Still confused about club selection.

[shawn00sa]

Any suggestions on finding a club that suits us? What we are looking for is a place that we can go and flirt, dance, things like this with no pressure to try anything else. Not that we do not want to try anything further, but we are looking for someone or a couple that both of us can agree on for "other" things. But the most important thing is a place that we can sort of dance and have a good time. We are very curious about attending an off-premise club. We very much enjoy going out with our close friends and doing some flirting. Sorry if I am skipping all over here. We like doing this with our friends but are looking for a time when we could take this a little further.

We Live in Mighigan, but very close to both IN and OH. We have looked at the club listings. There just seem to be so many and not really one that jumps out at us.

Maybe someone has some suggestions.

Thanks,
Shawn

[Close Encounters]

All of the "Off-Premise" clubs fit what you are looking for. With the many you have to chose from you can have a grand time just checking each one out. Nothing ventured nothing gained.

[JustAskJulie]

There are lots of people here from MI so you will probably get many suggestions. Two that I know from personal experience will offer what you want are Sierra Social Club in Lansing and The Apple in the Detroit area. The Apple isn't listed tho, you have to know someone who is a member to attend the first time.

[Tanman aka Mike and Marie]

Keep reading the reviews and don't be afraid to go and try a club. You don't have to do anything. You can sit and watch, just observing others is highly educational(and erotic).

When you feel like it you can get up and dance, I know at several clubs we have attended its not un common to "bump into" others and then some flirting starts from there. Make eye contact with others you would like to meet and then if they return the eye contact go and introduce yourselves.

Some people my categorize some clubs or people as cliquish, while some may be this way I think most are looking at new people as you are looking at them, and lets face it we are selective about who we spend time with. We started attending a new club and it took several visits before we were able to meet other people to have fun with.

Relax, go in with no expectations other than to have fun, I think you will be pleasantly surprised

[ciscosv]

My wife and I have pretty much attended the Sierra Social Club (9+ visits) in the Lansing area. We have also visited The West Michigan Social in the GR area once.

Both have very friendly hosts. Sierra has the largest facility and huge dancefloor. WMC is more of a cozy type atmosphere. They both have an ice breaker game. It only works to meet people if you play the game. My wife and I did not get the clique feeling. I think that those people expect to be approached. It don't work like that. You have to meet people. And you can have fun.

My opinion is that we like both places but are more familiar with SSC and its members.

We get our groove on!

Have fun.....

[ATAK]

Well, I prefer a Driver or 3-Wood off the tee, then mid to short range irons for approach shots, Pitching wedge for around the green and the putter for, obviously, putting. I hope this clears up any confusion.

Just trying to add a little levity. Tee Hee

[JustAskJulie]

Originally posted by ATAK
Well, I prefer a Driver or 3-Wood off the tee, then mid to short range irons for approach shots, Pitching wedge for around the green and the putter for, obviously, putting. I hope this clears up any confusion.

Just trying to add a little levity. Tee Hee

I think you just want a t-shirt.

[ATAK]

Moi? Whatever do you mean? Sure, I want the shirt, but I couldn't resist the topic. Hehehehehehe