I have questions and concerns about Ohio clubs.

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My wife and I are new to this.We are not having much luck with personal ads and such so we are considering a club. My hesitations are this.......

Are we gonna fit in? I am 6'0 195 lbs and have been told I am smokin hot. She is 5'-1" and 160 lbs most of which is in her tits. She is not confident at all really however she had no problem playing on her own a few weeks ago while on a girl vacation,, so i know she can handle it. Neither of us look as good as a few personal ads I have seen. Are we gonna walk in and find a bunch of gorgeous people. Are all the men looking a pom pom girls? I know I am not,,, but am i an exception? Theres no doubt that we are clean and take care of ourselves but lets face it,, I work like a dog ,, smoke and am somewhat balding. She has had 2 kids ,, works like dog also smokes ,, you know the drill. Its a rat race out there sometimes,, it wears ya down?

My next question is this.......
Would it be inappropriate to ask a couple we should meet to join us in our hotel? Maybe in a while we will strip and fuck in a club,,, but Im not sure we will be up for this the first time around. But we both know we want to fuck. Shes went as far as to say NO SOFT SWING,, if shes gonna go out with the intention,, shes gonna go through with it! I like her attitude! So do couples leave together? Or is that taboo in some shape or form?

Thanks in advance,, I look forward to hearing your replies.

[TNT]

Next time you're out in town or wherever, take a look around you at the people you see...Those are the same type of people you will see in a swinger's club...All shapes, sizes and colors.

Yes, it's appropriate to ask a couple of join you in a hotel room. Not all clubs are on-premise (meaning sex can happen at the club). At off-premise clubs you have to leave to have sex .

Whatever club you decide to attend you should be able to find information as to what is allowed and not allowed on their web-site and be able to ask a question if you can't find the answer to it.

I would suggest that the first time you go to a club, go with the expectation of just having a good time...not with the expectation of you "have" to hook-up with someone or the night has been a waste.

Teresa

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Thanx dear,,, that clears up alot.

[NicoAndMel]

What personals are you using? That might also be the problem. I know that Mel and I were lucky to find a couple who was willing to take it slow w/ us, and now... we are working on another meeting.

As far as clubs, we really dont know of any good ones (we cant afford the costs rt now). But, in all, keep looking, sure you can find something you are looking for...

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We are on SLS and another,, not sure if i can post the name on here without offending the admins? Also,, tinkered with craigslist which hasnt worked at all.

One of our biggest problems right now is my wife is straight,,, that is eliminating alot of matches?

Wife said she's taking over the seach though!!!!!! I got fired.