Hotel rooms, house parties and on-premise clubs...where do you prefer to play?

[sensuality]

Anyone here who has a preference about where you choose to engage in your playtime activities?We've realized we prefer to stick to on-premise clubs. We're just not into house parties and hotel rooms, we feel like this is for us to fulfill our fantasies and don't want other couples in our "space" so to speak.We feel our home and hotel room when we go out is exclusively for our use and we feel that our fantasies are better acted out on neutral ground, where we go,have our fun and then resume our "normal" life.Where as if you mesh the 2, there's that thin line, and it shouldn't be crossed. To us that is our way of living out our fantasies,but also preserving our intimacy with each other.Off beat to some? Yes,but are there any other couples who feel this way?

[DanBridget]

It depends on us.

If we go to the club, then we play at the club. We use to p;ay in hotels when we met people even local. A week or so ago, we played at home and I found it a greta feeling. I was a little more comfotable, except for the fact that my Bro-in-Law is a preacher and lives next door. We will play in hotels if for some reason we are away from the house.

[sensuality]

In my opinion, there's no one way to play in this lifestyle...it's like we all find our niche' so to speak.I think that is what makes this so interesting,and even at times frustrating...Vive La...you know how it goes!!

[Atilla]

where ever it happens, its a good thing

[Vespertine]

I like to play at homes and hotels.

BUT...

I haven't been to a lifestyle club yet. When I go I may have a different opinion.

[northindycpl]

I would prefer to play at a hotel. I have never been to a hotel-party or a house-party before. But I think overall I generall prefer to play, I mean really PLAY in a controlled environment where we can take our time.

I feel rushed at clubs, becasue usually there are so many people waiting to get the room after you.

[sensuality]

Ya know?We've never had a problem being rushed at an on-premise club...Ithink it's because we party and dance and we play out on the dancefloor until after about 1 a.m. and then we go find a room to play in.By then, everyone is usually done and are kinda recovering and it gives us some time to play with people or just put on a show.

[chgocupl]

I think I agree with Sensuality, there is no one place to play. Hotel rooms are more intimate, and with just one or two couples, or singles offer a safe haven, and someone else cleans up the mess. House parties offer a larger variety of people to play with, and a chance to be a voyeur as well as participate. In a club scene, you magnify what can happen in a house party. There are usually more people, and more areas for things to happen, and people to observe. In the club we go to, there is a pool, a hot tub, a window to a bedroom to look through, and a lounge area to socialize, dance, and watch other people. To my way of thinking, watching others is almost as erotic as performing yourself. Depending on the mood you are in, or the people you wish to party with, all three places offer wonderful opportunities.

[newgentry]

We're with you, Sensuality. We really like on-premise clubs and they're without question our playpen of choice. We've found that it really gives us more options, and more of "our own space" than anywhere else.

[sensuality]

WOW!!It is very reassuring to note that a lot of you feel the same away about on-premise clubs.Unfortunately, everyone lives so far away!!Most,if not every couple we've encountered so far just want to high tail it to the hotel room or just won't let loose in front of anyone,which makes no sense to me...they're already planning on having sex with someone they hardly know. But, hey...to each his own!!Thanks for responding to this post everybody!!

[JustAskJulie]

Sensuality, so when you play with another couple do you rent a room just for playing in? Then go home at the end of the night? Or get two rooms, one for playing and one for sleeping?

[dutch51]

We've never been to a house party, but have played in hotels, on-premise clubs and someone's house- either ours or the other couples'. If we're at a club and we want to play, it's usually late at night after we've socialized and danced and all that fun stuff, so by then we're usually tired. Hotels are alright, but sometimes almost too impersonal. We seem to prefer a couple's house whether it's ours and the kids are at a sitter for the night, or their house. We normally make these things into late nights or all-nighters (not playing all night, just not having to be home til the next day). We try to get to know the other couple before playing, so being at someone's house is comfortable for everyone. Regardless of the location, we end the night together, alone, so as long as we have a place to do that, we're happy.

[fun_pairTX]

We prefer on premise clubs as a place to play. We love the uninhibited atmosphere, we just like to get to town every now and then, (our home is very isolated), we prefer to play with multiple couples all at once and the club makes that much easier, and last but not least SOMEONE ELSE CLEANS UP IN THE MORNING.

[DandS]

We've never been to a house party. We usually play at the club where we can enjoy the dancing, flirting, sexy dress, etc that lead up to play or we play at our house since we dont have any kids at home anymore. Havent had the opportunity to play at a hotel yet, but would not be opposed to it.

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[sensuality]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Sensuality, so when you play with another couple do you rent a room just for playing in? Then go home at the end of the night? Or get two rooms, one for playing and one for sleeping?

:rollseyes No Julie,we don't rent 2 rooms. We play at the clubs.We do rent a room for us.We have had the pleasure of taking a lady or 2 to our room with us though. Our main focus is that we enjoy meeting people at clubs.Flirting, teasing,dancing,drinking,and playing. facelick But, prefer not to take anyone home or go home with anyone or attend house parties.And, so far haven't felt comfortable taking a couple to our hotel room. We consider our home to be that sacred place for our love and our family,only.And, we feel the same about other people's homes.We basically don't like the idea of meeting and then...after an hour..hey, let's go to a room and fuck. <EG> Maybe, we just haven't found that comfort level yet...who knows?Aren't we always learning and tweaking things?