Should we allow GF's daughter to join us for a threesome?

magnavox · 02-26-2006, 04:47 PM

My girlfriend and I have great sex. Sandy her 29 year old daughter knows and approves. She is very sexy and sensual. While growing up she slept with her mother and nudity was normal.

Recently, she walked in on us. Her mom then said that since she was here she should help by taking some pictures and a short video.

After she finnished, Sandy then said can I join you? Her mom said we will think about it and talk with you later.

Should we allow her to join?

confunktion · 02-26-2006, 04:59 PM

Whoa....

Seriously, does this really happen outside of badly-acted porn? If it were me, I would be walking away from this one. The possible mental and emotional complications on all sides are endless; it gives me a headache just considering them. That is just something that is not in my ballpark.

I'm not going to tell you how to run your life or what values/morals you should have, but if you want advice, you are going to get a "no"...wait, you get a "HELL NO" from me.

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WesternSwing · 02-26-2006, 05:02 PM

Personally, no, I wouldn't want her to join us. But that is just my feelings about it. It would just seem weird with a mother and daughter at the same time. Especially if there was any play between them. That is just the parent in me talking, though.

I would think even both of them at seperate times would cause problems in your relationship with your girlfriend (the mother). Although the fantasy seems cool, I'd leave this one alone.

Mr. WS

magnavox · 02-26-2006, 05:12 PM

Any, more comments, advice or opininions? I appreciate the feedback!

tribbles · 02-26-2006, 05:42 PM

Any way you look at it the risk of drama and emotional issues are more than I can count.....but if her and her mom are really interested and you don't mind if it causes drama or breaks up your relationship........

You are all adults.

S

just1gurl · 02-26-2006, 05:48 PM

glurck. Excuse me! I lost my lunch.

here to tell you that you don't want to know what I think.

It appears pushing boundaries poses as many issues in life as does abiding by the societal "norm". hum.

My bad, I thought you said 19, she's 29. Hum. Still sounds fucked up to me, dude. But hey! You asked for input.

I think you should consider the kids well being because the mother isn't. Keep your dick to yourself and your girl friend.

well. go ahead. hiss and boo me.

LOL_OMG · 02-26-2006, 06:15 PM

If you are considering staying with your GF, I would recommend against it. I can't fathom the complications for just YOU that could come of this in the future....2, 5 or 10 years down the road.

The consequenses for each of the women involved and their psyche IMO have the possibilities of catastrophe.

I would tell the daughter (as nicely as possible) to find her own playmates. I would also tell your GF that this could be something she may sorely regret for the rest of her life. I agree with Just1girl...someone needs to be the parent here...

Mrs LOL

Thrax · 02-26-2006, 06:29 PM

I guess you aren't breaking any laws since neither woman is related to you, but I'm not in your corner on this. I'd strongly recommend against it using the logic most of the other folks already posted.

Personally...ick.

Thrax

meandher2go · 02-26-2006, 07:54 PM

go for it but make sure you all talk about it first. i dont see the problem with three adults getting in bed. as long as the two girls dont play with each other all is good.

just1gurl · 02-26-2006, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by meandher2go

I dont see the problem with three adults getting in bed. as long as the two girls dont play with each other all is good.

Its not three adults - its a parent and a child. The power dynamic of that relationship is not equal.

just wondering, if you see it as ok for a parent and child to get into a sex act together with another individual, why should they not play with each other?

If this is a truthful post of events (entirely unconvinced), talk all you want, it won't change that mom has a screw loose and your not just wanting to screw her kid, your going to assist in screwing her up.

sexyshelby · 02-26-2006, 09:12 PM

While everyone is adults, I still wouldn't do it and would advise against it. Unless the two of them have done this kind of thing before, I would imagine that there would be too much drama involved after, and maybe even during.

I guess this leaves me wondering if the two of them have done this before???

~SS

valley · 02-26-2006, 10:18 PM

My immediate thought was .....who with any sense would reply to this post...

,,,,damn I just wasted 2 minutes.....

intuition897 · 02-26-2006, 11:40 PM

Ew. Too weird for my taste. If it were me I'd be avoiding this like the plague.

just1gurl · 02-26-2006, 11:53 PM

Its not often you find me speechless, but this did it.

dictionary.com =

INCEST:

2. The statutory crime of sexual relations with such a near relative.

Possibly, it is on the books. The first definition had to do with marriage and wasn't the issue here.

someone was just telling me the other day, "be careful what you let in your head".

xtasty74 · 02-27-2006, 02:39 AM

I am in complete and 100% total agreement with just1gurl!!

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02-26-2006, 04:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
magnavox Registered Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Ft Wayne, Indiana Status: sigle Swing Lifestyle Name:Magnavox	Should we allow GF's daughter to join us for a threesome? My girlfriend and I have great sex. Sandy her 29 year old daughter knows and approves. She is very sexy and sensual. While growing up she slept with her mother and nudity was normal. Recently, she walked in on us. Her mom then said that since she was here she should help by taking some pictures and a short video. After she finnished, Sandy then said can I join you? Her mom said we will think about it and talk with you later. Should we allow her to join?

02-26-2006, 04:59 PM	#2 (permalink)
confunktion This Village's Idiot Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 358 Location: Wisconsin Status: Male, happily spoken for	Re: Unusual Threesome! Whoa.... Seriously, does this really happen outside of badly-acted porn? If it were me, I would be walking away from this one. The possible mental and emotional complications on all sides are endless; it gives me a headache just considering them. That is just something that is not in my ballpark. I'm not going to tell you how to run your life or what values/morals you should have, but if you want advice, you are going to get a "no"...wait, you get a "HELL NO" from me. Mr. Funk Back and funkier than ever!
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02-26-2006, 05:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Unusual Threesome! Personally, no, I wouldn't want her to join us. But that is just my feelings about it. It would just seem weird with a mother and daughter at the same time. Especially if there was any play between them. That is just the parent in me talking, though. I would think even both of them at seperate times would cause problems in your relationship with your girlfriend (the mother). Although the fantasy seems cool, I'd leave this one alone. Mr. WS
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02-26-2006, 05:12 PM	#4 (permalink)
magnavox Registered Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Ft Wayne, Indiana Status: sigle Swing Lifestyle Name:Magnavox	Re: Unusual Threesome! Any, more comments, advice or opininions? I appreciate the feedback!

02-26-2006, 05:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
tribbles Fun and Pleasure Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 948 Location: SouthWest Status: Couple	Re: Unusual Threesome! Any way you look at it the risk of drama and emotional issues are more than I can count.....but if her and her mom are really interested and you don't mind if it causes drama or breaks up your relationship........ You are all adults. S
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02-26-2006, 05:48 PM	#6 (permalink)
just1gurl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 183 Location: washington dc area Status: single	Re: Unusual Threesome! glurck. Excuse me! I lost my lunch. here to tell you that you don't want to know what I think. It appears pushing boundaries poses as many issues in life as does abiding by the societal "norm". hum. My bad, I thought you said 19, she's 29. Hum. Still sounds fucked up to me, dude. But hey! You asked for input. I think you should consider the kids well being because the mother isn't. Keep your dick to yourself and your girl friend. well. go ahead. hiss and boo me.
	Last edited by just1gurl; 02-26-2006 at 06:02 PM.

02-26-2006, 06:15 PM	#7 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,005 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: Unusual Threesome! If you are considering staying with your GF, I would recommend against it. I can't fathom the complications for just YOU that could come of this in the future....2, 5 or 10 years down the road. The consequenses for each of the women involved and their psyche IMO have the possibilities of catastrophe. I would tell the daughter (as nicely as possible) to find her own playmates. I would also tell your GF that this could be something she may sorely regret for the rest of her life. I agree with Just1girl...someone needs to be the parent here... Mrs LOL
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02-26-2006, 06:29 PM	#8 (permalink)
Thrax Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax	Re: Unusual Threesome! I guess you aren't breaking any laws since neither woman is related to you, but I'm not in your corner on this. I'd strongly recommend against it using the logic most of the other folks already posted. Personally...ick. Thrax
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02-26-2006, 07:54 PM	#9 (permalink)
meandher2go Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 307 Location: mass Status: Couple	Re: Unusual Threesome! go for it but make sure you all talk about it first. i dont see the problem with three adults getting in bed. as long as the two girls dont play with each other all is good.

02-26-2006, 09:12 PM	#11 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: Unusual Threesome! While everyone is adults, I still wouldn't do it and would advise against it. Unless the two of them have done this kind of thing before, I would imagine that there would be too much drama involved after, and maybe even during. I guess this leaves me wondering if the two of them have done this before??? ~SS
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02-26-2006, 10:18 PM	#12 (permalink)
valley Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 131 Location: australia Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:valley195	Re: Unusual Threesome! My immediate thought was .....who with any sense would reply to this post... ,,,,damn I just wasted 2 minutes.....

02-26-2006, 11:40 PM	#13 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897	Re: Unusual Threesome! Ew. Too weird for my taste. If it were me I'd be avoiding this like the plague.
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02-26-2006, 11:53 PM	#14 (permalink)
just1gurl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 183 Location: washington dc area Status: single	Re: Unusual Threesome! Its not often you find me speechless, but this did it. dictionary.com = INCEST: 2. The statutory crime of sexual relations with such a near relative. Possibly, it is on the books. The first definition had to do with marriage and wasn't the issue here. someone was just telling me the other day, "be careful what you let in your head".

02-27-2006, 02:39 AM	#15 (permalink)
xtasty74 Registered Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Denver, CO	Re: Unusual Threesome! I am in complete and 100% total agreement with just1gurl!!

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