On-premise activity at Off-Premise clubs

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

It is an embarrassment to all swingers when a few swingers can't remember there are rules for off-premise clubs for good reason.

Quoted for truth.

It really is an embarrassment. I guess some folks didn't get the memo about how it's OK to be a swinger and still be classy.
I think that was covered on the first day of swinger school.

[Pepper & Drew]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

It really is an embarrassment. I guess some folks didn't get the memo about how it's OK to be a swinger and still be classy.
I think that was covered on the first day of swinger school.

So, tell me more about this swinger school you speak of. What's the curriculum like? Can I get a syllabus???

Pepper

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

So, tell me more about this swinger school you speak of. What's the curriculum like? Can I get a syllabus???

If I were the teacher at Swinger School, you'd definitely be "Teacher's Pet".

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

The worst part was seeing the club owners breaking their own rules. No wonder the patrons did the same. After finally seeing the owners having sex in the sign-in/food room (across the hall from the party room) which was open to the public hallway of the hotel and watching a family with young children walk by at the time (who didn't look in, thank goodness) I decided I'd not give my business to that club again.

When it takes only a walk upstairs to a private room, or just a drive across the street to another hotel, people can wait a few minutes for sex and get it on once in private.

It is an embarrassment to all swingers when a few swingers can't remember there are rules for off-premise clubs for good reason.

LM

Wow. Just Wow. You are right, the club-goers will follow the lead of the hosts and other "leaders" at the club. I can't believe a club owner/host would do that... well yes I can... some people just have no sense. And you were right to refuse to go back there.

We visited a off-premise club last week that we had heard some things about (as far as things getting out of hand) and had decided that the second we saw anything remiss we'd be leaving. Luckily, we didn't have to as things stayed as tame as they should have for the location. We'll give it another shot and hope that whatever rumors we had heard previously were either just rumors or the activities have been put to a stop.

[SJCPL1]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I guess what I wonder about is why so many clubs state one thing but then don't enforce it. They are stated to be off-premise and yet they allow overt sex acts out in the open (not talking in a dark corner or sneaking off to the bathroom but on top of tables).

And with that I wonder how others feel about encountering those situations. Do they make you feel ill at ease? Or do you prefer a club that allows you to be open and do whatever regardless of the risk it may impose?

It really would not bother me too much unless it really gets over the top. But a copule (or a few couples) having fun would be no big deal to me