What to Wear to a Meet & Greet

DanBridget · 07-17-2004, 01:29 PM

Hello,

We are still fairly new to swinging, and have been invited to our first Meet-n-Greet, but I have no idea what to wear.

Can someone help me?

Bridget

sensuality · 07-17-2004, 02:00 PM

Hello there...
I'm going through the same thing right now

{female member} We're attending our first swingclub in a few weeks..I've found the shoes,actually a few pairs

{A girl can never have too many pairs of sexy shoes

}Anyway...I've heard and read that the more revealing, and sexy,the better.Something easy to remove <EG> facelick And, I've been looking for the past week or so all over the internet...Lingeriesite.com,frederick's,henry and june...etc.So far, I have about a dozen options...Garter belt, stockings,a sexy dress...UGH!!So, I'll be making my final decision with a little input from hubby by Monday so my order comes on time

I guess what I should tell you is...it seems like deciding what to wear is the hardest part of all of this for us ladies

...the guys have it a lot easier-no offense fellas

-Find something that accentuates your assets and ask hubby his opinion and go with your instincts...Good Luck and have fun!!!

**TNT** · 07-17-2004, 02:01 PM

A Meet & Greet is just what it sounds like...you meet people and talk, not necessarily for hooking up to play.

Wear whatever you are comfortable in but always remember you only get one time to make a first impression. We usually attend M&Gs very causal but nice...Ted will usually wear nice jeans with a nice shirt and I will usually wear a very simple little dress or skirt and top.

Teresa

sensuality · 07-17-2004, 02:02 PM

P.S.
I've also heard push-up bras and thongs...or no panties at all are always winners

sensuality · 07-17-2004, 02:05 PM

I think it all depends on the atmosphere and what you're wanting to get out of the evening

A club would probably be a more appropriate place to dress more revealing...take into consideration where this meet and greet is taking place and all of that...if it's a more private place, then go a little more revealing...If it's more of a public venue..dress accordingly...Good Luck!!

**TNT** · 07-17-2004, 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sensuality

We're attending our first swingclub in a few weeks

I should have asked DanBridget if it was a club they were attending or not...my bad.

When she said Meet & Greet I just assumed it was like the meet ups we have hear on the board...just a place to meet people and talk...not a club necessarily.

When going to a swinger's club our motto is always ...The sexier the better. There are numerous sites on the net that have wonderful club wear for women and men. Just do a search for "club wear" and you should have no problems finding what you are looking for.

Teresa

sensuality · 07-17-2004, 02:24 PM

Hi Teresa..
It's so funny, I went back and read your post about meet and greets and added to my first posts because I wasn't sure about the type of atmosphere at this meet and greet and I was thinking:Here I am telling this girl to dress all revealing and what not...and what if this is more of a place just to conversate?...My bad as well.

DanBridget · 07-17-2004, 03:53 PM

Thank you each so far for your response, it has helped.

The Meet and Greet is to be in a public place.
But we are also a member of the group in NewPort and Knoxville..which can be at times a private location..so to wear to those are appreciated as well..

I just don't want to go underdressed in the sense of too casual.

Bridget

**TNT** · 07-17-2004, 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sensuality

Hi Teresa..
It's so funny, I went back and read your post about meet and greets and added to my first posts because I wasn't sure about the type of atmosphere at this meet and greet and I was thinking:Here I am telling this girl to dress all revealing and what not...and what if this is more of a place just to conversate?...My bad as well.

At least between the two of us hopefully we covered both types of places...Let us know how it turns out Bridget.

Teresa

akamgaxoxo · 07-18-2004, 06:11 PM

Our first meet and greet was semi casual...my hubby wore a polo shirt and jeans, and I went with the classic but sexy black dress with pearls and kitten heels. It was a great first impression and all has been great since. Really I think it depends on where you go and the impression that you are trying to convey to your new friends. I am pretty lo key and a classic girl so I left it like that! HAVE FUN!

twohotblondes · 07-18-2004, 07:11 PM

If you wear something sexy it is sure to be the ice breaker(it works for us) facelick facelick facelick

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07-17-2004, 01:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
DanBridget Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 77 Location: Kentucky	What to Wear to a Meet & Greet Hello, We are still fairly new to swinging, and have been invited to our first Meet-n-Greet, but I have no idea what to wear. Can someone help me? Bridget __________________ Thanks Daniel and Bridget

07-17-2004, 02:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
sensuality Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 298 Location: california Status: happily,ecstatically married	Re: What to Wear! Hello there... I'm going through the same thing right now {female member} We're attending our first swingclub in a few weeks..I've found the shoes,actually a few pairs {A girl can never have too many pairs of sexy shoes }Anyway...I've heard and read that the more revealing, and sexy,the better.Something easy to remove <EG> facelick And, I've been looking for the past week or so all over the internet...Lingeriesite.com,frederick's,henry and june...etc.So far, I have about a dozen options...Garter belt, stockings,a sexy dress...UGH!!So, I'll be making my final decision with a little input from hubby by Monday so my order comes on time I guess what I should tell you is...it seems like deciding what to wear is the hardest part of all of this for us ladies ...the guys have it a lot easier-no offense fellas -Find something that accentuates your assets and ask hubby his opinion and go with your instincts...Good Luck and have fun!!!

07-17-2004, 02:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,715 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 44	Re: What to Wear! A Meet & Greet is just what it sounds like...you meet people and talk, not necessarily for hooking up to play. Wear whatever you are comfortable in but always remember you only get one time to make a first impression. We usually attend M&Gs very causal but nice...Ted will usually wear nice jeans with a nice shirt and I will usually wear a very simple little dress or skirt and top. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

07-17-2004, 02:02 PM	#4 (permalink)
sensuality Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 298 Location: california Status: happily,ecstatically married	Re: What to Wear! P.S. I've also heard push-up bras and thongs...or no panties at all are always winners

07-17-2004, 02:05 PM	#5 (permalink)
sensuality Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 298 Location: california Status: happily,ecstatically married	Re: What to Wear! I think it all depends on the atmosphere and what you're wanting to get out of the evening A club would probably be a more appropriate place to dress more revealing...take into consideration where this meet and greet is taking place and all of that...if it's a more private place, then go a little more revealing...If it's more of a public venue..dress accordingly...Good Luck!!

07-17-2004, 02:24 PM	#7 (permalink)
sensuality Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 298 Location: california Status: happily,ecstatically married	Re: What to Wear! Hi Teresa.. It's so funny, I went back and read your post about meet and greets and added to my first posts because I wasn't sure about the type of atmosphere at this meet and greet and I was thinking:Here I am telling this girl to dress all revealing and what not...and what if this is more of a place just to conversate?...My bad as well.

07-17-2004, 03:53 PM	#8 (permalink)
DanBridget Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 77 Location: Kentucky	Re: What to Wear! Thank you each so far for your response, it has helped. The Meet and Greet is to be in a public place. But we are also a member of the group in NewPort and Knoxville..which can be at times a private location..so to wear to those are appreciated as well.. I just don't want to go underdressed in the sense of too casual. Bridget __________________ Thanks Daniel and Bridget

07-18-2004, 06:11 PM	#10 (permalink)
akamgaxoxo Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 221 Location: Maryland	Re: What to Wear! Our first meet and greet was semi casual...my hubby wore a polo shirt and jeans, and I went with the classic but sexy black dress with pearls and kitten heels. It was a great first impression and all has been great since. Really I think it depends on where you go and the impression that you are trying to convey to your new friends. I am pretty lo key and a classic girl so I left it like that! HAVE FUN!

07-18-2004, 07:11 PM	#11 (permalink)
twohotblondes Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 17 Location: Toronto , Canada Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twohotblondes	Something very sexy If you wear something sexy it is sure to be the ice breaker(it works for us) facelick facelick facelick

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