On-Prem Parties.....and clean up

[Sadie6969]

Okay, so here's a newbie question which I haven't seen a previous thread for......

So, we're new to swinging (obviously) and are taking it slow. We have started going to on-prem parties and just having sex with each other in front of everyone (big step for me). The problem is, we don't use condoms with each other, so what would be the proper etiquette for cleaning up the, uh- you know, mess.

Should we be carrying a towell with us everywhere, and be sure to put it down, before we sit/lie down? I just wasn't sure if we would look silly, or if that is expected.

Sadie

Excited and Confused

[jcbicouple]

If we plan on having sex on a soft sofa or chair, we usually go get a sheet just like we would for a bed. We just throw the sheet over the sofa or chair. If we move before we do anything, we either take it with us or throw it in the laundry.
Pretty sure that no one would be surprised if you were to lay down a towel, if you prefer that over a sheet.
If things got going before you thought to get something, we're also pretty sure no one would be offended if you went and got a damp, soapy towel and cleaned the area....it would be more likely that everyone would appreciate it.

[LikeMinds321]

We are newbies too. Haven't swung yet, but if we have people over to our home I hope they will be considerate enough to keep a towel under themselves when in a position to leave any "love juices" behind on my carpet or furniture. Hard surface areas, no problem.

I'll always have towels and sheets handy for my guests. And I will bring my own when I go to others homes.

My hubby and I use them all the time when we have sex around the house. I often ejaculate which can make the area real wet. A towel is a necessity.

Mrs. LM

[fun_pairTX]

Hosts, help your guests too.

Whenever we have a party we make sure there are containers of baby wipes and a basket od disposable douches in each bathroom.

[redcanyon64]

Your post brings up the question for us; How are you received when you have sex only with your mate at an on-premise party? We have had MFMs and she has even dated another man, but to ease into a swing setting we wanted to only be with each other first. How do others react? Did you have to reject a lot of offers?

[Sadie6969]

"redcanyon64 Your post brings up the question for us; How are you received when you have sex only with your mate at an on-premise party? We have had MFMs and she has even dated another man, but to ease into a swing setting we wanted to only be with each other first. How do others react? Did you have to reject a lot of offers? "

At the big club we went to, we managed to keep to ourselves and did not have to fight off any advances. Now, we just went to our 1st house party and that was a LOT different. I did manage to waive off advances from those I did not know. BUT when I became engaged with host - who I did know, every one seemed to think I was a free for all. So lesson learned, if I am comfortable with someone, I am taking them into a private room. And secondly I am going to be more up front with our rules and where we are in the lifestyle.

[Tanman aka Mike and Marie]

The club we go to has paper towels, wiping cloths and wastebaskets in the private areas.

Also when we are out I use condoms so there is no mess for the wife.......she REALLY appreciates this.

Mike

[KentuckianaCPL4]

The club we attend also has "baby" wipes, paper towels and waste baskets in every "play" room. With access to towels, washclothes, sheets etc.

Ken & Rox