What do I bring and how do I carry it?

[njbm]

My husband and I will soon be visiting an on-premise club for the first time. The evening is tailored for first-timers and it includes an introductory seminar followed by music, dancing and other social activities.

What should we bring with us for the evening, and what type of bag should we use? I've read that people bring robes, towels, etc. Should we bring a duffel bag, a backpack, or something else? Also, where would we store it for the evening?

[Spoomonkey]

Hmmmm...

Hadn't thought of towels - but that is a good idea...

Our club recently installed a shower and I have been drying off with pillow cases... Lots and lots of pillow cases...

I don't think I'd want to walk around afterwards in a club. When I walk from the room across to the shower - I like to be bare-assed naked...

Spoomonkey

[ore_cpl4fun]

Many (but certainly not all) on premises clubs have lockers and if you bring your own lock you can keep your stuff secure. Others have cubbies (kinda like in grade school) in a common area where you can keep things centrally located, but less secure. Still others have nothing. We’d recommend calling ahead of time to see what the set up is at this particular place.

If you can’t find out ahead of time, we’d recommend going minimalist. Just bring as little as you need, and nothing that you’d lose too much sleep over if it went missing. Condoms, lube, a toy or two if that’s your thing (wife never travels w/out her Pocket Rocket, and Hubby never travels without condoms, lol), perhaps towels and a change of clothes? We tend to lock purses and wallets in our trunk before we go in, but that’s just us.

Then relax, take your time, and have fun! Don’t be afraid to say no if you are not interested in playing with someone, and at the same time don’t be afraid to approach someone that you are interested in. Many times the regulars won’t approach new folks out of respect and a concern that they may scare them away. So don’t think they are being stand-offish… they may be trying to ease you into the groove slowly, lol.

Have fun!

DnA

[ore_cpl4fun]

Sorry, we forgot about "how do I carry it?"

Depending on the venue, we either bring our stuff in a backpack, or a smaller (4x6x12) bag designed for camera equipment. In both cases they are small, portable, and have a shoulder strap for comfort.

Cheers!

DnA

[sensuality]

We just went through this same dilemma.I finally decided on having hubby hold my license,we left all our credit cards,ATM's,etc. at our hotel, locked away in out suitcase.All I took was an evening bag w/ condoms,lipstick, ky convenience packs...just in case and that was it. The club had lockers for us.And, next time??? We're taking towels, because even though there are towels provided, I just feel comfortable with our own!! Another thing I almost took was a robe, but maybe next time.Not a terry cloth robe,but more of a almost not there robe to walk around in...unless??? You'd be more comfortable going naked???Now, that is definitely a possibility

[DanBridget]

Not sure if this will help you.

The club we plan on attending sent us some stuff to bring. Something to change into is you want. From what they told us, wear something nice before, but change into soemthing sexy later in the night. Towels, becuase I know they have alocker room. Some of the members told us that we might think of a blanket, since the club owners preferr you not to drive if you had been drinking. And they have pletny of rooms and places to sleep for the night. We also wear told by one to (for the wife) more bring some extra unides incase she wants to feel fresh. I think that was discussed on here some time. Plus condoms , and other stuff to make you freshing up. Hope that helps.

[sensuality]

Very good advice, I forgot about mentioning new undies I took a couple of those w/me too. And, if there isn't a place to sleep at the club...take a little extra cash for a taxi in case you're both a little intoxicated!!

[inbeachcouple]

I recomend a stick. You carry it in one hand and beat people off of you with it. We're getting ready to go out to a club tonight, so I'm getting kinda fired up and in a joking mood. Don't mean to spoil the atmosphere. Surrender