Single and couples good/bad times

**BiloxiCouple** · 02-11-2003, 12:47 AM

Hope I got this in the right section.

This is a little more negative than I like to get. But wanted to hopefully get some replies.

Swinging is not just about the sex, it's an attitude. Pee Wee

bimrdcpl · 02-11-2003, 06:48 AM

After finally getting the babysitting situation under control we have had 2 bad encounters with single males and we have met a great couple that we are becoming more friends with than playmates. Cant wait to see what the future holds..

OhioCouple · 02-11-2003, 07:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by BiloxiCouple
Hope I got this right. You can check more than one answer.

I am curious as to what answers you are trying to seek here. What determines a good or bad experience? A bad experience to one person could be that they didn't like the long wait for dinner or the snacks served by the hosting party, to an abusive situation. A good experience can be anything from the other person actually showed up to a rip roaring night of fulfilling sex.

I voted for both the good and bad experiences with couples (we have never been with a single) neither of which were earth shattering in either scenario.

It would be helpfull if you were to explain what degree of good and bad experiences you are seeking an answer to.

Lori

Handyman69 · 02-11-2003, 08:02 AM

I also voted for the couple experiences (good and bad). Not able to judge with singles as we have not ventured into that yet.

Bad experience......the other couple was really ready and ended up going beyond their comfort zone. It was soft swap and we thought it had gone well but few days later got email saying not to contact them any more. No explanation just the email. It was pretty upsetting. We did end up talking with them again and the truth came out. Think we would have made great friends socially but the wife could not divide the two.

Good experiences..well just has been fun experimenting when you find a couple on the same wavelength.

Rhonda

02-11-2003, 03:59 PM

Single male one good one bad.
No bad experiences with single females (only 2)
Dozens of good experiences with couples only 2 that turned out bad, one only minor. the other a fisaco.
I just wanted to say the good times have by far excedes the bad times, But we try to work into things slowly, and most of the times it seems to work.

**BiloxiCouple** · 02-12-2003, 12:52 AM

Good and bad experiences depend upon whoever is posting. A good reply to this may list different opinions. I was trying to leave it open enough for people to come up with their own ideas of all of this. I was just doing the ice breaker for this and ya'll get to throw the party!!!

TeamSoBe · 02-13-2003, 10:45 AM

I haven't been posting much because we have been really busy getting ourselves into trouble. I still lurk every day though, and I figure that responding to a poll every once in a while doesn't take too much time.

So I go to respond to this one, I'm checking boxes, and I realize that we have covered every single one of those boxes. Good and bad experiences with couples, single guys, single girls, groups, everything.

Mostly good though.

Island guy · 08-24-2004, 08:12 AM

I had to vote them as all good, since none of them resulted in hurt feelings. We had one experience with a single male, and it was fun watching island girl get fucked. We had a few experiences with single women and there was only one that I felt a little left out, but as long as she really enjoyed it it was all good. The rest were great. We have enjoyed all our experiences with couples.

08-24-2004, 08:45 AM

I voted for all but the last two.

Spoomonkey · 08-24-2004, 06:18 PM

Geez...

Talk about options...

Check, check, check, check and check...

I haven't had a bad experience with a single woman... Yet... Knock on wood... Hey! Look! I have wood!

Back to knocking on it...

Spoomonkey

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View Poll Results: Good times & Bad times
Had a good encounter with a single guy.	51	46.36%
Had a bad encounter with a single guy.	27	24.55%
Had a good encounter with a couple.	84	76.36%
Had a bad encounter with a couple.	46	41.82%
Had a good encounter with a single female.	37	33.64%
Had a bad encounter with a single female.	11	10.00%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 110. You may not vote on this poll

02-11-2003, 12:47 AM	#1 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Single and couples good/bad times Hope I got this in the right section. This is a little more negative than I like to get. But wanted to hopefully get some replies. Swinging is not just about the sex, it's an attitude. Pee Wee
	__________________ *Live in the moment before they are gone.*

02-11-2003, 06:48 AM	#2 (permalink)
bimrdcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 231 Location: Warren Michigan Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:bimrdcpl2	After finally getting the babysitting situation under control we have had 2 bad encounters with single males and we have met a great couple that we are becoming more friends with than playmates. Cant wait to see what the future holds..
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02-11-2003, 03:59 PM	#5 (permalink)
Willbfun Guest Posts: n/a	good over bad Single male one good one bad. No bad experiences with single females (only 2) Dozens of good experiences with couples only 2 that turned out bad, one only minor. the other a fisaco. I just wanted to say the good times have by far excedes the bad times, But we try to work into things slowly, and most of the times it seems to work.
Willbfun Guest Posts: n/a

02-11-2003, 08:02 AM	#4 (permalink)
Handyman69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 553 Location: MI..God's country.so we thought. Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:handyman69	I also voted for the couple experiences (good and bad). Not able to judge with singles as we have not ventured into that yet. Bad experience......the other couple was really ready and ended up going beyond their comfort zone. It was soft swap and we thought it had gone well but few days later got email saying not to contact them any more. No explanation just the email. It was pretty upsetting. We did end up talking with them again and the truth came out. Think we would have made great friends socially but the wife could not divide the two. Good experiences..well just has been fun experimenting when you find a couple on the same wavelength. Rhonda

02-12-2003, 12:52 AM	#6 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Good and bad experiences depend upon whoever is posting. A good reply to this may list different opinions. I was trying to leave it open enough for people to come up with their own ideas of all of this. I was just doing the ice breaker for this and ya'll get to throw the party!!!
	__________________ *Live in the moment before they are gone.*

02-13-2003, 10:45 AM	#7 (permalink)
TeamSoBe Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 507 Location: South Beach, Florida Status: M. Half of Couple	I haven't been posting much because we have been really busy getting ourselves into trouble. I still lurk every day though, and I figure that responding to a poll every once in a while doesn't take too much time. So I go to respond to this one, I'm checking boxes, and I realize that we have covered every single one of those boxes. Good and bad experiences with couples, single guys, single girls, groups, everything. Mostly good though.
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08-24-2004, 08:12 AM	#8 (permalink)
Island guy Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 18 Location: Nassau, Bahamas Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Caribduo	Re: Single and couples good/bad times I had to vote them as all good, since none of them resulted in hurt feelings. We had one experience with a single male, and it was fun watching island girl get fucked. We had a few experiences with single women and there was only one that I felt a little left out, but as long as she really enjoyed it it was all good. The rest were great. We have enjoyed all our experiences with couples.
	__________________ When freedom is outlawed only outlaws will be free.

08-24-2004, 08:45 AM	#9 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Guest Posts: n/a	Mr here I voted for all but the last two.
Mr&Mrs-naughty Guest Posts: n/a

08-24-2004, 06:18 PM	#10 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Single and couples good/bad times Geez... Talk about options... Check, check, check, check and check... I haven't had a bad experience with a single woman... Yet... Knock on wood... Hey! Look! I have wood! Back to knocking on it... Spoomonkey
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