House Parties & Playing in the kids room

[Fabiana-Bi-FL]

Hi i don't know if anyone has ever posted a thread with this question but have u ever host or attended a swingers party where because the place was too crowded and there weren't enough rooms for everyone to play they or you had to use the kids rooms so everyone could play or have used their room for any other reason ???

[sbjr3]

Originally Posted by Fabiana-Bi-FL

Hi i don't know if anyone has ever posted a thread with this question but have u ever host or attended a swingers party where because the place was too crowded and there weren't enough rooms for everyone to play they or you had to use the kids rooms so everyone could play or have used their room for any other reason ???

Hi, we have not hosted, nor attended a party, as we have not had our first experience yet, but this is not something we would do. My children’s rooms are their private spaces and too utilize them for a sex act of any kind is immoral in my opinion. Think about it, how would you feel if you found out your child had sex in your room?

sb

[ShellyM]

We have been invited to 2 house parties, and schedules prohibited us from attending either. However, I would not even THINK about having sex in a child's room. To me that would be absolutely abhorrent, and there is not enough gin in the world to make me think otherwise. That is not even an option. I would leave if that was my only option.

[tracy1878]

the only house parties we have been to are at an older couples home, their children have grown up and moved away. I wouldn't even consider letting someone play in my childs room, or playing in another childs room.

[Thrax]

I've been to several house parties and 3/4 of the time the hosts were parents. The kids' rooms have ALWAYS been off-limits for play, although a couple of the hosts did use the rooms for storage of luggage and other bags.

I'd probably leave a party if I knew play was possible in kids' rooms. That's just...ewwwww.

Thrax

[ShellyM]

Yes, I agree with Thrax on that. Using it for the coats and purses is one thing. BUT not anything else.

[Menage_a_Trois]

We have been to several house parties as well as hosted house parties. We have seen where some have used one of the kid’s rooms for a play room; however, they did extensive work to clear the room out........so all that was left was the two twin beds and a dresser.

For us we don't have children at home so that really isn't an issue. We have a three bedroom home, the master, the second bedroom (my room) and a home office. For us what we usually do, is to anything up and away that we are concerned with from a safety/theft standpoint. The master and my bedroom are used as playrooms as well as we have inflatable air mattresses that we set up in the office, family room and living room area. Hope that helps.

The Other Mrs. Ménage

[JustAskJulie]

The only situation I can recall that would have been along that lines was a couple that hosted regular parties at what was really their summer home. They had converted it to a party house to a large extent. Obviously there were times they were there with their kids and the kids did stay in the same rooms we played in. The only you'd really know it was a kids room, tho, was that the beds were bunkbeds.

[WesternSwing]

We have been to many house parties and kids rooms have always been off-limits. They usually have a spare room as well as the master bedroom and a public play area set-up.

We were at a party recently where only public play was an option. We started to play with another couple, but never got past making out. Not that public play is a turn-off for us, but it is when everyone is just standing around the kitchen eating snacks and drinking while 10 feet away you are trying to get it on. It just feels weird. We were the only four people at the party who even attempted anything, and you can see why. The party was good, just not sex-friendly.

Mr. WS

[JakenReenie]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

The only situation I can recall that would have been along that lines was a couple that hosted regular parties at what was really their summer home. They had converted it to a party house to a large extent. Obviously there were times they were there with their kids and the kids did stay in the same rooms we played in. The only you'd really know it was a kids room, tho, was that the beds were bunkbeds.

I remember going to a party at somebody's ski lodge in Vermont where we ended up in a room with bunkbeds with two other couples. With a little creativity and some contortions, it was some of the wildest sex we've ever had.

[clecouple]

My wife wasn't too kean on "playing" in the children's rooms of the house party we attended back in January '06. The couple that invited us was very good-looking and friendly to us and we were very interested in playing with them. Well, the other couples that were coming in were either larger than us or older. There was one single guy they had met at a club and he was all over the wife of the house party. All this was just while we were watching TV and talking (no playing). There was one other skinny good-looking couple but we couldn't get to talking to them because another larger girl was always butting in and trying to make deals with us like, "if you do this shot with me, I will deep-throat you", or "your wife's ass looks good in those tight pants, can I peel them off of her?!".

So, with a house party I can say there is not a lot of control in what people are there and we wound up leaving and not playing at all because we couldn't make contact with the people we wanted to play with. And the people that we weren't interested in were all over us and trying to get us drunk. We want to be attracted to some other couple and want to remember it. It seemed like a lot of these couples were into drinking a lot. And, oh by the way, the girl who wanted to deep-throat me actually passed out and layed on an upstairs bed for a couple of hours. What a deal!