Club Question, just not sure

[mikeandkim]

My wife and I are really just beginning to learn about the lifestyle and have so many questions. One is simply, we are interested in going to a club, having sex in front of other people and enjoy them watching, but do not want to touch or participate with anyone else.

Is this ok to go to a swingers club to do this?

Thanks.

[good times]

Since I have never heard of an exhibitionists club, I would think that a swingers club would probably be about the only place you could do this. From there it just depends on the club, you need to find an on-premise club (off premise clubs don't allow sex at the club), then you need to find one that has public play areas, not all on-premise clubs do. At those clubs that it is possible, what you want to do happens all the time. So, generally, yes it is ok.

[Swingercast]

I agree with GoodTimes.

Once you find an on-premise club, the answer is YES.

Have fun,

John

[jandg]

Greeting from Las Vegas. The club we go to, the Vegas Red Rooster, not only allows exhibitionism, they encourage it. The have an "Orgy Room" that is a series of multi-level beds, with a viewing area. If you tell one of the volunteer staff that you want a "look but don't touch" policy, they'll be happy to keep the viewers at a distance.

[badangelcpl]

Come for a visit to California...they also have an on-site club here too. The Power Exchange can be fun if it is one of the busy days. Me and hubby have gotten "down and dirty" and it is a good way to start.

B is for "bad"

[mikeandkim]

Thanks to all who responded. So many questions, so little time. We appreciate your insight. ANything in Pennsylvania, please let us know.

[Chicup]

Pretty much any on-premises club will have this, even if its not specifically catered to.

There are almost always 'private' and 'public' room for sex. Avoid the 'orgy' type rooms as I think you may find more unwanted touching to say no to in those situations, but often there will be a small bed in public view where you can do your thing without being molested.

[curiousswingers]

Go to the club listings at the top of this site and just find an on premise club in PA. The Pittsburgh area has quite a few , DJs, Mountain Retreat, and The Palace Good Luck and let us know how it went.

[mikeandkim]

Everyone is so willing to help, greatly appreciated. We are just trying to find somewhere where we won't be pressured into playing with others, yet others will be able to watch us play. Thanks again for the suggestions and comments.

This may be an anniversary present in a month, our first experience.

Will let you know!

[WonderWhat]

I'd bet that the best, no-pressure, most fun way of trying out the lifestyle is going to Desire at Cancún. Sure, it's more expensive than going to a club for one night, but you're guaranteed to have a good time, whatever your level of "swingerness", from voyeur and exhibitionist to squirming-in-the-hot-tub-with-everybody.

WW

[airbrushman]

mikeandkim yall sound kinda like us we like the exhibition and voyer part, and maybe a little touching but not much else. we have never been to a club, but we went to hedo 3 a few years ago and had a blast.

airbrushman