Vibrators on premise?

SussexCouple · 01-28-2005, 07:27 AM

Hi All,

Our first new thread so please... be gentle.

MsSC doesn't cum from penetration alone (yet - but we are workin on it). Small handy vibrators (the 2-3" ones) have become a staple part of our sex life - whether I use them on her while penetrating her or she does, it always helps.

We visit an on-premise club and enjoy the same room / dark room experience but so far haven't seen much in the way of toys there (or heard any buzzing) is this something you would say is usual?

Is it bad form? Are we being too sensitive at just breaking the little chap out and getting on with it? I thought that vibrators were firmly installed in every household in the UK how come they don't come out to play?

northindycpl · 01-28-2005, 07:54 AM

I voted yes, and all the time. We always take them to the club. If we play at the club, it is always in the group room and no one has seemed to mind their sound or given me dirty looks. In Fact, I think most expect it and like to watch because it is different.

I have to have clitoral stimulation too in order to reach orgasm and so to me, it just seems natural to have them there, and I wouldn't have as much fun without them!

Spoomonkey · 01-28-2005, 08:21 AM

I voted that we don't really like them. We have a couple of little vibrators, but they get very little use. Mrs Spoomonkey just doesn't seem to like them very much - that or I keep her mind off of them...

Seriously, she is able to orgasm a number of ways, so a vibrator isn't an "aid" for us.

We've never taken one to the club or seen one at the club - but it wouldn't bother us if someone decided to add it to the play (as long as they kept it to themselves, for STD reasons). We're all there to have a good time - and if that helps a playmate have more fun, then good for them!

Spoomonkey

northindycpl · 01-28-2005, 08:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

We've never taken one to the club or seen one at the club - but it wouldn't bother us if someone decided to add it to the play (as long as they kept it to themselves, for STD reasons). Spoomonkey

Good Point... we never share our toys! And we don't want anyone sharing theirs with us!!!

Spoomonkey · 01-28-2005, 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by northindycpl

Good Point... we never share our toys! And we don't want anyone sharing theirs with us!!!

Unless - I would assume - it's a little monkey-like boy toy

Spoomonkey (voted "Best Toy"; 2002)

freakykitten · 01-28-2005, 08:48 PM

I voted yes, because i need my golden nugget, its an addiction. Nothing like getting it from behind and using that on my clit! hehehehe

I usually ask the guy if its ok to have something vibrating down near his balls, and i have never had a complaint LOL
If others in the room dont like my little buzzing noise well then they can just kiss my........umm well you get the picture LMFAO

SussexCouple · 01-29-2005, 09:15 AM

In that case I guess it's just us not being confident enough yet to just crack on with what we like. We're out to play next weekend so will let you know how it went.

northindycpl · 01-29-2005, 10:03 PM

Toys are so small now, I think you may be able to find a discreet one. We have one that looks like a cock ring but it has a bullet in it too. it is really great! No one has ever noticed I doubt.

Purple · 01-30-2005, 12:50 AM

It is NOT bad form to "share" your toys...
it IS bad form to not use condoms on your toys when you DO share them....

This way we all get to try new things, and still be safe.

It seems odd to me, that we will share our unreplaceable spouses, but not share our replaceable toys.

Just my 2 cents.

twoplayful2 · 01-30-2005, 02:50 AM

We don't actually use em "all the time", but we do always bring and sometimes use. I think it's always been my wife using her own on herself or having it used on her so havent had the condom issue come up yet, but it is a pretty interesting and good idea!

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01-28-2005, 07:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
SussexCouple Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 30 Location: Eastbourne Status: Couple	Vibrators on premise? Hi All, Our first new thread so please... be gentle. MsSC doesn't cum from penetration alone (yet - but we are workin on it). Small handy vibrators (the 2-3" ones) have become a staple part of our sex life - whether I use them on her while penetrating her or she does, it always helps. We visit an on-premise club and enjoy the same room / dark room experience but so far haven't seen much in the way of toys there (or heard any buzzing) is this something you would say is usual? Is it bad form? Are we being too sensitive at just breaking the little chap out and getting on with it? I thought that vibrators were firmly installed in every household in the UK how come they don't come out to play?

01-28-2005, 07:54 AM	#2 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,424 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM SLS Name:northindycpl	Re: Vibrators on premise? I voted yes, and all the time. We always take them to the club. If we play at the club, it is always in the group room and no one has seemed to mind their sound or given me dirty looks. In Fact, I think most expect it and like to watch because it is different. I have to have clitoral stimulation too in order to reach orgasm and so to me, it just seems natural to have them there, and I wouldn't have as much fun without them! __________________ Mrs. Indy

01-28-2005, 08:21 AM	#3 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Vibrators on premise? I voted that we don't really like them. We have a couple of little vibrators, but they get very little use. Mrs Spoomonkey just doesn't seem to like them very much - that or I keep her mind off of them... Seriously, she is able to orgasm a number of ways, so a vibrator isn't an "aid" for us. We've never taken one to the club or seen one at the club - but it wouldn't bother us if someone decided to add it to the play (as long as they kept it to themselves, for STD reasons). We're all there to have a good time - and if that helps a playmate have more fun, then good for them! Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

01-28-2005, 08:48 PM	#6 (permalink)
freakykitten Active Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 47 Location: Central Ohio Status: couple SLS Name:couple69er3	Re: Vibrators on premise? I voted yes, because i need my golden nugget, its an addiction. Nothing like getting it from behind and using that on my clit! hehehehe I usually ask the guy if its ok to have something vibrating down near his balls, and i have never had a complaint LOL If others in the room dont like my little buzzing noise well then they can just kiss my........umm well you get the picture LMFAO __________________ A woman's favorite position is CEO. :rofl:

01-29-2005, 09:15 AM	#7 (permalink)
SussexCouple Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 30 Location: Eastbourne Status: Couple	Re: Vibrators on premise? In that case I guess it's just us not being confident enough yet to just crack on with what we like. We're out to play next weekend so will let you know how it went.

01-29-2005, 10:03 PM	#8 (permalink)
northindycpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,424 Location: Indiana Status: Blissfull SITCOM SLS Name:northindycpl	Re: Vibrators on premise? Toys are so small now, I think you may be able to find a discreet one. We have one that looks like a cock ring but it has a bullet in it too. it is really great! No one has ever noticed I doubt. __________________ Mrs. Indy

01-30-2005, 12:50 AM	#9 (permalink)
Purple Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 34 Location: DFW Status: BiFem SLS Name:PurpleBiF	Re: Vibrators on premise? It is NOT bad form to "share" your toys... it IS bad form to not use condoms on your toys when you DO share them.... This way we all get to try new things, and still be safe. It seems odd to me, that we will share our unreplaceable spouses, but not share our replaceable toys. Just my 2 cents. __________________ Live in DFW Metroplex - Hubby out of country (can not entertain, roommate) Her: Bi 27 5'7" (DD) 200lb -- Him: Het 25 6'6" 225lb

01-30-2005, 02:50 AM	#10 (permalink)
twoplayful2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 218 Location: Riverside, CA Status: couple SLS Name:twoplayful2	Re: Vibrators on premise? We don't actually use em "all the time", but we do always bring and sometimes use. I think it's always been my wife using her own on herself or having it used on her so havent had the condom issue come up yet, but it is a pretty interesting and good idea!

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