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We met her at a meet & greet about six weeks ago. She recently posted a Hot Date and we were free. She had us, another couple and a male friend over.

 

Very friendly bunch. I got a negative vibe from the female of the other couple. She's not interested is what I presumed. No worries. Mrs. DontStop and the unicorn are here, plenty of chance to have a good time.

 

But the unicorn is ADD. She's here... then there... then talking about this... and that... then here again... then there again. Just as things start heating up, she abruptly jumps up and moves to another body or set of bodies.

 

After the first break of the evening, we left. I couldn't maintain rigidity with the jumping and moving around, and Mrs and I didn't show up just to have sex with each other.

 

Strange experience, no doubt. Maybe if we can have her alone it would work. But with all the other bodies, we are no competition for the whims of ADD.

 

Sigh.

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Leaves you to wonder if she was nervous, didnt know what to do, was told to act that way, or truly was interested in short samplings of everyone?

 

In any case, yeah. Kinda hard to do much if you only have 2 females to choose from, and one has no interest and the other is flighty.

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Think back to when you and your wife started down this path - was this an eventuality that you ever foresaw as a problem? Nobody does.

 

The lesson here would be to lower your expectations, but you probably knew that already.

 

Buy some Ritalin off the neighbor's kid, spike the punch, see if it helps.

 

No, don't do that. That's illegal.

 

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Gawd, this reminds me of the first big house party we attended (30-40 couples) only the ADD one was me! I felt like a kid in a candy store. "So many women, so little time!" The excitement was something fierce. Mrs. Rex and I were playing with our first couple and in the middle of things I'm asking my partner (a long-time veteran of this house party) about house party etiquette...like how long is long enough to stay with one couple before moving on to the next. She was very sweet and understood my question. She didn't hit me or anything (we have since seen them a lot, so I guess I wasn't a jerk, just a newbie)! We bounced around a lot that evening--like pinballs. Mrs. Rex said she was a little worn out the next day...and she thought I was nuts. I did have kind of a foolish grin that I couldn't get rid of.

 

Maybe your unicorn was just excited and was trying a little too hard to be a good hostess to everyone.

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Maybe your unicorn was just excited and was trying a little too hard to be a good hostess to everyone.

 

That was my initial thought.

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Naah, this is the way she is. She was all over the place at the meet & greet, but we didn't think too much of it then. There were over 100 of us in a bar that night, and there was plenty of candy. But another couple who we talked to previously said she was "sexually ADD".

 

I told Mrs. "She's so hyper I needed Ritalin."

 

We've considered trying to play with her as just a threesome. Some caffeine (yes, I'm serious) might do the trick.

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We've considered trying to play with her as just a threesome. Some caffeine (yes, I'm serious) might do the trick.

 

I'm imagining how that would end up going.... you'd be changing positions every 2 minutes.

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We were set to visit a club Monday night. Our unicorn friend sends us a message on Swing Lifestyle "I'll be there and I'm bringing a friend. What time are you going?"

 

So we tell her. No big deal. It's not that she's unfriendly or rude or anything like that.

 

She texts me later saying the club isn't going to be open after all, due to an emergency.

 

A few minutes later she says "Wanna hook up at a hotel?"

 

And for the first time since we've been in the LS, we were available for a night but declined an offer.

 

But hey, we had fun with our BDSM experiment (and I finally did get the candle wax out of the comforter!). Never anything wrong with some good old-fashioned spousal sex. :)

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