How Much Swaping Really Goes On?

03-02-2004, 09:12 AM

We are going to our first club this Saturday.

We were thinking that meeting another couple for sex would be a given. From what I am reading in this thread couples only seem to hook up 10 - 20% of the time. We figured we only had a 10 - 20% chance of NOT meeting a couple for same room sex.

I know each club is probably different as well as different parts of the country but the majority of the posts in this thread seem to lean to the side of less swining not more goes on.

We are going to an off premice club.

We were thinking we have a Very good chance of meeting a couple and a very small chance of not.

Do we have it backwards? Are we setting our expectations to high??

**good times** · 03-02-2004, 12:25 PM

We have only gone to on premise clubs, but I would have to say that if a person goes expecting to hook up you are probably setting yourself up for a dissapointing experiance. If you are reasonably outgoing, you should have no problem meeting a lot of nice people, but it has been our experiance that finding four people that all find each other attractive, compatable and interested in the same things sexually can be more of a challenge. Thats not to say it can't happen, but my wife and I take the attitude that we will go expecting nothing but are ready for anything. At the club we regularly go to we have went several times in a row and not hooked up with anybody for sex, we have also hooked up with more than one couple in one night. So we just go expecting to have a good time no matter what happens and usually are not dissapointed. We always have each other, so if we don't hook up with another couple we just take matters in our own hands.

R

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03-02-2004, 09:12 AM	#31 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mr Here We are going to our first club this Saturday. We were thinking that meeting another couple for sex would be a given. From what I am reading in this thread couples only seem to hook up 10 - 20% of the time. We figured we only had a 10 - 20% chance of NOT meeting a couple for same room sex. I know each club is probably different as well as different parts of the country but the majority of the posts in this thread seem to lean to the side of less swining not more goes on. We are going to an off premice club. We were thinking we have a Very good chance of meeting a couple and a very small chance of not. Do we have it backwards? Are we setting our expectations to high??

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03-02-2004, 12:25 PM	#32 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,415 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	We have only gone to on premise clubs, but I would have to say that if a person goes expecting to hook up you are probably setting yourself up for a dissapointing experiance. If you are reasonably outgoing, you should have no problem meeting a lot of nice people, but it has been our experiance that finding four people that all find each other attractive, compatable and interested in the same things sexually can be more of a challenge. Thats not to say it can't happen, but my wife and I take the attitude that we will go expecting nothing but are ready for anything. At the club we regularly go to we have went several times in a row and not hooked up with anybody for sex, we have also hooked up with more than one couple in one night. So we just go expecting to have a good time no matter what happens and usually are not dissapointed. We always have each other, so if we don't hook up with another couple we just take matters in our own hands. R