My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. - Page 3

rounder · 08-17-2008, 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by yogee

The only thing I hate is incest sex. I purely hate it.

Prude.

yogee · 08-18-2008, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by rounder

Prude.

Incest sex is doing sex with your blood relations, real mother and real sis, thats going to break the whole society, if people start doping it. Now if you say doing sex with your cousins then it is no incest and I am in with my cousins

SexyNewCouple08 · 08-20-2008, 01:44 PM

That is totally crazy! I could not imagine our son coming to a party we were at with his girl friend. That would be an awkward Thanksgiving dinner,LOL. We are in the hopes of keeping our experiences under wraps from friends and familly.

A_and_R

shy_tn_gal · 08-23-2008, 10:55 AM

Whew - thankfully all of our kids live in other states.... Talk about your awkward moment!

maharg8 · 08-24-2008, 03:23 AM

Nice of daughter to join in...

lynswing · 08-24-2008, 11:50 AM

Not sure how I'd feel in that situation. I have an 18 year old daughter that is sexually active and I don't have a problem with her having sex at home but at a swing party I'm not sure.

Ed & Bunny · 08-25-2008, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by lynswing

Not sure how I'd feel in that situation. I have an 18 year old daughter that is sexually active and I don't have a problem with her having sex at home but at a swing party I'm not sure.

I am not sure why you have a problem with your daughter doing something that you are doing. Sounds like a bit of a double standard.

As for the general topic, this is something we have discussed. We have always had an open relationship when it comes to discussing anything with our 24 year old daughter. Also we are the type that does not hide alot in our home life. So we know very well that sooner or later she will figure things out and ask questions. So we had to figure out what we would do. Basicly we cant tell her no, as it is something we are doing, and also she is an adult and can make her own descisions. So we will just give her the best advice possible, and most likely send her here to this site for more if she needs it. As for going out together, that is where we would have to draw the line. We would most likely find a club more geared for her age group. While we will know what she is doing, seeing it is just way too much info for us. Now if we found ourselves in the situation that happened to start this thread,,,,,..... We might all be a little uncomfortable, but hopefully it will be a big enough party that all can have fun in different areas of the house.

sexyNYCswingers · 08-25-2008, 02:59 AM

HAHA OH MY GOD! THiS IS PURE COMDEY. WE'D LOVE 2 KNOW WHAT HAPPENED AFTER THE PARTY LMAO :_).

jjtrindc · 08-31-2008, 09:58 PM

It's an interesting conversation as to whether you would want to find out your son or daughter was in the lifestyle...especially after we have been involved. Hard to react as a hypothetical. Here is what we do know. If our kids are in relationship that is as loving and committed as ours, and are fulfilled mentally and physically (legally of course - lol), then we would consider ourselves proud parents.

Farcanal · 08-31-2008, 10:52 PM

I have three grown up daughters, two are in this lifestyle and one that's not.

On several occasions we have met at various functions -- first time was a bit tense but we got past that.

To clear something up -- I never swing with them in any way but leave them to enjoy themselves.

They are my daughters and I love them dearly but they don't ring my bell!

SecretAsianMan · 09-02-2008, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Farcanal

I have three grown up daughters, two are in this lifestyle and one that's not.

On several occasions we have met at various functions -- first time was a bit tense but we got past that.

To clear something up -- I never swing with them in any way but leave them to enjoy themselves.

They are my daughters and I love them dearly but they don't ring my bell!

Guess I'll bite the bullet and ask...

Is it safe to assume that you and your daughter travel in different enough brackets as far as tastes / what y'all seek in partners that there hasn't been any type of cross-over in those "various functions" where y'all have met up??

Does it ever come up that maybe y'all have shared mutual partners at some point?? And does that wig you out any? Or is that just one of those things and y'all don't think anything of it??

**BiloxiCouple** · 09-02-2008, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Guess I'll bite the bullet and ask...

Is it safe to assume that you and your daughter travel in different enough brackets as far as tastes / what y'all seek in partners that there hasn't been any type of cross-over in those "various functions" where y'all have met up??

Does it ever come up that maybe y'all have shared mutual partners at some point?? And does that wig you out any? Or is that just one of those things and y'all don't think anything of it??

In case they don't want to answer your question. I have seen this before with the crossover of friends. And I know all the participants!!

It didn't happen all at one time or at one party. One couple (not related) thought it would be interesting to do this? Oh well...

mervsmom97 · 09-03-2008, 10:03 AM

My step mother and I are very close and share stories. I told her about the party that we went to and she was very intrigued. She kept saying how crazy she thought we were. Since I opened up to her about our lifestyle choice she hasn't stopped telling me stories. I think she is in denial about how much she is really into the ls, lol. Everytime I see her there is a new story. It's kind of gross to think about my dad like that, but she didn't become my step mother until I was an adult. When she starts her stories I can tune it out that it has anything to do with Dad. She wants to go to the club we went to and I told her go for it! She has told Dad the stories that I have told her, he just laughs, but he refused to go to the club that we went to. I know that they would have a great time, and I think they should try it. I would definitely want them to tell me when they go because I would not want to run into them there.

Farcanal · 09-03-2008, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Guess I'll bite the bullet and ask...

Is it safe to assume that you and your daughter travel in different enough brackets as far as tastes / what y'all seek in partners that there hasn't been any type of cross-over in those "various functions" where y'all have met up??

Does it ever come up that maybe y'all have shared mutual partners at some point?? And does that wig you out any? Or is that just one of those things and y'all don't think anything of it??

I have never given mutual partners a lot of thought really.

They and I tend to have different tastes and usually during our phone/txt messages one will say that they are going to a particular party so I will avoid that one or find another one to attend.

easleyfuncpl · 11-02-2008, 07:23 PM

I just found out my sister swings. I am glad I found that out in a MUCH different way than Jack, Jane and Sue...

how awkward!

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08-20-2008, 01:44 PM	#33 (permalink)
SexyNewCouple08 Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 11 Location: Peru, I.L. Status: Couple	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. That is totally crazy! I could not imagine our son coming to a party we were at with his girl friend. That would be an awkward Thanksgiving dinner,LOL. We are in the hopes of keeping our experiences under wraps from friends and familly. A_and_R

08-23-2008, 10:55 AM	#34 (permalink)
shy_tn_gal Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 49 Location: Tennessee Status: Couple	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. Whew - thankfully all of our kids live in other states.... Talk about your awkward moment!

08-24-2008, 03:23 AM	#35 (permalink)
maharg8 Registered Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Ireland Status: couple	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. Nice of daughter to join in...

08-24-2008, 11:50 AM	#36 (permalink)
lynswing Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Alabama Status: Single female	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. Not sure how I'd feel in that situation. I have an 18 year old daughter that is sexually active and I don't have a problem with her having sex at home but at a swing party I'm not sure.

08-25-2008, 02:59 AM	#38 (permalink)
sexyNYCswingers Registered Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5 Location: queens Status: couple	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. HAHA OH MY GOD! THiS IS PURE COMDEY. WE'D LOVE 2 KNOW WHAT HAPPENED AFTER THE PARTY LMAO :_).

08-31-2008, 09:58 PM	#39 (permalink)
jjtrindc Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 215 Location: Washington DC/NoVA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jjtrindc	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. It's an interesting conversation as to whether you would want to find out your son or daughter was in the lifestyle...especially after we have been involved. Hard to react as a hypothetical. Here is what we do know. If our kids are in relationship that is as loving and committed as ours, and are fulfilled mentally and physically (legally of course - lol), then we would consider ourselves proud parents.
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08-31-2008, 10:52 PM	#40 (permalink)
Farcanal Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 54 Location: New Zealand Status: Single Male	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. I have three grown up daughters, two are in this lifestyle and one that's not. On several occasions we have met at various functions -- first time was a bit tense but we got past that. To clear something up -- I never swing with them in any way but leave them to enjoy themselves. They are my daughters and I love them dearly but they don't ring my bell!

09-03-2008, 10:03 AM	#43 (permalink)
mervsmom97 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 109 Location: Maine Status: M.Female Swing Lifestyle Name:friskymecpl	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. My step mother and I are very close and share stories. I told her about the party that we went to and she was very intrigued. She kept saying how crazy she thought we were. Since I opened up to her about our lifestyle choice she hasn't stopped telling me stories. I think she is in denial about how much she is really into the ls, lol. Everytime I see her there is a new story. It's kind of gross to think about my dad like that, but she didn't become my step mother until I was an adult. When she starts her stories I can tune it out that it has anything to do with Dad. She wants to go to the club we went to and I told her go for it! She has told Dad the stories that I have told her, he just laughs, but he refused to go to the club that we went to. I know that they would have a great time, and I think they should try it. I would definitely want them to tell me when they go because I would not want to run into them there.
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11-02-2008, 07:23 PM	#45 (permalink)
easleyfuncpl Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 27 Location: Easley, SC Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:easleyfuncpl	Re: My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to. I just found out my sister swings. I am glad I found that out in a MUCH different way than Jack, Jane and Sue... how awkward!

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