Running into someone you know!

[couple4openplay]

Have you ever ran into some one you know at a party or club and you had no idea they was in the lifestyle? or just thought about what you would do it you have? Share your thoughts and all here ()()

[oriel]

This happened to me when I lived in Ireland. Fortunately, it was someone I knew only casually. We were both a little shocked but we said hello, chatted and had a good time. In retrospect it was kind of nice.
It set me thinking though - I'm not sure what I would do if it was someone I had a professional relationship with and that person reacted badly (was embarassed and left, for example).

[Ashley]

This is one of my biggest fears. L and I both have professional jobs and if I ever ran into a co-worker or one of the company's owners I don't know what I'd do. I'm much more comfortable when we swing out of town.

[Flori_DAMAN]

I have run into many....some just local people we knew casually, and a couple of them through employment...and one relative.

Never a problem. The same ole....hey if your here and I'm here then who cares huh?

John

I agree, if your there and they are too...your all interested in the same thing... could be kinda fun

[ga_cpl_frknit]

St. had a dream that we saw his ex-girlfriend (who is also in the lifestyle) at the club....I said "The night we see her there would be the last night we go."

Other than that, I think after the initial "shock" we would just let it roll off our shoulders. Just another common interest with someone we know I guess.


St. Tr.

[Close Encounters]

When it happens and it will.

Approach the acquaintance immediately and say hello. If you have a swinging interest, you already have something in common. If not politely move on.
This does two things.
1) The chill in the air will be gone rather than linger all night.
2) It gives you a psychological advantage, You saw them they didn't see you.
Bumping into someone you know can ad a whole new meaning to "Fuck the neighbors".

[yhungry]

We ran into a family member. We parted our ways and talked about it a couple of day later. We both argreed to let each others know when we were going to the club as not to meet again.




Rich

[lnk4u]

think about it...... your at a swingers club...... they are at a swingers club. obviously both are there for the same thing. i really dont see any problems with it.

[alabamafuntonig]

on our friday night date me and my wife and the other cpl we were with ran into a client of my wifes who the other cpl have had a few sexual encounters with recently...i must say it only gave us another option....

[pna42]

I ran into my very hot boss at a club in Miami when I was living down there. She was as shocked as I was. I sat around and we talked [her husband was there too]. I got the best of both worlds. We both agreed that what went on in the club never traveled over to work. I was a frequent guest at their house after that.

[bill&sabrina]

This isn't a big deal to us because what has been said earlier. We are at a swing club, and so are they. The problem fixes itself.

[dpdarling]

i try to go only to places that are 50-100 miles from where i live. that would include clubs in wilmington, but not in myrtle beach. my job wouldnt be hurt, but i dont like to advertise.

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by dpdarling
i try to go only to places that are 50-100 miles from where i live. that would include clubs in wilmington, but not in myrtle beach. my job wouldnt be hurt, but i dont like to advertise.

Vero beach FLorida is within 100 miles in men miles.

John

[austxmark]

I saw an ad for a guy and his wife from my office. The office staff is only 16 people so I knew him well. He was a newbie so I wanted to give him a heads up about being "found out" so I created and ad and told him he was recognized and that he might want to give some thought to the possibility to blur the faces on thier pics. I did not identify who I was but left enought clues that he might be able to figure it out. We never discussed it so I never knew if he knew who I was.