What's the Biggest Drama...

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Hot Raleigh Cpl

About 4am, the phone rang. The husband of the couple. "My wife's finally asleep. Can I come over now?"

Just. Wow.
Unbelievable!

I think if I would have received that call, I would have given him the name and room number of a different hotel on the other side of town.
Somewhere near East Cracktown, close to Meth Alley.
Not to be vindictive, but rather to teach a lesson.

[Pepper & Drew]

Originally Posted by Hot Raleigh Cpl

About 4am, the phone rang. The husband of the couple. "My wife's finally asleep. Can I come over now?"

See, I would have invited him right over, because I would have loved to see the size of those balls in person!!


Pepper

[Malachista]

A day after play one guy got me this email
A list of 20 things he did not like about me, my body or the things I liked

To this day I really wonder why he wanted to play for 2 hours while he must have mentaly made that list

I had a hard time getting back into swinging after that and to this day always fear something like that happening again

[personal416]

Originally Posted by Malachista

A day after play one guy got me this email
A list of 20 things he did not like about me, my body or the things I liked

To this day I really wonder why he wanted to play for 2 hours while he must have mentaly made that list

I had a hard time getting back into swinging after that and to this day always fear something like that happening again

I know that one person's comments can be devastating, but if you took a survey of others you'd been with, they'd come up with multiplicity of things they enjoyed about you... some are likely things this a-hole disliked.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by des1re06

Come to find out later that they were not married to each other, but to other people. They totally misrepresented themselves.

I guess our story is kinda lame, but it's the only one we've had.

Mrs. D

It a good story and I have to tell you that something similar happened to JoAnn and I. The guy pretends to have a heart attack and they both excuse themselves (as opposed to calling 911). We discovered the pretend part just one week later when we saw that they were signed up for a meet-n-greet. We had to go, of course, to see if his heart was still ticking. It was, and judging from the energy he was expending on all of the women in the place, had not missed a single beat. I am not, by the way, relating our "biggest drama so far". This little act is not even on the top-ten list.

Michael

[slevin]

Originally Posted by daisy girl

you've ever experienced while swinging and what did it teach you? For us, we have learned to trust our instincts and pay attention to warning signs.

We've only really had two bouts of drama, well one was some drama and the other was just a disappointment:

We played with another couple who were also pretty knew and whilst in the middle of playing the girl from the other couple started acting a bit strange, got very frigid and then suddenly bolted from the room in tears. Was very odd as we'd been playing with no problems for about 45 minutes, but suddenly something hit her and she was upset. No rules broken or anything, but we were both a bit shaken up by it! Neither of us ever wants to make anyone upset like that, even though we didn't actually do anything. We hung back and didn't play for a bit after that.

The other one was a couple we'd played with a number of times and the girls had started to hang out a bit doing normal stuff; getting their nails done, facials (the spa kind lol). Then out of the blue the other chick said she wanted to meet Katrina on her own, but didn't want to tell her husband and didn't want Katrina to tell me. Totally ruined a good thing. If she had asked if we were ok with the girls playing on their own we would have said no and had no problem keeping playing with them as a couple. Trying to sneak around about it ruined the whole thing though and we haven't seen them since.

What did we learn: go with our gut. The first couple we should have known wasn't ready to be swinging together. Looking back there were signs we might pick up on now that we're a bit more experienced. The other, we learned that we're a solid couple and even if the other couple has issues and wants to do shit like cheat on their spouse, it won't impact us. We'll be open about it with each other and deal with it together. Also, don't try and make friends. Keep swinging separate and if a friendship happens to build then great.

[Meetussoon]

Met a couple on Swing Lifestyle -- played on cam a few times. Called one sat. to set up a meet when we had an unexpected kid free night. Hubby says, cool - meet us at J. Alexanders in the bar and just sit near us at the bar and strike up a conversation. I won't tell the wife who you two are and see if she recognizes you. If so great, if not- you will be a nice spontaneous surprise if everyone feels it.

We are skeptical (YES trust your gut) but we had played on cam - so we thought it would be OK. We say hi at the bar, chat some. The invite us to join them for dinner. At dinner the wine flows and the flirting is high. We invited them back to our place. They say "why don't you go ahead while we discuss it, and we will call you."

We get home -- start to clean up and light candles and they call. They come over - more wine - everyone gets naked -- round one is nice -- we are resting and talking before round two. She stands up - cusses him out for not respecting her and thinking she was too stupid to know this was a set up. She gets dressed and drives away leaving him at our house.

I have to drive him home -- not too far, and she calls our house, drunk, asking why we called her cell.

Always trust your gut.

Tom

[shy_couple]

We had chatted with a couple online. Things sort of fizzled. We both noticed in our Swing Lifestyle taglines that we were going to be at the same club on the same night. We saw eachother and chatted. We didn't think we would play but they asked us to one of the playrooms. We said OK. We were all watching a movie playing in the room and we started makingin out with our own partnere and we tried several times to touch and get something going with them. The next thin we knew they were getting dressed and left saying nice to meet you but you are too into eachother.

[realcplub2]

Drama? You want friggin Drama? Sit back while i spin ye a tale, and its all true..

We met a couple, thru the earlier versions of Swing Lifestyle.. They were local and And we chatted thru ICQ.. then thru yahoo, and we all seemed to be getting along greatly.

We met, had great times, then we played and again, we had great times together. Over a few months we formed a great friendship, and then, We get a cryptic email stating they were having issues and they would be in touch, and then, suddenly, they fell off the face of the earth.

It urns out that the last play date we had, something had slipped out of his mouth, that thru her.. they werent married, for a loop. after a bit of PC digging she found all sorts of incriminating evidence..

He had been a "professional student" for sometime, and during his time away at school, he was a bi sexual slut.. screwing and getting screwed by all cummers.. and She found that he had made dates, to meet some guy a day or two after our last evening with them. When they contacted us, finally after a few months they explained everything, and apologized.. and went on to tell us they were still working thur issues.. but wanted to resume our evenings. We respectfully declined, explaining that we cared too much for them as friends, to damage whatever progress they had made.

We heard from them a few more times, but each time was pretty much the same.. When we spoke the last time it was a few months before our move, and as it turned out, we were right, they had seperated, and werent sure where they were going next..

To us the betrayal behind his activities, and the way he lacked honesty with first his girlfriend, then with us.. Was the thing that ruined it.. and compound that with the issues between them both.. Who wants that? We felt for them both, but had no desire to choose a side.. So we stepped back..

[Mr.Essex]

Six words:"I used to be a man."

[PB&J]

Originally Posted by Mr.Essex

Six words:"I used to be a man."

Hey! My favorite episode of WKRP in Cincinnati!

But seriously, wow... that would be... challenging