Find others to swing with in a house party situation?

[hoistsail]

How does one go about finding others that would like to swap in a home party atmosphere???

I know we can go to a club that will have lots of folks and that is fun but the folks seem to have there own little groups and are not as welcoming as I thought folks would be.

[fun_pairTX]

We have 5-6 couples that meet once a month or so. We all met through SLS, and we are all in the same geographical area (25 mi radius). We all met to go bowling one Saturday night (no one had ever met anyone else before). And three hours later we were all in a big ass pile on the living room floor. Just meet people from your area, sooner or later you will connect with the right bunch.

[4funfriend]

Yeah, didn't like to club either, and thought that we would never meet someone without one. Almost gave up, then about a month ago started talking to a couple through SN and went to a party not long ago, met a few couples that we are now talking to. I would say look in the personals sites that are listed in this web-site, and be open to trying a house party.

[Dani&Drew]

Reverend.

We're having no luck at all. We've met some great couples, but moving things along doesn't seem to be working at all.

[hoistsail]

When in France parties, or dinner parties would often end up with dancing with the anothers spouse. This lead to groping and playing around and eventually swapping.

Just not the same here in the US.

[hoistsail]

Okay go bowling and invite folks back to fuck. Why didn't I think of that.

I love to fix great meals and then have some relaxing and sexual time. Was easy to do in France, they have their sexual desire at a much higher level than we in the US do.

[fun_pairTX]

The balls are lighter and you don't have to change your shoes.

[froggyjenn80]

My husband and I too were having a very very hard time finding people. So we started a yahoo group. Afterwards we were sent links to sooo many other groups in the area.

We went to meet and greets (bars, parks, bowling, restaurants, ect) we met several people through there. Continuing the conversations (email or messenger) helped. Then voilia we met our comfy group.

You can also on yahoo do an advanced search for swingers in your area....look through the profiles, it helps. Also www.swingerlifestyle.com is an awesome site. So is www.adultfriendfinder.com

Good luck in the search

Jenn

[gsu22]

I haven't had too much luck either but I'm a *single guy* I know I know..............as of now......I've put up 3 or 4 nice ads on different sites(along with numerous emails out to couples) and still nothing.

My only experience has been with one couple and I met them through a friend. They have introduced to some friends of theirs though, so maybe that might open some new doors for me. God knows I've tried like crazy looking on the net for people, sending out nice e-mails, and nothing to show for them.

[froggyjenn80]

It is very very hard for single men to get their foot in the door. I know that around my area we have discussed the topic of single men on several occasions. And most say that it is less pleasureable for the couple to have a mfm versus having a fmf. When the female is bi, both man and woman can enjoy the third person...but if the male is not bi, then during a mfm only the female gets pleasured.

We personally are not ready for another man to join in unless with a couple. But then again MOST of the men that contact us are rude, pushy, and always want to do something without my husband being there, and I am totally against that. They push to see me on cam, talk about jacking off to my pics, ect. Irritates me to no end.

I know there are some really nice single guys out there that are just looking for fun and friendship and not just an easy piece of butt. But they are hard to find.

I wish you the best of luck in your journey for play partners, just be genuine and honest, eventually you will get the chance again.

Jenn

[gsu22]

Thanks! I know this subject has been hit on so many times before on this site. But personally it irritates me also when i hear or see single guys being rude and pushy. All that shows is a lack of maturity on their part and it ends up making the rest of us look bad.

[EternallySingle]

Originally posted by gsu22
Thanks! I know this subject has been hit on so many times before on this site. But personally it irritates me also when i hear or see single guys being rude and pushy. All that shows is a lack of maturity on their part and it ends up making the rest of us look bad.

I say guys like that make me look good. You should too.

[NorCal Nites]

We meet most of our potential swing friends online through yahoo groups, msn groups, or swing sites like sls or aff.

However, we have a group of local newspapers (news and review) that will advertise "spicy personals" for no charge... even set up a voicemail box for you at no cost. They have been a boost in finding what we're looking for!