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Hubby Orders Wife To Find A 2nd. Women For Him !

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I really dont know if anybody here has encountered such a thing in there club,, we have noticed at our club ( MIAMIVELVET) which is an awesome/outstanding club! , that on occastion a couple{ M/F} will come in & the guy wil sit back & he will literally order his wife to go thru-out the dancefloor & club in search of a 2nd women for him , we have seen that the wife will leave crying everytime,casue he continuesly oerders her to go get him a 2nd women for them to share & she is totally oppossed to it!,,,,maybe we are the only one to noice this , we think its like pimping your wife to some extent & so wrong , has anybody else has noticed this at there club????

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Sounds like the guy is a domineering pig that she should have left long ago.
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Sounds like a real selfish Dickhead who needs a mega kick up the jacksey..
I feel sorry for the woman and she doing something she obviously doesnt want to..

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Is this a bullshit troll post?

Because that's exactly what this is, a BS made up story just to get some free advertising for your .COM
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I have not seen something like that. But I came across one couple that would engage with single males, and later the husband would tell his wife that she was not worth all the attention she got that night, that she is just lucky to luck younger then she is and that none of those guys would have fucked her if they knew that she was a housewife with two children
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Is this a bullshit troll post?

Because that's exactly what this is, a BS made up story just to get some free advertising for your .COM

If that's the case it would be a very poor way of doing so. Advertising that their club has a tendance to draw asshole men like that? I think that would keep more people away than invite them in.
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It could work both ways....I agree.

But maybe this is a case of the cuckold woman syndrom? or does that exist in reality?

Even the dictionary defines cuckold as a male behavoir.....wonder what they call a female in the same behavoir pattern?

...humm...if cuck is male, then cont might be female.....but maybe it's conk...or cunk....
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we have seen that the wife will leave crying everytime,casue he continuesly oerders her to go get him a 2nd women for them to share & she is totally oppossed to it!,,,,
This just sounds bizzare. Leaves crying EVERY time? She is "totally oppossed" to it? So you are saying you see this over and over, and you know just what is going on? Hmmmmm - something is fishy here. I agree it doesn't sound like an ad for the club, but my troll radar is up. Maybe a slam against the club by the competition? ( -lol!)
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If this scenario does play-out we haven't noticed it. The only on-premise organization we have here has too small a clientèle and everyone knows one another anyway, and we haven't seen it at any of the bigger off-premise club parties, though couples looking for a bisexual female to join them is extremely over-represented at these events. I do however see the questions "How do I talk my wife/girlfriend into a threesome with another woman?" and "My husband/boyfriend won't stop hounding me about having a threesome with another woman and I'm not sure I want to do it." on other sites I frequent.

And I agree with Julie, advertising drama at your club would be a very poor way of advertising it. All I could see from this is me hitting on his wife and a fist fight ensuing. I would avoid a club/party like this altogether. In fact in another post I mentioned this and we did not go to either of two off-premise parties on Friday because of past happenings like that, even though the security was good and took care of the situations right away. We just don't go there for drama. If we want that we'll go to a non-swinger night club and get in a fist fight with a drunk, jealous boyfriend.

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I don't know what to think. I can't say we have seen this at our clubs, but we have seen some women disappointed when they cant find the single bi female to join them. I mean, even I know Mrs.fun would be more apt to put this advancement forward. I'm not saying I just sit there while she looks, because unless I'm sitting for other reasons I pretty much mingle myself. I'm just saying Mrs.fun has better luck.

Your saying that the guy forces her to get the second for him ? I mean people would pick up on this in the crowd we see, and he would probably be either attacked by the women around him... or... The owners would say something if he came back a few times to not be doing this. Making his wife cry... and then coming back again and doing the same ?
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Ok i have a problem with this. If it were just once, i could understand. But not several times with her crying.

Now in my situation in my Wifes and my BDSM lifestyle, i have given Her total control. If We go to a club, She gets to pick and i accept. The thing is though that this is something that is Ok in Our relationship. The biggest rule for Us is that the things we do cannot harm our marriage. As i said, something is just wrong with what was posted.
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Sounds like a real selfish Dickhead who needs a mega kick up the jacksey..
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I feel sorry for the woman and she doing something she obviously doesnt want to..

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I'm afraid I can't agree with this. I guess if I have to feel sorry for her, it would be because she doesn't realize she doesn't have to put up with this bullshit!! If I was stuck with an asshole like that, I'd be inclined to say, "Nuh-uh, shithead. We're going to find ME a nice young stud with a cock like a horse to bang the hell out of me for the night. You can come along if you like, and if you can find a woman who wants to be with you for the night, that's great. But that is going to be YOUR problem. And with your personality? Good fucking luck..."

Of course, in this case, I'd probably already have my bags packed at home and money for cab fare tucked in my G-string because we'd be going our separate ways after he pulled a stunt like that.
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Floks we're not advertsing anything on here, WE dont own the club, we are just members nothing more .. im just writing what we've seen & been told with this particular couple which is all 100% true,i know this stroy is bizzar to say the least, how do u think we felt when we noticed what was going on with this couple, sad is an understatement,( ADDITUDE ) your comment was totaly out of line , if u dont belive what we have said then plase dont read or answer any of our posts anymore! you are a very incesative person......
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I would have thought if the situation is as you have said it would be very hard to find play friends, come on how many women out there wouldn't pick up on the situation and ether ignore or whisk her away from the jerk?

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When I first read the first post I thought you were talking about seeing it multiple times with multiple different couples. So this is the same couple over and over again? And the club management continues to let them in the door? I think I would be having a talk with management and pointing out that their drama is causing negative vibes for all and they should probably be banned.
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