First Time Swinging in LV

SoCalS · 06-03-2004, 05:02 AM

My wife and I will be attending our first swing party in Las Vegas in about 30 days. We are both nervous and very excited at the same time. Any advice regarding what we can expect for our first go around? Is it more common to hook up with a couple? Also, if we are both in this together, isn't it important to be in the same room together?

Thanks for any help.

HotCoupleGnS · 06-03-2004, 07:25 AM

I have no idea what to expect from a club, we haven't got to go to one yet. But about the same room thing, there are a few threads that we just recently talked about that on. I'm sure someone will put the link in here for you. Things got a little heated between some people on that thread. My hubby & me personally only play in the same room. But the conclusion of most of the people is that you & your wife need to decide what makes you comfortable. Don't let anyone talk you into doing something, decide for yourself. Many people play in separate rooms, they say that it is fun because you can connect with that one person. That you don't have an audience. I'm sure other people can answer that one better. The ones that only play in same rooms, do so because this is something we decided to do together, so we want to be together when we do it. We do it in the same room because we enjoy seeing our spouse enjoying thenselves, and because some of us like to play with our spouse also.

Most people that play in separate rooms, play in the same room some of the time. The best advice I think I or anyone else can give you guys is to do whatever makes you the most comfortable! Have fun!

VegasLee · 06-03-2004, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by SoCalS

My wife and I will be attending our first swing party in Las Vegas in about 30 days. We are both nervous and very excited at the same time. Any advice regarding what we can expect for our first go around? Is it more common to hook up with a couple? Also, if we are both in this together, isn't it important to be in the same room together?

Thanks for any help.

Are you going to a club, a private party or are you coming in for the Lifestyles Convention?

SoCalS · 06-05-2004, 08:21 AM

We were thinking about attending an on premise club, however, can you tell me anything about the lifestyles convention?

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-06-2004, 02:47 PM

Which club were you planning to attend?

Close Encounters · 06-10-2004, 11:09 AM

Lifestyles is July 7-11, 2004
http://www.lifestyles-convention.com...ndex-2004.html

SoCalS · 06-12-2004, 07:29 AM

We were thinking about the Couples Oasis or the Seamed Stocking. Has anybody attended either place, and, if so, would you mind sharing your experiences?

In addition, what go on at the lifestyle's conventions in Vegas?

Thanks for the help?

JettyCouple · 07-25-2004, 09:07 PM

The convention can be as wild or as mild as you'd like it to be. We just got back from the Vegas one a few weeks ago and we had a great time. There were all shapes, ages, sizes and experience levels represented, so there was something for everyone. It was held at the Stardust, which may not be the cream of the Vegas hotels, but it was good enough and the staff didn't treat the lifestylers like social leppers. We'd do it again.

As far as organized activities go, the main ones are dances at night, followed by a party at the pool. There were some bungalows by the pool that offered play rooms, which were a lot of fun and were filled with well-behaved people. They had seminars (I guess that's what you'd call them), which we blew off for slacker time at the pool. There was a room filled with vendors selling slutwear, toys, etc. as well.

People also had private get-togethers, which were independent from the sanctioned activity. Keep in mind that a couple thousand people attend this, so little impromptu get-togethers spring up all over the place.

It's a very low pressure situation, so no matter what your comfort and experience level is, you'll be fine.

D&R

JettyCouple · 07-25-2004, 09:10 PM

Oh yeah, I forgot...we also visited The Red Rooster, a swing club, which didn't impress us very much.

Chris&Suzanne · 08-09-2004, 02:58 PM

Alos being in So. CA we have been to the Red Rooster many times. We lke it, and it gets better each time. We were lucky that we had met a couple online that introdiced around the Red Rooster the first time.

It is relaxed atmospehre, and they have a couples only area in case some singles get in your face. Does not happen often, but it can.

We alos only swing together. I guess we can't see the purpose of going alone, for many reasons.

If you have never done this before, please talk and decide on some guidelines between yourselves. Sick to them the first time, and then if you feel you want to modify them that is O.K.

Write back if you want more information.

mmm_yaya · 08-10-2004, 11:13 PM

SoCalS:

My wife and I are thinking of heading to Couples Oasis over the Labor Day weekend. We've never been to a club either. If you go before that, please post a review of it here.

I guess we need to call them to set up an "interview".

lcjtsd · 08-13-2004, 04:35 PM

Definately Couples Oasis. You need to call ahead of time to set up an "interview" but this place is much better than the Red Rooster.

mmm_yaya · 08-13-2004, 09:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lcjtsd

Definately Couples Oasis. You need to call ahead of time to set up an "interview" but this place is much better than the Red Rooster.

Anyone know what this "interview" entails? What do they base their decision on?

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06-03-2004, 05:02 AM	#1 (permalink)
SoCalS Registered Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Southern California	First Time Swinging in LV My wife and I will be attending our first swing party in Las Vegas in about 30 days. We are both nervous and very excited at the same time. Any advice regarding what we can expect for our first go around? Is it more common to hook up with a couple? Also, if we are both in this together, isn't it important to be in the same room together? Thanks for any help.

06-03-2004, 07:25 AM	#2 (permalink)
HotCoupleGnS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 970 Location: Tulsa, OK Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HotCoupleGnS	Re: First Time Swinging in LV I have no idea what to expect from a club, we haven't got to go to one yet. But about the same room thing, there are a few threads that we just recently talked about that on. I'm sure someone will put the link in here for you. Things got a little heated between some people on that thread. My hubby & me personally only play in the same room. But the conclusion of most of the people is that you & your wife need to decide what makes you comfortable. Don't let anyone talk you into doing something, decide for yourself. Many people play in separate rooms, they say that it is fun because you can connect with that one person. That you don't have an audience. I'm sure other people can answer that one better. The ones that only play in same rooms, do so because this is something we decided to do together, so we want to be together when we do it. We do it in the same room because we enjoy seeing our spouse enjoying thenselves, and because some of us like to play with our spouse also. Most people that play in separate rooms, play in the same room some of the time. The best advice I think I or anyone else can give you guys is to do whatever makes you the most comfortable! Have fun!

06-05-2004, 08:21 AM	#4 (permalink)
SoCalS Registered Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Southern California	Re: First Time Swinging in LV We were thinking about attending an on premise club, however, can you tell me anything about the lifestyles convention?

06-06-2004, 02:47 PM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 24,502 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 75	Re: First Time Swinging in LV Which club were you planning to attend? __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

06-10-2004, 11:09 AM	#6 (permalink)
Close Encounters Club Host Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 284 Location: Gulfport Ms Status: Couple	Re: First Time Swinging in LV Lifestyles is July 7-11, 2004 http://www.lifestyles-convention.com...ndex-2004.html __________________ Gail and Pee Wee www.close-encounters-club.com www.coastbiladies.com

06-12-2004, 07:29 AM	#7 (permalink)
SoCalS Registered Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Southern California	Re: First Time Swinging in LV We were thinking about the Couples Oasis or the Seamed Stocking. Has anybody attended either place, and, if so, would you mind sharing your experiences? In addition, what go on at the lifestyle's conventions in Vegas? Thanks for the help?

07-25-2004, 09:07 PM	#8 (permalink)
JettyCouple Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 14 Location: PA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:JettyCouple	Re: First Time Swinging in LV The convention can be as wild or as mild as you'd like it to be. We just got back from the Vegas one a few weeks ago and we had a great time. There were all shapes, ages, sizes and experience levels represented, so there was something for everyone. It was held at the Stardust, which may not be the cream of the Vegas hotels, but it was good enough and the staff didn't treat the lifestylers like social leppers. We'd do it again. As far as organized activities go, the main ones are dances at night, followed by a party at the pool. There were some bungalows by the pool that offered play rooms, which were a lot of fun and were filled with well-behaved people. They had seminars (I guess that's what you'd call them), which we blew off for slacker time at the pool. There was a room filled with vendors selling slutwear, toys, etc. as well. People also had private get-togethers, which were independent from the sanctioned activity. Keep in mind that a couple thousand people attend this, so little impromptu get-togethers spring up all over the place. It's a very low pressure situation, so no matter what your comfort and experience level is, you'll be fine. D&R

07-25-2004, 09:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
JettyCouple Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 14 Location: PA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:JettyCouple	Re: First Time Swinging in LV Oh yeah, I forgot...we also visited The Red Rooster, a swing club, which didn't impress us very much.

08-09-2004, 02:58 PM	#10 (permalink)
Chris&Suzanne Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 121 Location: Long Beach	Re: First Time Swinging in LV Alos being in So. CA we have been to the Red Rooster many times. We lke it, and it gets better each time. We were lucky that we had met a couple online that introdiced around the Red Rooster the first time. It is relaxed atmospehre, and they have a couples only area in case some singles get in your face. Does not happen often, but it can. We alos only swing together. I guess we can't see the purpose of going alone, for many reasons. If you have never done this before, please talk and decide on some guidelines between yourselves. Sick to them the first time, and then if you feel you want to modify them that is O.K. Write back if you want more information.

08-10-2004, 11:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
mmm_yaya Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 21 Location: az Status: couple	Re: First Time Swinging in LV SoCalS: My wife and I are thinking of heading to Couples Oasis over the Labor Day weekend. We've never been to a club either. If you go before that, please post a review of it here. I guess we need to call them to set up an "interview".

08-13-2004, 04:35 PM	#12 (permalink)
lcjtsd Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 125 Location: NO LONGER PARTICIPATING!!! Status: Couple	Re: First Time Swinging in LV Definately Couples Oasis. You need to call ahead of time to set up an "interview" but this place is much better than the Red Rooster.

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