More interesting sex; sex with young males,etc.

[dan47]

My wife and I are both 47(both straight). Our first swinging experience was about 7 years ago shortly after we got married, with a couple around our age. It wasn't bad, but it didn't mean anything to us, either. They were experienced, and I suppose the whole process went well, and we became friends with them, but...

My wife married for the first time at 20 to a 40 year old man, and had actually never slept with a man under 40 years of age. She told me this a few years ago, and I thought it might be different/fun to see her with a very young male.

We've had straight threesome relationships with 4 young males as young as 18/19 and about the same number with males around our own age the last few years. We've actually found the young males more easy going and more impressive in bed, and the guy my wife found to be the most sexually skilled/satisfying was actually the youngest, a muscular/good-looking 18 year old freshman in college, who we just met very recently. I find it very exciting to watch; something about the age difference and a younger male dominating an older woman I find exciting. Sometimes we even do a little role-playing. When we met at our place the first time with the college freshman, she gave him milk and cookies and talked to him like he was a little boy and told him he was cute and pinched his cheeks. Then he picked her up and took her into the bedroom and went at her for most of the evening while I watched and joined in at times. I'd say stuff like "do you like his huge young shaft inside you? Does it feel good?", while she moaned, and he said stuff like "Feel it!". He's very endowed, and just before bringing her to orgasm each time, he'd say "call me a man." Then when he brought her to orgasm she'd shout out, "You MAN, Oh, YES!." (among a lot of other lustful things said)

There's also something kind of cool about teaming up with a younger guy to satisfy my wife. We're friends now too... fishing, planning
hunting trips, etc..

At the same time, I guess it also bothers me slightly, because I can't keep an erection after ejaculation or go as many times as I want in an evening like a young man, so I guess I also might feel a little uncomfortable/old/embarrassed at the same time spending more time watching my wife and the other guy.

What my wife and I find boring is doing a favour in return for a favor. We believe that the best sex involves some kind of fantasy fulfillment and wanton lust. The kind of emotionless/robotic type sex we've had with the most experienced swinger couples we actually find boring now. The kind of attitude of "I'll give you oral, if you'll do it to me" we find unappealing. That's another reason why we decided to try something different. If there's no more fantasy/passion/desire/lust/etc... involved with the swing partners you're with than there is with an electronic vibrator, I guess we find that to be boring. In other words, we find much of the enjoyment of 'good' sex to be mental, and fantasy.

<small>[ October 12, 2002, 02:10 AM: Message edited by: dan47 ]</small>

[JustAskJulie]

I think anytime there it too much planning or direction involved it's going to get boring and I agree... then why bother.

I don't think it's about "I'll do you if you do me" so much as it is about knowing that they would actually be willing to. Everyone should come out happy and fulfilled and not left wanting.

[TeamSoBe]

Hey, wow, that was the sexiest thing that I've seen on this board in a while. Wuhoo! Go Dan, that sounds like a lot of fun.

I really wouldn't worry about getting compared to the young bucks that you bring in. I mean, the whole point of bringing in a younger guy in the first place is the image of a younger guy being really eager and virile. You specifically found one that fits the image that you're looking for, that's something to be happy about.

Your wife is with you for a lot of reasons, and I really doubt that whether you can nail her four times in a row is very high on the list of reasons why she is with you. She probably also doesn't really want to go multiple times with you and with the young fantasy guy in one night. I mean, give the poor girl a rest. My wife loves nights with multiple guys for the first hour or so, but then after a while she's pretty sore and ready to give it a rest.

Just enjoy the fantasy while you have it, the whole thing sounds very erotic to me.

[Tellya Later]

I've been in the same situation myself as the single male and I'm in one now that is quite enjoyable and probably would be more so if not for distance and financial issues (my part). I would definitely hang out with the husband and he feels the same way. I would say I have a certain affection for them as a couple.

But at the same time I've felt a negative affect too in that I've experienced a sort of "disposable" situations in which instead of enjoying the situation to more of a directed and robotic situation. Personally I prefer the later.

My 27 year old wife is definately into younger guys, preferably 18 to early twenties. She really likes the idea of breaking in young virgins because it turns her on when a guy cums really fast as long as they can keep going, which usually isn't a problem for them since they're young and crave as much as they can get. Older women and younger men are a perfect fit because their sexual peaks coincide. Guys peak early and women much later. The bottom line is that it works and it's very erotic for her, for him and for me.

[FTnPV]

I wish my wife would consider real young guys. She's set her limit at 35 and doesnt want to go younger. She had a less than satisfying experience with a guy who was 27 and he seemed more into satisfying himself rather than her, all the while thinking he was fantastic. We have found that the older guys being more interested in her satisfaction have been a better time. The guys after all leave VERY satiated! LOL I would love seeing her with a early 20ish well built good looking guy!

[knight69]

i,m 42 and my husband is 45 and i always try to pick out the youngest ones at the parties. They can go and go. and fill my vagina up more than once.