On premise clubs expectations/preferences?

[swingcouple69]

I got this idea from a post that I just read and replyed to. Since we have only attend one club, I'd like to hear from all of you.

What are your expectations or preferences of an on premise club? What does the club "have to have?" What would you dislike at a club? What would be the perfect on premise club for you?

[ownerspet]

Me and the Mrs have exhibitionist tendencies, however too many distractions can make it difficult to accept pleasure, so it is a delicate balance of playing in a club with people around. So we tend to not want alot of conversation going on while we are playing in an on premise club.

As for a perfect club: I'm sure there's not a perfect anything, especially club. Because for me what makes a club is the environment which is also defined by the crowd it happens to draw on a particular night. So from that perspective, the environment of any club is going to constantly change, if only slightly and eventually you may have a bad experience or night at a club.

However, in attempt to define a perfect club: It must have a good mix of people, places separated for dancing, for playing, and for talking to get to know people of course. Furthermore, it would be nice to have a bar where you can at least obtain mixers and drinks.

[JustAskJulie]

I think expectations in this realm tend to be based a lot on experiences. While I've been to clubs that have a lot more than our favorite club, all I really expect is that it has places to play (preferably both private and public), an area to dance/meet others, and an area where you can actually relax and talk to people without interrupting someone else's sex OR being drowned out by the music.

[good times]

We have been to quite a few clubs, but after much thought, I have to say that I can't really answer this question. We have been to some we liked better than others, and at one time we even had a theoretical perfect club in our mind. The problem is, we have yet to find the perfect club, and after experiencing some of the things that were on our list of requirements for our theoretically perfect club that it turned out we didn't like. I have to say that I really don't know what the perfect club for us would be. I am hoping to one day know it when I see it though.

[des1re06]

One of our favorite clubs (so far) is Colette's in New Orleans.

There was a small dance floor, so it didn't cater to the "dancers only crowd". Lots of lounge areas to get to know people, and the bar is fantastic.

There were theme rooms upstairs, and a group/voyeur bed. What I liked best were the windows where the "lookers" could watch without being obtrusive. You could close the door and not hear conversations too.

They have pictures on their web site.

Mrs. D