Forum: Swingers Board Archives

This archive contains the best threads dealing with common swinging lifestyle questions and concerns from many years of great advice offered by the Swingers Board community.

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  1. What Is Swinging?

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    What is swinging, how and when did it start, what terms do swingers use, and how is the swinging lifestyle portrayed in the media and popular culture.

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    1. Evolution of Swinging

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      How and when did swinging start, and how has it evolved over time.

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    2. Swinging In the Media

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      How is the swinging lifestyle portrayed by the media and in popular culture.

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    3. What do certain terms and language mean to those in the swinging lifestyle.

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  2. What kind of people are swingers?

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    1. Not everyone is cut out to be a swinger, and that's ok. When the drawbacks outweigh the positives of swinging.

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    2. Why swinging and cheating are two totally different things - swingers treasure honestly, cheating thrives on dishonesty.

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  3. Should We Swing?

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    Is swinging right for us? What makes a good swinger?

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  4. Why do swingers want to have sex with other people? What does swinging do to a relationship?

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  5. How do you talk about swinging with your husband, wife, or partner.

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    1. How do I know if my wife, husband, or partner wants to try swinging?

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    2. What happens when one half of a couple is interested in swinging but the other is opposed?

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    3. How to break the ice and bring up the idea of swinging to your wife, husband, or partner.

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    4. Topics relating to how to overcome objections and concerns from your partner after you initiate the discussion of swinging

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    5. Don't swingers get jealous? How do they deal with jealousy when seeing their partner having sex with others.

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    6. How do swingers deal with the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and safe sex?

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    7. Is swinging immoral and swingers horrible sinners? For more on connecting the dots between religion and swinging, be sure to check out Libchrist.com

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    8. What kind of changes should we expect if we decide to try swinging?

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    9. Do swingers separate sex and love? How do they do that?

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  6. What positives do swingers get out of bringing others into their sexual relationships?

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    1. What does full swap mean to swingers and how does it work?

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    2. Gangbangs & Swinging

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      Do all swingers participate in gangbangs? What is a gangbang exactly and how do you set one up?

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    3. What is the difference in swinging same room or separate room? Which is better?

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    4. What is soft swap swinging? Is soft swap really swinging?

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    5. Topics relating to those couples who swing alone with permission, have a hall pass, or have agreed to have an open marriage.

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    6. How to have a MFM or FMF threesome. Are threesomes the best way to swing?

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    7. Is swinging the same as living an alternate lifestyle? Are all nudists, BDSM and kink community, and others living an alternative lifestyle always swingers?

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    8. Why are single females in swinging called "Unicorns"? Where do we find a single female to swing with us?

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  7. Are there rules in swinging, and what are they?

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    1. We want to swinging, what rules should we have to prevent disaster?

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      1. Kissing and Swingers

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    2. What happens when things get our control and a swinging boundary is broken?

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    3. How do swingers deal with pressure from their partner to go too far sexually to a place they aren't comfortable with?

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    4. Friendship & Swinging

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      Do swingers make good friends, or do they just want to have sex with you? What happens when sexual play develops into friendship?

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    5. Is there still room for personal preference in swinging?

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    6. What does taking one for the team mean to swingers? Does swinging always have to be equal?

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  8. The Risks of Swinging

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    Is swinging dangerous? What risks are there?

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    1. Drama and head games seem to be two of the biggest complaints swingers have about other swingers.

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    2. How does being a swinger effect your job and the workplace?

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    3. Pregnancy & Swinging

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      Do swingers worry about pregnancy? What happens if you get pregnant?

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  9. How do we start swinging? What should we learn and what is the first step?

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    1. Without strong communication, swinging can be a disaster. How to develop strong communication skills with your husband, wife, or partner.

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    2. Swinging can be stressful! How do we start to lose the anxiety and get comfortable enough to start having fun?

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    3. Do all swingers have a uniform sexuality, or do they cover all of the sexuality spectrum?

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    4. How do you approach other swingers you are interested in having sex with?

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    5. Swinging can evoke strong emotions, good and bad. What happens the morning after a night of sex with others?

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    6. Like everyone, swingers fear rejection. Rejection can be tough, but it can be dealt with.

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    7. The first swinging experience can be the hardest swinging experience. Tips for making it go more smoothly and worry free.

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    8. How do swingers initiate things if they are interested in sexual play with someone else or another couple?

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    9. Where do single males fit into the swinging scene? What things should single males know about swinging?

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  10. Etiquette is as important in swinging as it is in any other social interaction, and swinging has it's own set of accepted rules and norms.

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    1. Discretion is important to swingers. How to be in the swinging lifestyle and still maintain a level of discretion for yourself and others.

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    2. What role do drugs and alcohol use play in swinging?

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    3. Etiquette is a key factor in successful swinging. Determining the proper response to swinging situation.

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    4. Dealing with periods and the menstrual cycle in swinging.

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    5. Skillful swingers know how to say no with poise and grace with respect to everyone involved.

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  11. All things come to an end. Knowing when it is time to withdraw from the swinging lifestyle and leave it behind you.

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  12. Swinging encompasses many areas of life. Random and assorted swinger questions found here.

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