Contest for women at a club

couplewanting50 · 09-25-2006, 06:36 PM

We read about a club in another state that had a contest for the women where they were blindfolded and had to try to identify their man by his cock..... touching, sucking, exploring. The women apparently sat in chairs and the men moved periodically, all at once, each to the next woman.

She thinks this is a really erotic idea and would like to try that. I have to admit it sounds pretty hot, too.

Has anyone here been somewhere that this occurred? If there should be guidelines or rules, any recommendations as to what they might be? We would like to suggest it to a local club.

Spoomonkey · 09-25-2006, 06:43 PM

We had this happen - sort of. The women identified the men by reaching through a sheet and feeling.

My only suggestion is make sure everyone knows what is going to happen when you try to get them behind the sheet. Not everyone wants to be groped by just anyone.

I was fortunate in that once I was back there a cute girl I had been flirting with all night monopolized me by looking through the hole, finding me and pretty much giving me a hand job for the entire time.

Spoomonkey

**Pepper & Drew** · 09-25-2006, 07:06 PM

A variation of that is a game at Hedo. One person is blindfolded, 6 or 7 men are lined up, and she has to find her mate by feel. Just a little feel. I would not be comfortable in that game if there was anything other than touching going on, because to me a blow job is very intimate.

I'm sure you could find clubs that use it as an icebreaker. Or you could conduct your own game.

Pepper

prettylady · 09-25-2006, 09:50 PM

Ya I'm not sure I would want to have a blind fold on and have some guy sick his dick in my mouth.
How clean is he? Is he D free?
To many icky questions that need to be addressed.
Now stickly speaking as a fantasy, ya thats hot.
Your friend,
Prettylady

2forfunplay · 09-26-2006, 12:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by prettylady

Ya I'm not sure I would want to have a blind fold on and have some guy sick his dick in my mouth.
How clean is he? Is he D free?
Prettylady

i agree, i dont want my wife to blow just anyone and catch something. just my $.02

couplewanting50 · 09-26-2006, 12:26 AM

I guess in a fantasy there are no diseases....

WesternSwing · 09-26-2006, 12:48 AM

We played the "feel all the opposite sex at the party and guess who they are" game at a house party recently. Women got to do the men and the men got to do the women. I was happy I got them all right (well except for one woman, I knew who she was but I couldn't remember her name

). It was amazing, but EVERYBODY got their spouse right.

This worked okay though because almost everybody knew each other and people could opt-out if they wanted, and there was no bj's or sex in the contest. Well, okay, a couple women "fluffed" their hubby for a better, umm... showing.

Mr. WS

oncewere · 09-26-2006, 09:38 AM

We used a lot of games of different kinds as mixers at our parties. Here are a couple: A mixer, Progressive dance: <http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/article.php?a=423> and More mixers: <http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/article.php?a=433>. We often played "find your SO" by hand and mouth, often in the dark. Funny how it often took a lot of touching with a lot of people before we admitted finding our spouse or date. Nude twister can get a party started too.

We had a group going for quite a while where we did a circle to say good night at the end of parties. Everyone got to sample everyone of the opposite sex for a short while to say good night.

Games can be a lot of fun when you are comfortable with the others.

Our club was a little differentfrom those nowadays. We were a tight knit bunch who swung exclusively within the club and were tested for VD on a regular basis. Even though ages ranged from early 20s to late 60s, most everyone was mutually compatible. You can see what I mean in my other stories on this board's swinger stories pages.

Oncewere

Amanda69 · 09-26-2006, 11:49 AM

I agree with the others, you have no idea where those things have been. But seriously I prefer to know who is sticking what in where before it happens. With my luck I would end up with Ron Jeremy in the line up, I would be spitting out hairs for days after that experience

(sorry couldn't resist)

ShellyM · 09-26-2006, 05:25 PM

Ive never participated in this, but I read a book about swingers where they did this. Sounds like fun though...hmmmmmmm

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09-25-2006, 06:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
couplewanting50 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 233 Location: Iowa Status: couple	Contest for women at a club We read about a club in another state that had a contest for the women where they were blindfolded and had to try to identify their man by his cock..... touching, sucking, exploring. The women apparently sat in chairs and the men moved periodically, all at once, each to the next woman. She thinks this is a really erotic idea and would like to try that. I have to admit it sounds pretty hot, too. Has anyone here been somewhere that this occurred? If there should be guidelines or rules, any recommendations as to what they might be? We would like to suggest it to a local club.

09-25-2006, 06:43 PM	#2 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Contest for women at a club We had this happen - sort of. The women identified the men by reaching through a sheet and feeling. My only suggestion is make sure everyone knows what is going to happen when you try to get them behind the sheet. Not everyone wants to be groped by just anyone. I was fortunate in that once I was back there a cute girl I had been flirting with all night monopolized me by looking through the hole, finding me and pretty much giving me a hand job for the entire time. Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

09-25-2006, 07:06 PM	#3 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,024 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple SLS Name:alhedonists	Re: Contest for women at a club A variation of that is a game at Hedo. One person is blindfolded, 6 or 7 men are lined up, and she has to find her mate by feel. Just a little feel. I would not be comfortable in that game if there was anything other than touching going on, because to me a blow job is very intimate. I'm sure you could find clubs that use it as an icebreaker. Or you could conduct your own game. Pepper __________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

09-25-2006, 09:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
prettylady anything boys can do.... Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,751 Location: Utopia Status: Trouble maker SLS Name:playtoys69 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Contest for women at a club Ya I'm not sure I would want to have a blind fold on and have some guy sick his dick in my mouth. How clean is he? Is he D free? To many icky questions that need to be addressed. Now stickly speaking as a fantasy, ya thats hot. Your friend, Prettylady __________________ To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

09-26-2006, 12:26 AM	#6 (permalink)
couplewanting50 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 233 Location: Iowa Status: couple	Re: Contest for women at a club I guess in a fantasy there are no diseases....

09-26-2006, 12:48 AM	#7 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,824 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Contest for women at a club We played the "feel all the opposite sex at the party and guess who they are" game at a house party recently. Women got to do the men and the men got to do the women. I was happy I got them all right (well except for one woman, I knew who she was but I couldn't remember her name ). It was amazing, but EVERYBODY got their spouse right. This worked okay though because almost everybody knew each other and people could opt-out if they wanted, and there was no bj's or sex in the contest. Well, okay, a couple women "fluffed" their hubby for a better, umm... showing. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

09-26-2006, 09:38 AM	#8 (permalink)
oncewere Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 118 Location: Eastern Washington Status: couple	Re: Contest for women at a club We used a lot of games of different kinds as mixers at our parties. Here are a couple: A mixer, Progressive dance: <http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/article.php?a=423> and More mixers: <http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/article.php?a=433>. We often played "find your SO" by hand and mouth, often in the dark. Funny how it often took a lot of touching with a lot of people before we admitted finding our spouse or date. Nude twister can get a party started too. We had a group going for quite a while where we did a circle to say good night at the end of parties. Everyone got to sample everyone of the opposite sex for a short while to say good night. Games can be a lot of fun when you are comfortable with the others. Our club was a little differentfrom those nowadays. We were a tight knit bunch who swung exclusively within the club and were tested for VD on a regular basis. Even though ages ranged from early 20s to late 60s, most everyone was mutually compatible. You can see what I mean in my other stories on this board's swinger stories pages. Oncewere __________________ once were nostalgic for the good old days E Wash

09-26-2006, 11:49 AM	#9 (permalink)
Amanda69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 907 Location: Mississauga, ON Canada Status: couple	Re: Contest for women at a club I agree with the others, you have no idea where those things have been. But seriously I prefer to know who is sticking what in where before it happens. With my luck I would end up with Ron Jeremy in the line up, I would be spitting out hairs for days after that experience (sorry couldn't resist) __________________ Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. "Harvey Fierstein"

09-26-2006, 05:25 PM	#10 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: Contest for women at a club Ive never participated in this, but I read a book about swingers where they did this. Sounds like fun though...hmmmmmmm __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

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