First time to Swinger's Club

[Fantasy01]

Hi..we have finally made a date to go to a swinger's club. This one is known as the Meeting Place in Decatur, Mi not to far from our home. Diane said she would wear her sexy black out fit from Fredericks Which will give me great access to her pussy while on the dance floor..This we hope will be one hell of a nite, and many more to cumm, to remember. The only hang up is that we are in our late 50's to early 60s....any advice would be welcomed

[tribbles]

For our first times, we didn't even try to play with others. We just went and played with each other. Talk to people, go to the play area and see others and let others see you two play. Have a blast with each other!

If it works out that what you hope for, offers themselves, go for it, as long as you feel comfortable.

[Fantasy01]

Well I like your advice. I want to fuck my wife and let everyone watch us...as we want to watch them play.

[PNK]

Went to our first party last weekend. It was at an on-premise club. We had talked about the idea and both agreed that we are not looking for others to play with but to just play and watch others fuck in public. It was everything we hoped for. The night started off slow but eventually we saw a woman laying on one of the beds with a man and a woman playing with her tits. They eventually had her skirt up and were alternating eating her. We were sitting about ten feet away and watching intently. The couple standing next to us then went into the corner on a couch and started to play with each other. Next thing I know my wife has her hand down my pantss and says "wow I guess you like this" I reach up her skirt and she is drenched." My wife then starts to suck on my cock with lots of couples walking by and watching. It was amazing! We eventually went over to a couch and she climbed on top and rode me for all I was worth. Another couple was on the couch with the woman sucking her mate off. I kept pulling my wifes skirt up in the back to give the onlookers a good view of me inside her pussy. We will definately go again. We talked later and still both agree that the voyeur/exhibition part is as far as we would like to go. Planning a trip to Vegas and hope to go to the Red Rooster.

[Willing29]

Our advice is basically as the prior posters said, just go have fun and enjoy the evening. Maybe do some dirty dancing, kissing, and whatever else you feel comfortable with in public. Most clubs even have private rooms if you are not up for the public sex part just yet. But just go with an open mind and have a good night out. Let us know how it turns out and good luck.

[MrkLin]

It's been our experience that a good percentage of people who go to on-premise clubs do so to watch or be watched, and have no interest in going any further. Having said that, however, we have met some very good lifestyle friends at one local club.

It is what you make it, so have fun!

[crazinred]

We are talking about going to our first club event this weekend. I hope it all works out and we both have a good time. I still get the feeling of uneasiness from Red. So we will see what happens. I have told her she in in control of where to go and what to do so far. Its a local club thats having a Swing town 70s attire party so it sounds like a good time.

[MrkLin]

Just remember - let her be. She'll do or not do things in her own time. If she feels pressured in any way, she'll have a lousy time. I'm sure neither of you want that. It's time to act like a jellyfish - ride the tide, and go with the flow...

Both of you - relax and have fun. Check my blog.

[crazinred]

Thanks for the reply and I had Red read your blog the other day. Its just getting past the first time. Red is not a good one at taking the lead she needs to be encouraged to do things. Its just knowing the fine line between encouragement and pushing.

[MrkLin]

I will guarantee both of you will be nervous. That's ok - everyone there had a first time. The first time we went to a swing club, Lin basically tucked herself into the fetal position and stayed that way the entire time. She was petrified. We went back several times and she got more comfortable with things. Now she's the first one to suggest that we go into the playroom to see what's going on, and once inside, she's almost immediately naked.

Don't expect a lot of fireworks on your first trip. Relax, meet a few people, and have some fun. When you get home, talk about it - maybe even go again the next weekend. Things are always easier the second time.

[crazinred]

Well it seems this isn't our weekend. Red got mandatory overtime Saturday night along with getting her period today. So we will see what happens in the next week or two.

[crazinred]

Myself and Red got to talk some finally and she expressed one of her concerns with going to a club. She is unsure of being in a location of naked people walking around everywhere. She understands she doesn't have to be naked herself but thinks she will be uncomfortable around others being naked. So my question is at most on premises clubs is there open nakedness in all areas or just mostly in the play areas.

[BiloxiCouple]

Not everyone is naked. Down to hardly anyone. Unless the club has a policy about being naked in certain areas. I wouldn't worry about it. It's hard enough to get people to party and almost as hard to get them naked at times just to walk around.

[crazinred]

Ok thanks for making sound like a total dork, honey. And, thank you for your input Billy and Elaine.

[screaminggood]

It's a legitimate concern! Just remember if they're walking around naked, it's okay to look---unlike in a vanilla situation where you might turn away if someone had a dress malfunction. In our local clubs, most people have clothes on around the dance floor, but skirts get raised up so there are glimpses, depending on the women there many times there are topless dances, and occasionally a stark naked person/couple will pass through on their way from one playroom to another.