House Party question

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by des1re06

It is a closed group, and we do share results and have built trust. We get to know couples for awhile before introducing them into the group. It's not a "come one, come all" kind of group. We feel "responsible" for whomever we invite.
Mrs. D

If that's the way you have always approached involving people in your group then why change it. Just because someone wants an invite doesn't mean they get it or that you have to give it now, or ever. However, if you think they may be a good addition to your group then why not get to know them better yourselves and maybe invite them to join you and some others from your group for dinner and introduce them that way. Get a feel for what others in your group think of them before you make a decision.

If the potential for bi-male play is the issue and you know that no one in your group would be ok with that, then you need to find out if that is really an issue. Ask them and understand that with the stigma attached to bi-male play they may or may not be honest if they sense that you are not ok with it.

[des1re06]

If that's the way you have always approached involving people in your group then why change it.

I agree to a point, but I don't want to make the decision based on just my feelings. I'll poll the group.

Just trying to please the others in the group. I don't like an extra large penis, but that's just me. So, I can't "try him on for size." LOL

See what I mean?

I worded the initial post terribly. I need a do-over.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by des1re06

I agree to a point, but I don't want to make the decision based on just my feelings. I'll poll the group.

Just trying to please the others in the group. I don't like an extra large penis, but that's just me. So, I can't "try him on for size." LOL

See what I mean?

I worded the initial post terribly. I need a do-over.

that goes back to my other advice of having them meet you and some of the others out for dinner and see what the others think. However, one thing to really ask them to consider is that your group is a group of couples and no singles and would that really be what THEY want?