Nervous about going to a club

[FloridaTagTeam]

ok so someone please explain to me why when I'm a very out going person and NOTHING usualy scares me suddenly i'm a little worried about going out to a club. I just realy have NO idea what to expect. We got married when I was only 18, I never realy had much of a partying type life if u will . . never even been to dance club . . much less a swing club lol . .. I just know I'd feel 100% better about the situation if i kinda had someone who'd been there bofore along with me to kinda hold my hand on the way.

[yawanna]

Absolutely understandable There are many postings about just that situation.... use the search option and type in 'swinger clubs' and see all that you'll get .

If you have questions beyond what you read, don't be afraid to ask....

Happy Trails

[kandj]

lol.... I know exactly what your talking about. Or maybe I should say my husband does. We have been going to a swing club for several months now and he still gets the butterflies in his tummy so bad before we get there that he has to chew on a few antacids on the way there! Having someone else that is going as well does help calm those nerves down a bit.... but they still get the best of him at times.

[SluttyWife]

You know this has gotten my Knight and I thinking about hosting less threatening fetes for our newbie couples.

Could you share with us what might construe the makings
of an ideal first time event?

Would you like for us to meet you and a few other couples for some coffee tawk on a rainy afternoon or would lunch or Brunch do? I'd love to hear your ideas on this. I remember our first club experiences all too vividly.

I think we needed more than a little hand holding. I know I wouldn't have been able to get in the door had I first tried this with Slutty Husband #1. All kinds of scaries entered my mind.
First and foremost was the beautiful blonde "man stealer."
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I've attended a couple of mandatory newbie orientations at a few clubs on our travels but they felt more like tours before entering the party pit.

Hmmm...thinking on it now it would have been much easier to take if it were more like a gathering of friends. I must confess I would have still been nervous as hell if it hadn't been for my naughty background.

Anyway could you kindly let us know what you might seek in the way of "hand holding"?

;-*

Slutty Wife

[sexyRus_inMass]

Originally posted by FloridaTagTeam
ok so someone please explain to me why when I'm a very out going person and NOTHING usualy scares me suddenly i'm a little worried about going out to a club.

Your imagination is your worst enemy.

It's intimidating yes but remember that you are always in control and have the ability to leave whenever you want. There isn't anything to be afraid of really!!! honestly!!!!

Swingers are typically very respectful, if anyone approaches you, it will most likely be to say hello. Not - "hey baby come over here so I can rip your clothes off and devour you here and now!" That comes later if you want it.

Experience life, have fun.

[WhosBtchAmI]

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Swingers are typically very respectful, if anyone approaches you, it will most likely be to say hello. Not - "hey baby come over here so I can rip your clothes off and devour you here and now!" That comes later if you want it.
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but but thats the part that sounds like fun LMAO maybe it's more the consept fear that no one will wanna come over and offer to rip my clothes off t-shirt


(female half of FloridaTagTeam )