Club Experiences

[Couple Nxt Door]

I would love to know some of the experiences some of you have had after you went to your first off premise club. My wife and I are planning to go and am interested in any pitfalls or things to look for when going to a club for the first time.

What makes a successful first visit. We do not plan to find anyone to play with for a while, but would like to mix with people.

[good times]

We have only been to on premise clubs but I would imagine it is pretty much the same. The most common mistake I see people make is they go and sit off by themselves and don't interact with others. These seem to me to be the same people that later say they went to the club and everyone was cliqueish and unfriendly. So go, introduce yourself around and have a good time.

Here is the post from our first off premise event back in March:

Originally Posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty

One word: AWESOME!!

We got to Dallas at about 3:30 but the club didnt open till 8. So we killed some time.

There was a shuttle that ran from the motel to the club which ran on the 1/2 hour every 1/2 hour. We headed down stairs at about 5 till 8 and decided to wait outdide since we felt awkward standing the lobby. We were outside for about a minute or two and a car pulled up in front and asked us if we were going to the club. We said yes and they said "Get in". It turns out that these people were the greeters for the club that evening and were running late. They werent even staying at that motel but just happened to pull in looking for an ATM.
We were lucky we met this couple because they knew everyone and we knew no one. Once we got there they invited us to sit with them if we wanted so we did.

It was a Mardi gras event so many beads were being passed.

Mrs naughty had to loosen up a bit but once she did LOOK OUT!!!

Once she relaxed enough to let her tits out it only got better from there!!
She was loving the attention and I was loving watching her get it!

She had men & women from all over the club coming over to suck on her titties and for a while there she always had someone on each tit!
She had a lot of buttery nipple shots done of her tits and I tried a couple off of someone elses tits. They are pretty good!!

This went on for several hours than a couple said they really wanted to make Mrs naughty cum so we went upstairs.There was a couple and another woman who went upstairs with us. The couple took turns going down on Mrs naughty and I watched while I was getting a blow job. I had two woman taking turns on me while mrs naughty had two sharing her. And boy they definately made her cum!!

After the club closed we went back to the motel with a couple and swung until the wee hours of the morning. Mrs naughty syas she cant remember how many orgasims she had but I am willing to bet it was at least 10!

The best part of it for me was watching mrs naughty cum. There was just something about that, that got me harder than Ive ever been. In fact everytime I came was when she was cumming next to me.



When we got up in the morning we met the couple from the night before and did breakfast together then we parted ways. We had a 2 1/2 hour drive home.

Mrs naughty called from work this morning and said everyone was asking her what she was so happy about because she was walking around all morning with a big smile on her face.
She said she didnt even realize she was smiling.

It was definately a great time and we will be doing it again.

[JustAskJulie]

Be pro-active. The worst thing you can do at an off-premise club is sit in the corner and wait for people to approach you.

Get there early and sit front and center at an empty table. People will eventually start to sit down around you and that will give you an early chance to get to know people as well as give you the ability to check people out as they arrive. If the club has any ice-breaking games participate in them and get up out of your seats to do so.

Don't be afraid to get up and move around, or to ask someone who looks interesting to dance to with you.

[TNT]

If the club has a new members orientation, definitely try and make that. More than likely there will be other new people there as well, which will give you someone to talk to right off the bat. If they don't, everyone has given you great advice.

The hardest thing for any new person at a club to do is get up and introduce themselves to others. The one question I get asked time and time again when I introduce myself to new people I see at the socials that we attend is...How do we meet people?

My answer is always...Just like I did...walk up to someone, stick your hand out and say "Hi, my name is (insert name), how are you tonight?"

Like Julie said...be pro-active. Don't sit in a corner and wait for people to come to you...you go to them. You will always get out of a club experience what you are willing to put into it.

Good luck and let us all know how it goes. Remember to relax and have fun.

Teresa

[sensuality]

Welllllll,I have to add my 2 cents here.We just went to an off-premise club and we had a terrific time. We ended up at the bar, and since it was our first time, we chose to hang out together and see what the evening would bring...if you read my post"you learn something new everyday"...the evening brought a few surprises. We weren't totally pro-active...we did let people come to us,which...quite a few did. We mingled a bit, and danced our asses off.We would give each other time, like going to the bathroom separately...we never went together...on purpose.We found even that time was well spent, I made friends in the bathroom...sort of a ladies bonding thing. He would flirt while I was away...and vice-versa.We also flirted together with people coming up to the bar and they would flirt with us as well.For us, being at the bar was the best move we made, because everyone wants a drink eventually and we got to see everything! We were flirting with each other,kissing and etc. and people would walk by us and watch, or I'd dance in my seat with him...people really enjoyed watching us.The main thing at any club? Be friendly and outgoing...make eye contact with people and be happy!! People are attracted to positive energy and they will tend to steer clear of negative vibes...So,whether you are out there going from table to table conversating or having a drink at the bar...be friendly, talk to everybody, even if you're not sexually attracted to them, they might make for stimulating conversation and you've just made a friend! Who doesn't need friends?Don't be shy or intimidated, either...that's very important.Because we did notice some women and even men at times,I'm sure,sometimes felt the need to compete with eachother.So, they'll say things to bug you, but let it roll off your shoulders and out the door! Ignore rudeness and find other company if that happens.Also, remember, no means no and you aren't obligated to do anything.As we've learned, if you are made to feel uncomfortable, and a couple is a little too touchy-feely and won't listen, report them to the host.Now, go and enjoy yourself and above all...HAVE FUN!!!

[sensuality]

Also, find out what the club's policy is in regards to nudity...my hunny kept lifting my skirt up on the dance floor and we got away with that...but when another girl and myself were going to flash the bartender, one of the bouncers came and reminded us that there couldn't be any nudity in the club or we'd have to leave .So, that's something else to think about.
Mr&Mrs.Naughty sure had an awesome time at the club...it'd sounded too delicious!

[ALilOEverything]

Be yourself and don't be shy, get out there and introduce yourselves. I've found they want to find out who you are as much as you want to learn more about them. We had a great experience our first time and even played a little afterwards when we weren't planning on it.

[fla_funandfree]

I could not agree more, if you sit by yourself then you will not have fun.

Talking to people does not mean your are committed to have sex with them.

You will begin to find people that you are comfortable with then you can start meeting people that will lead to postive swinging experences.

[EUcpl]

First of all you should not be shy because all people want the same. You must be pro-active, flirting, eye contacts and dancing is the best. Body contacts at the bar are fine believe me.If you want to Know more click the English version of fun4two.nl

Have fun

Maggie