Are they team players? Or were they leading us on?

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by ShagUsThx

We really appreciate everyones input, and we were uneasy with the situation. I think it's just a case of different mind sets. We have committed to being swingers and I don't think they (she) are full steam ahead yet. So we decided that when we hang out with this couple the speed of play will be set by the slowest in the group and won't go any further. We like them a lot and if our play with them is limited to frolicking in the hot tub... groovy. They were our first couple and we were just damn ready to play. I don't think there is any thing wrong with having playmates with different levels of play... it's all good.

We have been making new friends and having a good time. Wow! I think we are making some progress in the lifestyle here!

Glad to hear you're seeing this in a more positive light. Mr. Sweet and I prefer full swap too, but have played with couples who weren't ready for that step just as often. Long as you're all having fun, it's all good.

=)

[prettylady]

Originally Posted by ShagUsThx

We really appreciate everyones input, and we were uneasy with the situation. I think it's just a case of different mind sets. We have committed to being swingers and I don't think they (she) are full steam ahead yet. So we decided that when we hang out with this couple the speed of play will be set by the slowest in the group and won't go any further. We like them a lot and if our play with them is limited to frolicking in the hot tub... groovy. They were our first couple and we were just damn ready to play. I don't think there is any thing wrong with having playmates with different levels of play... it's all good.

We have been making new friends and having a good time. Wow! I think we are making some progress in the lifestyle here!

Sometimes a good frolick is just the perfect set up for the spouses. Get all hot and heavy then go home and just go primal with each other. I like to "makeout" for awhile....its just kinda fun.

Congrates, buy the way in learning from your mistake insted of just giving up on the lifestyle assuming that it is all messed up way of living.
I have learnt alot in the lifestyle...that is to say, I have made PLENTY of mistakes, or as I like to put it "learning experinences"
Take care and keep havin' fun
Your friend,
Prettylady

[ShagUsThx]

Thanks ladies... It seems that swinging considerations are exponential to those that vanilla folks face. The transition, or really the transformation, into swinging has brought about many unexpected surprises for us. We have grown so much so fast and that just can't happen without a few bumps in the road. It seems every new experience has it's own little quirks and nuances, but we keep it grounded in the fact that our union is number one; and as my wife says the worst case scenario in any meeting.... we go home together!

Happiness to my peeps!