Club Run by a Single Male

SharperEdge69 · 10-21-2001, 04:32 PM

Would you patronize or even consider a swingers club run by a single male? What about a single female? What if the single male or female did not play...just ran the club?

Stratecpl · 10-21-2001, 07:18 PM

You betcha..I'd patronize a club run by a single man...I wish there WERE more like that out there!

Connie

PA_RACERS · 10-21-2001, 07:49 PM

We would definately attend. The club we do go to is run by a widowed single lady who doesn't play. As long as the club is managed properly why should it matter who owns or runs it.

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-22-2001, 11:23 AM

Actually, you'd probably be surprised at how many swinger clubs out there are run by single males....

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

CindyB · 10-22-2001, 01:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JustAskJulie:
Actually, you'd probably be surprised at how many swinger clubs out there are run by single males....

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

It's probably the easiest way for them to get in? (just guessing!)

danc694u · 10-22-2001, 01:30 PM

Several Clubs in this area are run by singles. That is if you consider couples that live together without being married, single. We don't. http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/smile.gif

I think it goes back to another post. As long as it is run well. I wouldn't care if it was my own mother running it http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/biggrin.gif

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It's more fun than checkers.

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-26-2008, 03:16 PM

If I'm not mistaken BOTH of the two clubs that we visit most often are run by single males. Actually, the more local of the two the guy is not single anymore (he has a girlfriend) but he is the main one that runs the club and does all the work. He was single when he took it over and single when he started visiting the club. When the previous owners were going to close it down, he stepped in and took the job of keeping it open. He does a fantastic job and I really don't think it's about HIM having a place to go. One thing to consider when making that judgement is that if a single male started a club for that reason it wouldn't last very long because they'd get fed up really fast with the amount of work it takes to keep a club going and the fact that they would get very little PLAY out of it. Ask anyone who has hosted a party or a club...

NakedInSeattle · 03-27-2008, 10:06 AM

Why should it matter? The quality of the club (premises, members, etc.) is what's important. The owners/managers don't usually play during "events" anyway. They're too busy shmoozing and making sure all is right.

MRnMSbhaven · 03-27-2008, 10:16 AM

I honestly don't care who runs the club as long as it's a safe, fun, clean, and sexy environment. If a single male can pull that off... more power to him. We'd go.

Ms B

joseph3d · 06-14-2008, 11:40 AM

It is true that having the right people as members is very important. I think an outgoing and friendly couple has a better chance of getting other couples to join.

If a single guy is running a club, he may have friendly women employees to act as emcee or he may do this himself. There is a real need, I feel, to have someone, male or female, who will get guests into games and in breaking the ice. I know a local club that takes their money and tells them to have a good time. They have never grown very big, but still they remain in business which is surprising. I also think good music is important to set the mood, but there are clubs who don't provide much quality music at all.

**TNT** · 06-14-2008, 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SharperEdge69

Would you patronize or even consider a swingers club run by a single male? What about a single female? What if the single male or female did not play...just ran the club?

We'd definitely patronize it

One of the local groups that we belong to is run by a single male...he does an excellent job! We always have fun at his parties. The thing that pisses me off, personally, is there have been people who have complained about single men being allowed at his parties...my question is...If you don't like single men, why did you join a group that was started and ran by a single male?

So far, no one that has complained, has answered my question on the group site.

Teresa

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10-21-2001, 04:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
SharperEdge69 Active Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 11	Club Run by a Single Male Would you patronize or even consider a swingers club run by a single male? What about a single female? What if the single male or female did not play...just ran the club?

10-21-2001, 07:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
Stratecpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2000 Posts: 456 Location: TN, USA	You betcha..I'd patronize a club run by a single man...I wish there WERE more like that out there! Connie __________________ "Well behaved women rarely make history"

10-22-2001, 11:23 AM	#4 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 21,263 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 53	Actually, you'd probably be surprised at how many swinger clubs out there are run by single males.... Julie http://www.swingersboard.com __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

10-22-2001, 01:30 PM	#6 (permalink)
danc694u Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 546 Location: Birmingham, AL Status: couple	Several Clubs in this area are run by singles. That is if you consider couples that live together without being married, single. We don't. http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/smile.gif I think it goes back to another post. As long as it is run well. I wouldn't care if it was my own mother running it http://www.swingersboard.com/ubb/biggrin.gif ------------------ It's more fun than checkers. __________________ Phonies and Fakes Need not apply. We're as real as it gets, and don't have time to be wasting on dumbasses.

10-21-2001, 07:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
PA_RACERS Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 84 Location: Titusville, PA, USA Status: couple str8m/bifem	We would definately attend. The club we do go to is run by a widowed single lady who doesn't play. As long as the club is managed properly why should it matter who owns or runs it.

03-26-2008, 03:16 PM	#7 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 21,263 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 53	Re: Club Run by a Single Male If I'm not mistaken BOTH of the two clubs that we visit most often are run by single males. Actually, the more local of the two the guy is not single anymore (he has a girlfriend) but he is the main one that runs the club and does all the work. He was single when he took it over and single when he started visiting the club. When the previous owners were going to close it down, he stepped in and took the job of keeping it open. He does a fantastic job and I really don't think it's about HIM having a place to go. One thing to consider when making that judgement is that if a single male started a club for that reason it wouldn't last very long because they'd get fed up really fast with the amount of work it takes to keep a club going and the fact that they would get very little PLAY out of it. Ask anyone who has hosted a party or a club...

03-27-2008, 10:06 AM	#8 (permalink)
NakedInSeattle Loving life (style) Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 412 Location: Seattle, WA Status: Couple SLS Name:NakedInSeattle	Re: Club Run by a Single Male Why should it matter? The quality of the club (premises, members, etc.) is what's important. The owners/managers don't usually play during "events" anyway. They're too busy shmoozing and making sure all is right. __________________ "The Engineer says the glass is too big" Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. YES is the answer!

03-27-2008, 10:16 AM	#9 (permalink)
MRnMSbhaven Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 161 Location: Wisconsin Status: Couple SLS Name:mrnmsbhaven	Re: Club Run by a Single Male I honestly don't care who runs the club as long as it's a safe, fun, clean, and sexy environment. If a single male can pull that off... more power to him. We'd go. Ms B __________________ I'm not as easy as you think I am but not as difficult as you're making me out to be.

06-14-2008, 11:40 AM	#10 (permalink)
joseph3d Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 57 Location: Austin, TX Status: Couple	Re: Club Run by a Single Male It is true that having the right people as members is very important. I think an outgoing and friendly couple has a better chance of getting other couples to join. If a single guy is running a club, he may have friendly women employees to act as emcee or he may do this himself. There is a real need, I feel, to have someone, male or female, who will get guests into games and in breaking the ice. I know a local club that takes their money and tells them to have a good time. They have never grown very big, but still they remain in business which is surprising. I also think good music is important to set the mood, but there are clubs who don't provide much quality music at all.

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