"Beautiful People Only!" Swing Clubs/Groups

[belladonna]

Originally posted by austxmark
I do not think its so much the fact that the beautiful people stick to each other as it is the rudeness in the response that is given when approached by a couple less attractive. I mean, being polite costs a person nothing and causes less hurt feelings. So when one couple is not interested in another, a simple thank you, but not what we are looking for is sufficient.

This being said I will say that sometimes people do not take the hint and more forceful statements must be taken. But the hallmark of class is the ability to handle difficult situations with tact and consideration. So those of you that are physically beautiful on the outside might consider expanding that beauty to the inside and show this class.

Bad manners is worse. I hope the original poster never gains weight or wrinkles with age.

[bbcpl4cpl]

Originally posted by CanadianCouple
This subject has come up in various locations on the board. It invariably boils down to whether or not a person's physical appearance and features should be the sole criteria for choosing partners -- or in this case, admitting people into a club. As far as the latter goes, I could look like Brad Pitt and I'd still tell that club to go to hell - that's no different than admitting people only of a particular race. It's also the reason why I've railed numerous times against ads that specify pretty people only. People who seek only the physically beautiful are petty and pretentious IMO, and while I recognized everyone has their preferences, that doesn't necessarily mean being completely exclusionary to everyone else out there. We all have something to offer, if not a 25 inch waistline.

Dan

All I can say to this is "Hear Hear"! My thoughts and sentiments exactly. It's so narrow minded to base things on looks.

Tigress xx

[thekolonel]

The problem I have with the events that screen for looks is that there seems to be a higher standard at work for the women than the men. There's such an emphasis on female looks.

All an out-of-shape guy with a big pot belly has to do is throw on some decent clothes and show up with a hot babe and he's golden. What happens is of course you have more beautiful women around than men, and it is harder to find play partners we both find attractive.

[Couple_DFW]

Originally posted by suntory
I think its a great idea for the beatifull clubs!! and its fair enough!! I am 30yr and my wife the same age. My wife is rather good looking and I nor her could think if anything worse that having sex with a 40yr old fatty with a ten foot nose!! Sex isnt like just going to a party and choising who you are talking to. Its much more personal than that!! christ its SEX. If over the hill people are offended and have some sort of complex then bad luck thats how it is thats life. I know myself I wouldnt want to have sex with a women too much older than I it for me would be a turn off. I read on one of the posts apart a couple going to a beautifull club and getting in a hot tub and the other couple leaving......perhaps you guys were ugly....bad luck thats how it is!! would you want to get into a hot tub with people 30yrs older and worse for wear !!
I think its also great to segeragate the ages also.......the younger do have a problem with fucking with the older and the beautifull with the ugly.....but obviously the other way around has no problem and is insulted when told they are unnatractive. GROW UP!! This isnt bible class this is SEX?FUCKING or whatever you want to call it and people have to be turned on and NOT turned off.....thats what its about isnt it?????!!!!!

I THINK YOU ARE AN ASS!!!()() You are the type of person that we are talking about!! It's one thing to have your preferences but it's another to just be out and out rude!!

I don't care how attractive you are, with an attitude like yours, you just became very ugly. I'd be with Atilla the Hun before I would be with you.

And for what's it's worth.....most think of me as one of the beautiful ones!! I choose not to think of myself that way. I am just a human being....how others percieve me is their problem or not.


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[Couple_DFW]

Originally posted by austxmark
I do not think its so much the fact that the beautiful people stick to each other as it is the rudeness in the response that is given when approached by a couple less attractive. I mean, being polite costs a person nothing and causes less hurt feelings. So when one couple is not interested in another, a simple thank you, but not what we are looking for is sufficient.

This being said I will say that sometimes people do not take the hint and more forceful statements must be taken. But the hallmark of class is the ability to handle difficult situations with tact and consideration. So those of you that are physically beautiful on the outside might consider expanding that beauty to the inside and show this class.

I couldn't have said it better myself!!!

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[windsor4fun2]

Originally posted by Couple_DFW
I THINK YOU ARE AN ASS!!!()() You are the type of person that we are talking about!! It's one thing to have your preferences but it's another to just be out and out rude!!

I don't care how attractive you are, with an attitude like yours, you just became very ugly. I'd be with Atilla the Hun before I would be with you.



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I couldn't agree more.

Jesse

[dentwebb]

I read all the post on our site tonight, and there must have been a post about beautiful people vs everyone else. I sure noticed some polorized comments and experiences.
I just want to put my meger two cents in. We are all people with different illusions and delusions about not only ourselves but also everyone else.
I think we should all be polite and respectful of everyone! I have been with both the beautiful people and the everyone else people, and I have found disrespectful, rude in both catergories.
From what I have found over my short life of 52 years, that most everyone whether they be not so beautiful or beautiful, don't really get it that there is always someone that thinks they aren't of the beautiful class!!
I do as I am sure many here already know, that most of the younger swingers in the group don't have the experience nor experiences to realize that there is always someone more beautiful than they are.
My suggestion is we all try to be polite and respectful to anyone and everyone. Everyone has a illusion as to who they are and how beautiful they think they are.

[Alura]

Originally posted by cntrlnjcpl
So to you all that don't like the idea of the clubs excluding people, do what we did and find a nice bar looking for the business and have your own. It does help to find a bar that is in a motel for people to get rooms

The new "Meet Up" thread works well for this sort of thing. We're having a great time with it!

Alura

[Couple_DFW]

[quote]Originally posted by dentwebb
[b]I read all the post on our site tonight, and there must have been a post about beautiful people vs everyone else. I sure noticed some polorized comments and experiences.


You are so right. And after my post, I was asking myself who the fool really was.

I tend to get on a soap box when it comes to rudeness and I took the guys' post as very rude. He certainly could have phrased it a bit nicer.



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[yawanna]

Would you apply to get an invitation?

It's an after club on premise party, from about midnight to 5 a.m. You pay to attend and BYOB. It is only available to people who are in their mid 20's, 30's to mid 40's who are height and weight proportionate and above average in looks. These qualifications have to be verified by the party organizers beforehand, an in person interview.

What do you think about this type of swinger event? IS it a swinger event if age and looks are the criteria?

[BradAndJanet]

Well, I suppose it qualifies as a swinger event, but it's not something we would want to attend. I doubt we'd make the cut anyhow, being old and ugly

Doesn't matter to us anyhow, we're still having fun!

-B

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by BradAndJanet
I doubt we'd make the cut anyhow, being old and ugly

Uhhh, some may disagree with that...

[saranmark]

You have to go through an interviewing process? Jeez! I can tell you that I would probably NOT go to the trouble!

SARA

[Alura]

Mrs. Alura would get an invitation but we always play together so I guess we wouldn't go.

Mr. Alura

[Elusive BiFem]

Originally posted by Alura
Mrs. Alura would get an invitation but we always play together so I guess we wouldn't go.

Mr. Alura

Well, Mr. Alura...I guess if Mrs. Alura decides to go alone, you and I could catch a movie or something. Shuffleboard anyone?

I don't think I'll be invited either. Just can't imagine why...

-EBF

OK, yawanna...serious answer? No, I don't think I would want to attend even if I did meet their "criteria." That kind of stuff makes me uncomfortable - I don't like being measured. - EBF