Three Day Houseparty

[des1re06]

So, we've been invited to a 3 day weekend house party. We are very good friends with the hosting couple, and there's attraction all around. Yes, we've been intimate.

The question is about the other 5 couples invited. We won't know any of them at all. Has anyone been in a similar situation, and how would you handle it?

We're excited about seeing the host couple again, since they live a long way from us.

Thanks,

Mrs. D

[Greg & Sheryl]

We would be thrilled to be invited to such a party. Not knowing the other five couples would not be a concern to us at all. We are always open to meeting new people, and we would trust our good friends to invite other couples of similar character.

[WesternSwing]

We've never been to a three day house party, but we'd probably handle it just like a regular house party: we'll play with those we are attracted to.

You might meet some really good people if these folks you like are inviting them. Obviously they'd be friends with them for the same reasons their friends with you. Besides, there's nothing like having a referral.

Mr. WS

[Zoe&Wash]

Three days of grown-up type partying?



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[oncewere]

Please take good notes. I'm sure everyone will be interested in what happens.

[junkyard38]

Well where do I start. My partner and I live quite remote in Minn. from where the action is, so we decided that on the long weekends Labor day, Memorial etc at our home on the river we would sponsor 3 day parties. Which gives people ample time to play and still travel without the usual rush.
Our next party is coming up over the Labor day 2007, the response is unbelievable, for starting on the 30th friends are driving up and be here from Iowa, Friday the couples and single will begin to show up. Normally we have about 3-4 couples, this party we are having 18 persons the more the merrier, the house will be bulging like a little bit pregnant.
Point at hand, everyone has stated that the lack of rushing, and having time to get acquainted, without the rush of lets hurry up and get it on makes these parties what everyone is looking for. It is all not just copulating, but a real enjoyable time relaxed and is that what a party is for?
If anyone gets the opportunity to be invited to a three day party, make yourself a guest. The best and most relaxed time you will have in your swinging life, friendship is pair mount but the benefits are beyond words.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by junkyard38

Point at hand, everyone has stated that the lack of rushing, and having time to get acquainted, without the rush of lets hurry up and get it on makes these parties what everyone is looking for. It is all not just copulating, but a real enjoyable time relaxed and is that what a party is for?
If anyone gets the opportunity to be invited to a three day party, make yourself a guest. The best and most relaxed time you will have in your swinging life, friendship is pair mount but the benefits are beyond words.

I'm really glad you posted! Before I read your post I was thinking... MAN a 3 day swinging party with couples I don't know, staying at the house of the only couple I do know. That could feel a little uncomfortable, especially if you decided you didn't like any of the other couples. But, when I look at it from the way you put it, it makes a lot more sense. We aren't talking about 3 days of straight F**king here, just a weekend party with friends... making new friends and everyone is open minded so if we want to go screw in a corner with that couple we just met, so be it! if we just want to hang out and relax and only screw each other, that's cool too. And like you said, unlike most one night only swinger parties, there is no rush to go from "Hi, may name is...." to "ya wanna screw?". Things can happen in their natural progression. My only concern would be to know that wherever I'm staying (whether at their house or a nearby hotel) that I have somewhere I can go and just be alone (with my hubby or on my own) if /when I need to. 3 days of lot sof people can be a little overwhelming for me.

[Zoe&Wash]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

My only concern would be to know that wherever I'm staying (whether at their house or a nearby hotel) that I have somewhere I can go and just be alone (with my hubby or on my own) if /when I need to.

Have you seen where Baudette, MN is? I don't think there's anyplace but alone!

Still, it sounds fun and very relaxing. In the realm of scifi conventions, such an even would be called a "relaxi-con".

W

[couplewanting50]

Originally Posted by oncewere

Please take good notes. I'm sure everyone will be interested in what happens.

Although I laughed when I read this, I have to agree.

[junkyard38]

Hello once again. When everything has settled down and the cabinet shop is cleaned, and the furniture is back where it belongs quite a task. I will write a little of went on during the three day party. Believe me the feed back Katie and I get back, is as follows"When is the next one".
Our New Years Party everyone gets a treat, for we furnish a PRIME RIB DINNER COMPLETE no cost to anyone. Our pat statement when asked no one goes away without a full tummy, and a smile on there face. Until our next posting around September 4th enjoy yourself, and watch for the New Posting The 3day party in Baudette.
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[junkyard38]

In looking over the posters location, Zoe&Wash, Couple Wanting 50 there are folks coming from Mason City and Davenport, also from the Twin Cities. This party will start on Thursday evening this year, Ooooooooooooooooooh my god what fun in the hot tub there will be.
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[Thrax]

Two summers ago I was invited to a two-day (Friday afternoon to Sunday afternoon) camping/house party and it was one of the most enjoyable lifestyle events I've attended. I've been to several house parties, and this event was basically the same thing, only it was on a slightly larger scale. It was very well-planned and run.

The invitation was sent out to members -- couples and singles -- of a now-defunct Yahoo group. (Don't get me started on Yahoo and what they've done to the adult sites...) The party was held in a rural area of Ohio (the swing-state -- politically and sexually, I guess), and the hosts had several acres of property available for camping and other activities.

The hosts provided some basic grilling items (brats, burgers, and franks). Attendees were asked to bring food and drink to share with others, so there was a buttload of food and drink (and Jello-shots). No one went hungry or thirsty.

About 18 couples attended the weekend. I was the only single, but even though I had never played with any participants prior to this party, I knew more than half the couples socially from other parties and meet-and-greets. I felt comfortable with this group from the start.

The host couple sent their kids several counties away for a long weekend with a set of grandparents. The host couple offered the guest room to a couple that they are close to. Everyone else brought tents, campers or RVs for lodging, and one couple visited during the day and went home in the late evening. Everyone was welcome to use the two full bathrooms in the house for the obvious and for showers and such. There was a deck in the back of the house, an above-ground pool, a trampoline, and space in a small meadow for a bonfire. "No" meant "no."

Most attendees stayed the weekend. I was there from Friday afternoon until late Saturday afternoon. Some couples just stopped in for a few hours, and some just stayed overnight Friday night or just overnight Saturday night, but most stayed from Friday until Sunday.

I arrived Friday mid-afternoon and helped with some of the set-up. As others showed up we set up the grills, the pool was cleaned, firewood was stocked, and tents were erected. Everybody just talked and ate and drank.

Although LOTS of heavy flirting was going on that afternoon, and a few people got nekkid to get into the pool, nothing overtly sexual really happened until nightfall. When the sun went down though, the hormones stared raging...

One couple brought a Sybian which was placed on the deck for the enjoyment of anyone who wanted to try it. (For those of you who think sharing a Sybian is icky, these folks went into hyperdrive when a new rider approached. The attachments were cleaned after every use and had condoms on them for the next riders...) So there were several hours of voyeuristic entertainment in the late evening.

Water-volleyball and other pool games became very crowded and frenzied as the night wore on although the trampoline wasn't used to any great affect...at least while I was there. A lot of folks spent a lot of time around the bonfire.

Some folks retreated to the hosts' bedroom, some got it on in the LR, and a lot of people followed the Sybian action on the deck. One foursome went to an RV. Some people went to tents for some semi-privacy. A 3-some got going near the bonfire. But most of the sexual activities took place from about 9pm until 2am.

That was on Friday night. On Saturday morning everyone woke and there were no major problems except for those folks nursing hangovers. Although I left on Saturday afternoon, I was informed that most of the Saturday daylight was devoted to eating, drinking, swimming, sunning, and discussing the previous night's activities. There was some sexual activity during Saturday, but most participants were getting their batteries recharged for the Saturday night/Sunday morning activities.

There was no anarchy. There were no fights or arguments that I know of. Everyone there followed the usual lifestyle rules and really just acted as civilized people.

So, if you are invited to a long house-party weekend? Seriously consider it!

Thrax

[junkyard38]

Hello and still smiling. Like I wrote last week on this subject, here is a recap of how this party evolved and the finalization.

Thursday the 30th, guest from Iowa made the trek to our paradise on the river, enjoyed the friendship and getting brought up to date on there lives and ours. Long distant associations need a lot of bringing up to date of family, children whom we have become acquainted with. No sex this night but friendship.

Fri. the 31st, friends from Winnipeg arrived, as well some of our local guests. Great interaction and there was some interaction of friends. We all chipped in and prepared some of the meals for Saturday and Sunday. Cannot let just one person in the kitchen alone. The beds got a fair amount of action, Bi, 3 somes,and just couples. Everyone retired around 0200 hrs. Great memories and exhaustion.

Saturday the 1st. Just a fine association of everyone, and waiting for those who had to work until late Friday. They arrived in the fore noon ,and again everyone took there time with sex, great enjoyment was hard by all. We had now a total of 22 people as our guests. In the evening played some adult games, then things really heated up, the hot tub in constant action as well the beds, which had to be stripped before retiring again around 0300 hrs.

Sunday the 2nd, breakfast in the cabinet shop which took 2+ hours, a lot of interaction, everyone was dressed in the fine lingerie and robes. Went on the river for several hours, enjoying friendship and the beauty surrounding the house. Balance of the day personal interaction, and a few had to leave for there babysitters needed to move on. We all retired now becoming a tad exhausted, but still wanting more personal interaction. By this time everyone had a big smile, full tummy's. Very little drinking went on but plenty of fun with the hot tub and showers.

Monday 2nd, pretty well a day for everyone needing to pack up and head for home. In attendance Monday evening the locals and a coupe from out of town, we still had more interaction.

Tuesday 0400 hrs the balance left for Iowa, and now we have the task of getting the house back in order and I need a good nights sleep, but the smile has not begun to fade.

Well that is how are three day parties are conducted, everyone made re acquaintances, new friends, no drama and plenty of sexual interaction. Well that is a pretty accurate run down of Don's and Katies three day parties.

Happy swinging but one does not have to live in bed, nor notch the bed posts to have a pleasant time.
Don

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[socolais]

Sounds like it was a GREAT party!!!

[des1re06]

All I can say is WOW! We had a great weekend. It was one we will never forget. A fun time was had by all!

We're writing a story and will post once we finish editing.

Mrs. D