has made on a computer, in the amounts of 50s, 100s and 1000 dollar bills. Tell everyone that at the end of the evening there will be an auction and they can use their money to bid on certain items, toys, free passes, videos, whatever has been decided on before hand by the host and hostess or club owner. Tell them that they have the chance to earn extra money through the evening, or they can spend it, which ever they want.

The way you spend your money is simple...Say there is a man/women you are interested in meeting, you just go up to him/her and say..I will give you $50 for a kiss..this person can say yes or no, depending on what they want. Of course they are trying to earn money for the auction so they will probably say yes, or they might say it will cost you a $100. Depending on the "favor", the cost can go up or down. For instances..us women got together and decided that a kiss on the tit was a $50 charge, but if nipples were involved then it was $100. I have a well hidden tattoo and once people heard about it the cost of seeing that tattoo was $1000. In the case of the social we were at, it was the women that were making all the money as the women were the only ones that were allowed to bid in the auction at the end of the night. This worked out great for an ice breaker..everyone was making money and having a blast spending it. It gave you the confidence to go up to a stranger and say "HI", with no fear because it was a game that could or could not lead to other things depending on what you wanted.

I hope I have explained this properly, if not let me know and I will try and elaborate further.

Teresa

[This message has been edited by TNT (edited 09-09-2001).]

[ken -N- lea]

we play strip poker with a twist.
each player gets $10.00 in chips to start
when a player losses all of his/her money they sell a piece of clothing for mor chips each piece is worth $5.00.
when a player is out of clothes then they trade favors for more money.
we do this as follows:
kiss 30 seconds $1.00
oral 1 minute $5.00
intercourse 1 minute $10.00
this is a great ice breaker for new friends and newbies as the favors can be with your spouse if they have the money.
we have used this many times with great results lots of conversation with little pressure. its worked so well that we don't go any where without chips and cards.
as a twist you can make up cards with directions on them ie. winner and losser cards that after each hand the winner and loser pick each card has a direction on it, such as :winner get 30 second message from player of your choice. losser remove one piece of clothing.
the cards can be as wild or mild as you want

[wayneNjeannie]

here is one youcan try in an on and off premises club. you will need a DJ for this one. Get a banana ,and with this you will play like musical chairs,but the banana will go between your legs. and you will pass it around boy girl,boy girl,and so on.the one left with the banana when the music goes off is out.the last person with the banana is the WINNER. rember it must be passed with out touching it with your hands.

[Dukedoll]

My husband and I have made a fun night for us and our swing partners by having a Las Vegas Night. You have strip poker, of course, but you get a Roulette wheel that you gan buy at most game stores, we got ours at a dart supply. You substitute the numbers on it with actions:ie: suck, lick, rub, or anything you want in random order. the RED sections are one (1) minute and the BLACK are 30 seconds.you tape the actions to these.devide the board in 1/4th and on a different fourth you put My choice,then below the waist, then above the waist, and finally BOTH. Now you roll a single die to see who you will do the action with. Even # is your partner and Odd # is of course someone elses. You can figure how to make it work if there are more than 2 couples. Have all the potential recipiants of your actions draw for high card, and that is the one you do it to. Have a little timer for the time limit and it can be ONE HECK of a foreplay tool. I also have one space that gives a bonus" double the time of the specified color". It is a lot of fun and gives you an ice breaker and something to do after you have played strip poker and are naked anyway.
The game continues till ALL have had 10 turns. Oh yes, I forgot to mention, there is one " SKIP " on the board, you really dont want to hit it, but it makes it a little more challenging. Try this, you might like it, we do.

[good_lover4_u2001]

a game we were introduced to is onyx.it is an excelent swingers game of sexual exploration.you buy property and when players land on your property they pay rent or work it of.the game tells you what to do .very erotic.it also sets up each player so if you are a str8 man you won't have to work it off if you land on a mans property.you choose the options.you can download the trial version and if you like it you can buy it.highly recomended to play it.go to http://www.symtoys.com to get it.

[ssmacpl]

We bought Strip Bingo at an adult store for our playmates Christmas gift . We haven't played with it yet, we will let you know how it goes.

ssmacpl

[activered863]

My girlfriend and I met these two couples that introduced us to this simple card game. Everyone is dealt three cards and the rest of the cards are placed in the center of the table and everyone can trade up to two cards from the pile in the center of the game. The goal here is to get 31, two face cards and one ace, before someone else does. Then, the person with 31 can knock the table and everyone must show their cards. The person with the lowest card count must remove one article of clothing. This way everyone does not have to remember how to play poker and which hand is worth more than the other. Some of us would cheat which is part of the fun. This game for us is a blast and simple and we would always add different rules to the game. A rule we had is when someone is naked with a loosing he/she must start doing favors for someone with the winning hand.

Kevin
Littleton, CO

[naughty A]

wow - sounds like a great game and at a much faster speed than strip euchre.

Naughty A.

[Mich149]

That is a good idea, we were trying to break the ice with a new couple with strip poker but they didn't know how to play that so we tried jin & that didn't work to well either. Ended up playing old maid, and even that kinda sucked.

We had to fall back on to Truth or dare.lol