Weird Experience.

[keysync]

I was curious. The wife and I have been playing for the past couple years with another couple Anyways we have always played where all of us are present. The other guy is a great friend of mine that I've known well since highschool.
His wife has a thing about letting him "do his thing" so to speak but only with my wife. Recently we were at thier house and we had some drinks and knew we were gonna have sex that night. By the way Both him and I have had the big V.
Well anyways the time came where we decided to move to the bedroom and get going. The guy went inside, followed by my wife minutes later. Then his wife and I went into the living room. I went to use the bathroom and when I came back his wife says to me " He's gettin your wife" I said "oh ok" not a big deal. She then says lets go have a smoke. So we went outside to have a smoke.
When we came back in the guy walked out of the bedroom and said where you been. I told him bathroom and smoke. I walked into the bedroom where my wife was lying on the bed fully clothed??? I said to her, "I was just told that he was gettin you. My wife told me no he was rubbing my back. I figured you wanted us to wait on you.. I said Oh no it's ok. and walked back out.
I'm not quite sure what I was thinking but I knew exactly what would happen.
I went out in the living room as the guy walked into the bedroom unknowing of what I just told the wife. I sat on the couch and his wife joined me watching tv. Then another smoke was needed.
After that I found myself feeling REALLY strange. Half excited, Half FREAKED OUT. So I went and looked in the bedroom real quiet like. he was eating her out. I watched for a second and went to sit down. about 2 minutes later I was peaking again and the wife was giving him a BJ. I watched for a bit and then needed a smoke. His wife smiled at me and joined me for a smoke.
After that I was looking in again this time for about 15 minutes. The were at it full force. My heart was pounding like never before. I wasn't mad in the least. I think it was just because it was new. Not being right there when shes getting it from another guy. Anyways I'm about to pass out at this point so I go sit down and about 5 minutes later he comes walking out and goes to smoke. I went in and the wife was in thier bathroom. She came out and give me a big kiss and said "Your turn, go get his wife" LOL This was NOT expected by me. I had a hell of a time getting warmed up. While I was getting a BJ I saw the guy and my wife looking in. Needless to say I couldn't perform. I called the wife in because she has this amazing ability to make me hard by just letting me touch her. I stuck my hand down her pants and her P was all hot and sticky. Different than usual. I asked did he cum in you. She said Yep.
That threw me for a loop. It for some reason really turned me on that she had let someone cum in her other than myself. Anyways we all ended up having sex toghther several times and made a huge mess and had a great time.
I would like your comments on what I went through. I really want to do it again and the wife said she's fine with that.

[sexyshelby]

Well, if everyone is ok with it and everyone is having fun, then why not do it again?

I see nothing wrong with what happened. It might be good to establish some rules with your wife before it does happen again.

Have fun

~SS

[pumpkins1970]

Sounds like you all had a great time, why not do it again??? facelick

[keysync]

That's the thing I guess. Rules...
We always discuss how far we are going to go.
This time in the heat of the moment I let the cat out of the bag and said No it's cool you don't have to wait.
To be honest the biggest fetish I have is pleasing my wife. I'll do just about anything to make her satisfied, however she has never asked for more than what she has recieved.
Maybe she's being shy. Maybe not. That's women I guess I'll never figure them out.

[sexyshelby]

Sounds like you two need to have a serious chat about this. Decide on some rules that you are comfortable with and how far you are willing to go.

Talk to your SO about what happened "in the heat of the moment" and how you each feel about. This should help to sort out some feelings and figure out some groundrules.

~SS

[WesternSwing]

I personally get turned-on by Mrs. WS having a great time, and we don't have to be playing together for it to happen. There have been several occasions where she has played alone at a party and it is a huge turn-on! I like to know she is having a great time, and I'm disappointed for her when she doesn't. When she comes out of the room with a huge smile on her face I just melt. facelick

It sounds to me like you are more secure and less jealous then you thought you were and you've just discovered another aspect of swinging that really turns you on. Talk about what it is about it that turns you on so you are both on the same page the next time the opportunity comes up. It sucks sometimes to have to face this stuff at the heat of the moment. Better to have a game plan up front.

Glad you had such a good time, though... and don't over analyze, you'll take the fun out of it.

Mr. WS

[taosswingers]

Sounds like good clean fun to me

[JandT_Elkhart]

I think you smoke too much.

Who can "need a smoke" when he/she COULD be having sex?!!?

[BorisNatasha]

Damn it JandT that's what I was going to post.



Boris

[LOL_OMG]

OOf you non-smokers just don't git it :rollseyes

[Mike and Jan]

I loved watching my wife with another man. She was always a little apprehensive seeing me with another woman though.

We did the same room thing several times but then ventured into different rooms and I think we both found new pleasures.

For her it was not being distracted by me being with another woman.

For me it was just nice to totally concentrate on the woman I was with.

Same room and different rooms have different thrills. Enjoy them both.

[Alura]

J&T wrote:

I think you smoke too much.

Boris wrote:

Damn it JandT that's what I was going to post.

Damn! That makes me third on the list!

It looks like y'all (keysync) discovered a new turn-on! Congratulations!

Mr. Alura

[keysync]

Yeah it was definatley a new turn on.
We're actually going to do it again this weekend.
I've made the plans.
Can't wait.
PS: Better not forget to stop and buy an extra pack of smokes.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by keysync

The wife and I have been playing for the past couple years with another couple Anyways we have always played where all of us are present. The other guy is a great friend of mine that I've known well since highschool.
His wife has a thing about letting him "do his thing" so to speak but only with my wife.

I went and looked in the bedroom real quiet like. he was eating her out. I watched for a second and went to sit down. about 2 minutes later I was peaking again and the wife was giving him a BJ. I watched for a bit
After that I was looking in again this time for about 15 minutes. They were at it full force.

My heart was pounding like never before. I wasn't mad in the least. I think it was just because it was new. Not being right there when shes getting it from another guy.

She came out and give me a big kiss and said "Your turn, go get his wife" LOL This was NOT expected by me. I called the wife in because she has this amazing ability to make me hard by just letting me touch her. I stuck my hand down her pants and her P was all hot and sticky. Different than usual. I asked did he cum in you. She said Yep.

That threw me for a loop. It for some reason really turned me on that she had let someone cum in her other than myself. Anyways we all ended up having sex together several times and made a huge mess and had a great time.

Sounds very familiar.

Good for you relaxing a bit and not blowing the moment. Very difficult to do when something unexpected takes place. Good job sir.

When we first found couples where the males had the V it was tough for my husband to get used to having other men cum inside me. I always found it weird that he never minded that I drank it all the time and yet he had a hard time with them spraying inside my v or a. Maybe I could see the v issue but the a? What could it matter if a clean guy comes in me anally? Anyhoo it soon became a great turn on for him for many reasons, way to many to get into now.

We currently have 8 couples in our arrangment that stay clean for the sake of the group so the cum is frequently everywhere during our encounters. Personally I love it, it has been a long addiction of mine. Over ten years my husband has slowly gotten used to it all, he isn't even squimish about male members touching which is one of my favorites, you know dual, partying.

Set up clear guidelines though with flexibilty since once you all get going hot and bothered people will loosen many contraints... hmmmmm I think I just answered a dilema I was having.

As far as when we first began having sex with other people without the other's presence, it takes time to build that sort of long lasting trusting relationship with other people, pace yourself. It has never been about trusting my husband with another woman, it was always about trusting her with him. Same goes with me from his perspective. No one wants the emotional issues to go to far and it is a bit scary at times until you build strong friendships with the other people. Sounds like you already have that part taken care of or at least with the guy.