Read the book "Why women have sex?

Tanman aka Mike and Marie · 01-27-2010, 04:40 PM

Read the book "Why women have sex?

First of all I am not a book promoter but I was in the bookstore the other day and of course the title caught my eye. I picked it up, put it down...later at home I read some reviews and decided I have to buy this book.

I'm almost done and at this point I think its a "must read" for any man today, especially if you are in the "lifestyle" alone or with your wife.

What kind of woman pursues sex outside her marraige? answered in the book

Why men are "easy"...answered in the book

etc

The book is authored by two psychologists (a man and a woman) so there is no gender bias. Different races, religions, regions around the world are discussed.

Like I said a "must read"

After I finish I will probably read through it again

**fun4Ds** · 01-27-2010, 04:52 PM

Thank you !

Any good read a man can "get" is always and should be welcomed

May I ask if the two authors are Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss ? (easier to google)

socolais · 01-27-2010, 07:05 PM

I'll probably wait for the movie...

djjwp · 01-28-2010, 08:21 AM

Read preview on Google books

Tanman aka Mike and Marie · 02-08-2010, 06:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Thank you !

Any good read a man can "get" is always and should be welcomed

May I ask if the two authors are Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss ? (easier to google)

Yes, the two authors are Meston and Buss

Gordo · 02-11-2010, 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Thank you !

Any good read a man can "get" is always and should be welcomed

May I ask if the two authors are Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss ? (easier to google)

Ahem... the prospect of a book that a "man" could get overwhelmed me. Hopefully it's got big big print and pretty pictures. If not maybe my wife can explain it to me in little words.....

xxxboxy · 02-11-2010, 08:42 PM

Diagrams, the key is clear diagrams.

**SW_PA_Couple** · 02-13-2010, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by djjwp

Read preview on Google books

Now here is a new paradigm, to think that a woman would have sex with her husband for the reason "I wanted to punish him for cheating on me." The preview, of course, does not go far enough into the book to allow me to see an elaboration of this. Maybe I should get my hands on this book. It continues to remain a mystery with me why I am not able to get through to certain woman. I realize, of course, that this is not a self-help book. But it certainly would not hurt to know, would it?

~Michael

Tanman aka Mike and Marie · 02-14-2010, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Now here is a new paradigm, to think that a woman would have sex with her husband for the reason "I wanted to punish him for cheating on me." The preview, of course, does not go far enough into the book to allow me to see an elaboration of this. Maybe I should get my hands on this book. It continues to remain a mystery with me why I am not able to get through to certain woman. I realize, of course, that this is not a self-help book. But it certainly would not hurt to know, would it?

~Michael

Michael,

Pay no attention to the quick bit you have read (it sounds mis-quoted), the book is informative and eye-opening to say the least. I was talking with a co-worker of mine and she is taking a college human relations/human sexuality class and after some "careful" describing of the book (I didn't want to come off as the "creepy older guy co-worker) she got very interested and now she has the book as a reference for her class.

I can tell you this I look at and see so many things differently than I used to.

Mike

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01-27-2010, 04:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tanman aka Mike and Marie Looking for new friends Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 207 Location: Northern MI Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Mike_n_Marie	Read the book "Why women have sex? Read the book "Why women have sex? First of all I am not a book promoter but I was in the bookstore the other day and of course the title caught my eye. I picked it up, put it down...later at home I read some reviews and decided I have to buy this book. I'm almost done and at this point I think its a "must read" for any man today, especially if you are in the "lifestyle" alone or with your wife. What kind of woman pursues sex outside her marraige? answered in the book Why men are "easy"...answered in the book etc The book is authored by two psychologists (a man and a woman) so there is no gender bias. Different races, religions, regions around the world are discussed. Like I said a "must read" After I finish I will probably read through it again
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01-27-2010, 04:52 PM	#2 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,476 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Read the book "Why women have sex? Thank you ! Any good read a man can "get" is always and should be welcomed May I ask if the two authors are Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss ? (easier to google)
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socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,251 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Bruce_Melissa	Re: Read the book "Why women have sex? I'll probably wait for the movie...
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djjwp Suffering from Hedo2 DIF Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 386 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:djjwp	Re: Read the book "Why women have sex? Read preview on Google books
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