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Talking to Club Owners

This is a discussion on Talking to Club Owners within the Swinging at Clubs/Parties forums, part of the Finding People to Swing With category; Thanks everyone for weighing in on this and for all the great advice! All is taken care of now. When ...

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Old 09-24-2004, 02:28 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Thanks everyone for weighing in on this and for all the great advice! All is taken care of now. When I told one of the owners what my night had been like before I got their original message, well she said that she thought I handled the whole situation rather well. We're really looking forward to going now, I just can't wait!!! Kandj, if you're going this Saturday, maybe we'll run into each other! It would be great to meet some of the people from the board, would feel like I've got friends there that I know already.
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Okay this is the way I am thinking...if you are a club you have health regulations..if you are a ABC either with a bar or with a BYOB there is still a ton of ABC regulations..and if it is a ABC club, even a private at any time they can come in and check to see if ABC regulations are being followed...
A few other scenes come to mind..not good ones but they *could* happen..a fire..fire marshall wants to see names of people for possible idenfication...real names are a big help here...awful but it has happened at other clubs...possible infections..always possible..health dept. needs to contact actual people...not fake names..you have a possible heart attack..well if someone says you are John Doe you are not and medical records can not be checked...possible fight/shooting..<rare I am sure but could happen> the last thing the club owner wants to say is Oh his name was Scooby Doo. So what may seem like all out noseyness or to put you out maybe something they have to follow to stay 100% in the limits of the law.
I would say you could register with your real names, then tell everyone inside you are Raggedy Ann and Andy if you choose too...<joking here, but look at it from this angle>

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Okay this is the way I am thinking...if you are a club you have health regulations..if you are a ABC either with a bar or with a BYOB there is still a ton of ABC regulations..and if it is a ABC club, even a private at any time they can come in and check to see if ABC regulations are being followed...
A few other scenes come to mind..not good ones but they *could* happen..a fire..fire marshall wants to see names of people for possible idenfication...real names are a big help here...awful but it has happened at other clubs...possible infections..always possible..health dept. needs to contact actual people...not fake names..you have a possible heart attack..well if someone says you are John Doe you are not and medical records can not be checked...possible fight/shooting..<rare I am sure but could happen> the last thing the club owner wants to say is Oh his name was Scooby Doo. So what may seem like all out noseyness or to put you out maybe something they have to follow to stay 100% in the limits of the law.
I would say you could register with your real names, then tell everyone inside you are Raggedy Ann and Andy if you choose too...<joking here, but look at it from this angle>

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Um, I think I pretty much covered most of what you're saying in the rest of my posts...it was never an issue with our 'real names' or ever giving them to the club. It was the fact that they accused me of not using my our real names...that was my bitch about the situation. But thanks for thinking of me and trying to help out, I appreciate it!

Julie, how did it go? How did it go?! Girl, it didn't go! My alternator in my car went out on Saturday morning, Andy and a friend fixed it, but it still ate into our saved up 'club' money. We decided to go anyway...my sitter called like 10 minutes before we were supposed to leave and cancelled on us! I was not a happy camper!

Andy cheered me up with himself and more tales of his Friday night encounter though...We had lots of fun anyway! We've set a date for 3 weeks from last Saturday to go and have ourselves a good time! facelick

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Um, I think I pretty much covered most of what you're saying in the rest of my posts...it was never an issue with our 'real names' or ever giving them to the club. It was the fact that they accused me of not using my our real names...that was my bitch about the situation. But thanks for thinking of me and trying to help out, I appreciate

LOL..sorry have had little sleep this month and I am so fuzzy on what I read it is not funny..one reason I have not been posting much...anywhere..it has been wild at home.

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Sorry to hear that you didn't get to go after all of that. Hopefully, next month you will be able to go without anything stopping you and have a blast. Of course, be sure to let us know how it goes when you do.
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