Anyone start out by going to a swinger club and having sex with each other?

[NYCcouple29]

Anybody know any easy going, fun low pressure swing clubs where we can start out to see what its like? My wife said she isn’t interested in swinging (well, not yet) but is willing to go to a swing club with me and have sex with me in front and around lots of other people. Can anyone recommend any good clubs for this and give me any advice you think I might need? Has anyone started out this way? I’d appreciate any help you could give me, thanks.

-Paul and Sherry

[PA_RACERS]

That is how my hubby and I started. We went withe friends to a nice place in Ohio. Since then our friends have opened their own club in PA. So if your anywhere close to northwestern PA I would gladly talk to you about the club.

Marsha

were from the oil city area and would be interested in going to a club in nw pa...if you could give us some more info .....email us at tijuanabubba@hotmail.com

[ktown]

I was in the exact same situation a couple of years ago,so about two years ago My wife and I went to a Valentines party the swing club was having and we had a blast,no pressure to do anything,we talked to so nice people and could not beleve all the stuff that went on around us.The club we went to starts out with dinner than a birthday celebration for people and then dancing which is a blast because it is true dirty dancing,all the time coulpes who look like they should be at PTA meetings are heading off to have sex in the play areas.We don't swap but we like to be watched and watch which nobody cares about because their into their on thing,the first time we had sex the first night it was my wife who said FUCK me here infont of everybody but nobody was really watching us, so to sum things up go for it.The Club we go to is in Washington State and its called New Horizons

[wvcouple40s]

We started out the exact same way, in fact at a Valentines party this year at The Cottage in Gettysburg, PA. Very much a no pressure club, my wife loves it because of the dancing and large jacuzzi. We have been there a few times now and since she does very limited swinging she likes it because of the other things to do. This kind of club should be perfect for you and your wife - always lots of conversation going on, play if you want, watch it you want, or be watched if you want.

[jimcat]

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by NYCcouple29:
My wife said she isn’t interested in swinging (well, not yet) but is willing to go to a swing club with me and have sex with me in front and around lots of other people. Has anyone started out this way? I’d appreciate any help you could give me, thanks.

-Paul and Sherry[/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Paul
What your suggesting for a start is exactly how
my wife and I got started. We went to our first club two years ago. We enjoyed watching and being watched for the first year and a half. Six month ago we had our first mfm. This was my original fantasy. Now my fantasies have grown and were looking to have our first couple swap. We've been to three clubs and they were all very low pressure. You will find some people who persist when you say no but they are the exception not the rule.
Good luck and remember to respect your wife's feelings. It can get frustrating when one partner is ready to take the intensity up a level and the other partner is still unsure. Hope you realize all your fantasies!