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First Couple Experience

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Sasha and I have played with men & women in the past, but it was always separately. Everything has been a 3some up to this point and we had no experience with a couple yet.

 

Last night was our first. We exchanged some emails & pics for about a week, then decided to meet up for dinner, with the understanding that if everyone was comfortable, then we would proceed to a Hotel afterwards.

 

In my opinion, everything went quite well for the first time. We've already learned from our past 3some play that Sasha really enjoys & prefers the men. When we had a girl join us in the past, it was ok, but could have been MUCH better. Unfortunately, Sasha gets a bit jealous & insecure about watching me receive pleasure from another woman, so........

 

Meanwhile, I get turned on like crazy watching her receive pleasure from a man......or woman! Let alone GIVE pleasure to another man or woman. :)

 

Anyway, our only "real rules" are condom is mandatory if anybody fucks her and I am not allowed to fuck the girl. None of those rules were broken and it all went ok.

 

Only real complaints are that the other girl wasn't very touchy with me as I would have wanted her to be. I'm not old, not fat and I don't stink.......really I don't! Haha. Not sure if she just wasn't into me or she was worried about what her husband would think/say. She was sucking me like crazy at one point, but it was short lived.

 

At dinner, my girl was the one who was a little concerned about this & that, while the other girl seemed to be game for anything based on her actions, words, attitude, etc.

 

But, as usual, once Sasha's pussy gets a little wet, her whole attitude changes and SHE was the one that was working on me and the other guy.....stroking and sucking on both of us.....complete with all the gagging & choking that comes from a nice DeepThroat Blowjob. The guy was loving it, I was loving it, but not sure the other girl was feeling it.

 

At one point, THEY got up to get a condom, so the male could fuck my girl. He went a little soft during the installation process, so his girl started sucking him again to revive the hardness. After about 10 minutes of it clearly not working, I told my girl to start sucking him. BAM......within 2 minutes, he was rock hard again and the girls installed the condom together. My girl mounted him and tried to put him in, but then he went soft again. At that point, they (the couple) were whispering in each others ears, so I am assuming that perhaps they (or she) was not 100% comfortable with the idea of him having sex with my girl, so there was no penetration between them.

 

In all fairness, it was their 1st time with a couple also. In fact they told us at dinner, it was their 1st time doing anything with other people, so I can understand where they are coming from as Sasha and I were just there about 6 months ago or so and we steadily progressed to where we are now.

 

Other than that minor stuff, it was a good time. I wish I could have had a little more interaction with the girl, but maybe she didn't like me much and my girl wouldn't have really wanted to see me doing much with the girl anyways, so I guess it's for the best. Some more girl/girl action would have been hot too, but it just didn't go that way.

 

Regardless, our 1st couple/couple experience wasn't that bad at all and we are both willing to try it again. But either way, it just re-confirmed my desires to watch her play with men and her desires to put on that show for me. I don't know what it is about watching her with a cock in each hand, but it drives me nuts......while a cock in each hole drives me over the edge.....lol. It is just SO much of a turn-on to watch her "work".

 

I guess instead of pursuing the couples & soft-swaps, I should start looking for some extra men for a BlowBang or GangBang....lol

 

Thanks for reading. I love having a (safe) place like this to share our stories. Posting these types of experiences on Facebook just won't go over very well. Hahaha.

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Glad it went well for the two of you. Performing for another couple can certainly be difficult, but it gets easier.

 

The only curiosity here, of course, is this line:

 

Anyway, our only "real rules" are condom is mandatory if anybody fucks her and I am not allowed to fuck the girl. None of those rules were broken and it all went ok.

 

This can easily turn into a source of resentment. I hope the two of you communicate often about this. The use of the words "I am not allowed" to me sounds like there is already some resentment brewing. It's not a rule I would okay with, and your future potential playmates might also disagree with.

 

Best of luck, and congrats!

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Maybe "not allowed" was the wrong choice of words. :)

 

It's just one of the rules we agreed on.

 

On the surface, it may seem unfair, but truth be told, I'm actually not too interested in having intercourse with a single girl or the female in a couple that we play with.

 

I hate using condoms....and it takes away almost all the pleasure for me in the experience. I'd much rather have the girl(s) blowing me while her man is fucking her and my girl from behind or something.

 

I much prefer skin-to-skin contact when I play....but yet not willing to let my girl get fucked bareback unless it was with a long-time friend or couple that we knew.

 

Frank

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The softness with the condom thing happens more often than people would say in person, that's for sure.

 

Nearly everyone has had it happen to themselves at some point (not necessarily the condom's fault but admit it, everyone gets harder easier without one on).

 

Also if it was their first time, the jitters from that alone will cause problems.

 

So it sounds like you are realizing that you enjoy watching or maybe mfm or mmfm more than a traditional mfmf swap?

 

If so go for it. It's great when people find out what they like.

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I'm new at this but, I know if Alex could have sex with the other girl and I could not have sex with the other guy, it would stage a very odd dynamic.

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MN Tom - You are exactly right about the condom. I am the same way. I can be hard as a rock, but if a condom gets near my cock, let alone on it, my stiffness quickly fades....lol And yes, I absolutely am enjoying the MFM's and I am sure I would enjoy a MMFMM even more. We will hopefully find out in the future.

 

sandraandalex - We are new at this also. Although I've had quite a few MFM's experiences both with my girl, and sometimes with someone else's girl, this was my (and our) first time with a couple.

 

I totally understand what you mean about it creating a "odd dynamic". On the surface it seems a little unfair or unbalanced. But I think it just boils down to what everybody is comfortable with......just as it does in ANY swinging situation.

 

When Sasha and I have discussed this in the past, she simply stated the (true) fact that I enjoy watching her get fucked and she would NOT enjoy watching me get fucked. Right there, that should be enough of a reason. Everybody has their own wants & desires right? It is absolutely true I enjoy watching her get pounded and if I'm not really into wearing condoms anyway, which I would need to do if I were to fuck the other girl, then I personally don't feel like I am missing much. I'm very content just getting a BJ from the other girl while watching my girl get worked over. If the couple we play with isn't ok with that, then we won't be playing with them much I guess.

 

There have been many other threads on this Forum, and I consistently read that when swinging, everybody should swing as fast as the slowest person wants to. Everybody needs to be in agreement about each others rules......no matter how weird or odd they may seem. Everybody has a choice about who they will play with and what they will do.

 

Truth be told, for me personally, I am just happy that my girl is willing to get all dressed up in some skimpy outfit and high heels, go meet a guy, a girl or a couple and then go to a Hotel and put on a show for me that is better than any Porno I've seen. Then on the way home, or the next day, there is no drama, no issues and no regret. We talk about the experience, share our likes & dislikes and start setting up another playdate. I consider myself to be quite lucky for these reasons and if me not being able to fuck the other girl is the one main rule that Sasha has in order to continue this lifestyle, then it is a very easy "sacrifice" to make.....especially when I feel like I am not missing out on anything. If Sasha and I are BOTH enjoying the MFM's more than anytime a girl has joined us, then clearly that is what is turning both of us on more.

 

Besides, we are JUST getting started. Everybody in this lifestyle knows that rules can change and fall by the wayside as time passes and more experiences happen. This rule may or may not change in the future. But either way, I'm fine with it and just enjoying the fun we are having now and the excitement it has brought into our lives. :)

 

Frank

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What I was trying to say was not that it was an odd dynamic for YOU, that is was an odd dynamic for the other girl. From my point of view. Sheesh.

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What I was trying to say was not that it was an odd dynamic for YOU, that is was an odd dynamic for the other girl. From my point of view. Sheesh.

 

Oh....I see. Sorry, I didn't pick that up from what you wrote before. No worries. :D

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