What to wear

[tjomc]

We are going to visit our first on-premise club and we are very excitied our question is What do we wear, What should we take, what should we expect other than a great time?????

[prettylady]

The guy will want to dress in nice neat clothes. I have yet to see a guy dress in skimpy clothes, but then again I am still fairly new.
As for the woman, dress how you feel most comfortable. You will likely be told by most the women here to bring more then one outfit and change as the night progresses.
I am not really comfortable in some of the club wear my lady friends wear. I feel more comfortable somewhat covered. Dog would like me to wear less, I tried that at halloween and couldn't relax until I covered up abit.
Prude outside the bedroom, sex kitten inside the bedroom.
Your wife will exude more sexuality if she is comfortable in what she is wearing.
Hence the more then one outfit approach. She can change as her mood changes.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[mark069]

Dress whatever you feel comfortable in keeping in mind that "skimpy and sexy" for the women is probably the norm. If you do dress "skimpy" take a warm coat or even trenchcoat with you for walking to the club from your car. Inside it will seem like any other club, except the women will probably dressed very sexy. Check with the club to find out about "rules" - some parties allow on premise sex while others do not.....

[ShellyM]

Wear whatever makes you feel SEXY. That changes for me. One night I might wear a miniskirt with a thong or no panties; then the next week I have bought that magical pair of low cut jeans that make my ass look like WHAPAM!! and I wear that and a low cut blouse to show off my curves with my precious high heel boots....just wear what makes you look in the mirror and say "dammit thats a fine ass woman in that mirror!!"

[DandJK]

I also have the same question. Thanks for the tips on what to wear, no for the second part What items and other things should we bring if anything?

[ncmd_couple]

I suspect that the routine is different for each club. We are members of three clubs in the PA/MD area.

Me, nice slacks and a button down shirt. I usually wear silk boxers so that after getting in the hot tub or playing I just roll up my clothes and put them in our locker and go in the boxers from that point forward.

L starts out in nice street clothes. She has something sexy to change into a little later. She enjoys shopping for sexy clothes and likes to surprise me!

Great fun!

[fun4Ds]

for the second part, what to bring?

we bring our... well how do i say it, and make it sound sexy like my wife does?

our nasty bag.... it is what it is....she named it

her items,
1. a bottle of Malibu rum.
2.a couple of toys. the latest addition, this little vibrator thats about the size if a butane lighter small but effective.just in case someone wants to be tickled.
3.two small towels.
4.aspirin
5.eye drops.
6.condoms
7.a change of sexy wear. some times the mood changes, some times the weather changes. extremely cold or hot.

my items,
8.a little flash light.
9.the leatherman pocket tool... come on ya never know its small.
10.cheapy, flip flop shoes. just in case we shower while there.

[sexcupid]

Personally, I wear jeans, a good boob shirt (one that shows the twins off ), and whatever season appropriate footwear that strikes my fancy...be it some strappy heeled sandals or boots. I just am not comfortable walking around in 'club wear' or lingerie (although ironically enough, I don't have an issue with just walking around naked...maybe that's an off shoot of some nudist activites we do).

What I have a problem with at the clubs are the wives being all 'streetwalker' and the men are looking tore up from the floor up. We drove by a club one night, we were checking the area out. We saw one couple walking in where the female was wearing a skirt so short that the coat she put on totally covered up her clothes...but her husband/male partner was walking beside her with baggy ragged out jeans and a tshirt. It made me think 'wtf?' But we've seen a few women show up looking like they didn't look in the mirror either...eh, that's just one of my pet peeves...using the wife for 'bait'.

But back to what else we bring.

In the play bag (Nasty bag fun4ds? i like...lol) we keep:

2 small bottles of lube (for those times we are not in the same room), lots of condoms (learned that one after our first not so great swing with a broken condom and no replacements), a couple of hand towels, whatever we're drinking for the night (usually Malibu for me and Jeff likes Desorono...I know I didn't spell that right). If we know the club has a dungeon, then we usually have a couple of restraints of our own and a flogger (but I prefer that we don't use those in playtime, our house isn't big enough for a good cross for restraining...so we take advantage if it is available).

We don't normally carry toys, but if we did I am not sure I would want to share...I mean if it was a 2 headed dildo...well it's kind of meant to share. But on some level passing around toys kind of squicks me out, so I don't know (even if we do buy toys and just keep them for the play bag only).

Have fun!

Maria