Swinging and Birth Control

Karen12345 · 05-07-2004, 04:12 AM

Hi,

on this forum i read a lot about birth control when swinging. I would like to know if you already used a method with a commonly high failure rate, when having sex during swinging. (this poll is not related to sex with your own wife or husband)

Or do you ALWAYS use rather safe methods like the pill, or a combined method like condom combined with withdrawal?

Karen

tazzie_n_truck · 05-07-2004, 10:14 AM

We always use condoms. There have been times when we have been with couples mainly Truck has had women who wanted to either suck him off, or have him cum on them, but still a condom was used.

Karen12345 · 05-07-2004, 10:27 AM

@ T & T

did you (sometimes) use ONLY condom for Birth Control, or was it in combination with the pill or another Birth Control method?

Karen

tazzie_n_truck · 05-07-2004, 10:49 AM

Depending on who we were with.

We used condoms for birth control, and depending on who we were with, sometimes the woman of the other couple might have been on the pill also.

bugaboos · 05-07-2004, 11:09 AM

I have an IUD, hubby has had a vascetomy and we use condoms.

Greg & Sheryl · 05-07-2004, 03:03 PM

Sheryl is on the pill, so birth control isn't a concern for us even when we don't use condoms.

05-07-2004, 03:08 PM

I am vas safe and Mrs naughty is on the patch.

KentuckianaCPL4 · 05-07-2004, 05:49 PM

Condoms are a must for us....Don't want to take chance either way. Rox is also on a Low dose hormone pill along with the patch....

Ken & Rox

Roxysbayou · 05-07-2004, 06:39 PM

Hubby has had a vasectomy but I still take the pill. We also use condoms sometimes. Never can be to safe.

lovers · 05-07-2004, 07:33 PM

The wife is on the pill, I however am shooting live rounds.

We use condoms mostly, but we swing with a couple of couples who are "fixed" so we go bareback. The wife will sometimes go bareback with a guy who is firing live rounds if she REALLY likes him and she is reasonably sure that he is clean.

Chris&Amelia · 05-11-2004, 08:32 AM

I'm fixed (via Vasectomy) and she's on The Pill. We also use condoms with everybody except two other couples, and we only go bareback with them because their hubbies are fixed as well and we know then pretty well.

Mcpl4fun · 05-19-2004, 02:49 PM

I am on the pill, and we Always us protection with any penetration. I know there are some who don't like using condoms, but every time you play with someone who don't use them is another chance you are taking at picking up something unwanted. Everyone says they are honest and don't have or havent ever had a VD, but you cant take everyones word for it.
We have never had any diseases and don't ever want any. We want to enjoy this lifestyle and be as healthy as possible. We always get tested every 5-6 months just to be on the safe side. I also puts your mind at ease!
You can never be too careful!

pairbond · 05-19-2004, 03:03 PM

Vasectomy for me, menopause for her. Birth control isn't the issue. STDs are the issue. So it's condoms until/unless we know a couple exceptionally well and they become "regulars."

paribond

ionsawmill · 07-11-2004, 12:14 PM

For health reasons (hypothyroidism), D.E. doesn't use any chemical birth control. We only use condoms and, because we still may have children, I'm intact.

Jenny&Thomas · 07-30-2004, 09:38 AM

Hi, with hubby we use condoms for birth control and sometimes we use the withdrawal method. With other couples we nearly always used condoms if he was not fixed; with the exeption of some rare occasions in which I really trusted my swinging partner to withdraw in time and went bareback.
Jenny

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View Poll Results: What methods of birth control do you use when you swing?
somtimes we only used Condoms	40	32.00%
somtimes we only used Withdrawal	15	12.00%
somtimes we only used Fertility Awareness (e.g. rhythm method)	13	10.40%
somtimes we only used Spermicides	1	0.80%
we ALWAYS used safer or combined methods	73	58.40%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 125. You may not vote on this poll

05-07-2004, 04:12 AM	#1 (permalink)
Karen12345 Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 19 Location: Germany Status: Couple	Swinging and Birth Control Hi, on this forum i read a lot about birth control when swinging. I would like to know if you already used a method with a commonly high failure rate, when having sex during swinging. (this poll is not related to sex with your own wife or husband) Or do you ALWAYS use rather safe methods like the pill, or a combined method like condom combined with withdrawal? Karen

05-07-2004, 10:14 AM	#2 (permalink)
tazzie_n_truck Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 212 Location: Sioux Falls, SD Status: Couple	We always use condoms. There have been times when we have been with couples mainly Truck has had women who wanted to either suck him off, or have him cum on them, but still a condom was used. __________________ T & T

05-07-2004, 10:27 AM	#3 (permalink)
Karen12345 Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 19 Location: Germany Status: Couple	Swinging and Birth Control @ T & T did you (sometimes) use ONLY condom for Birth Control, or was it in combination with the pill or another Birth Control method? Karen

05-07-2004, 10:49 AM	#4 (permalink)
tazzie_n_truck Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 212 Location: Sioux Falls, SD Status: Couple	Depending on who we were with. We used condoms for birth control, and depending on who we were with, sometimes the woman of the other couple might have been on the pill also. __________________ T & T

05-07-2004, 11:09 AM	#5 (permalink)
bugaboos Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 74 Location: CA Status: Married Female	I have an IUD, hubby has had a vascetomy and we use condoms.

05-07-2004, 03:03 PM	#6 (permalink)
Greg & Sheryl Blogging Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 722 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple	Sheryl is on the pill, so birth control isn't a concern for us even when we don't use condoms.

05-07-2004, 03:08 PM	#7 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mr here I am vas safe and Mrs naughty is on the patch.

05-07-2004, 05:49 PM	#8 (permalink)
KentuckianaCPL4 Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Southern Indiana Status: Couple SLS Name:KentuckianaCPL4CPL	Condoms are a must for us....Don't want to take chance either way. Rox is also on a Low dose hormone pill along with the patch.... Ken & Rox

05-07-2004, 06:39 PM	#9 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female SLS Name:likethat	Hubby has had a vasectomy but I still take the pill. We also use condoms sometimes. Never can be to safe.

05-07-2004, 07:33 PM	#10 (permalink)
lovers Delightfully Naughty Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 273 Location: Toronto, Canada Status: Couple SLS Name:Dalovers	The wife is on the pill, I however am shooting live rounds. We use condoms mostly, but we swing with a couple of couples who are "fixed" so we go bareback. The wife will sometimes go bareback with a guy who is firing live rounds if she REALLY likes him and she is reasonably sure that he is clean.

05-11-2004, 08:32 AM	#11 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A SLS Name:PA_Panache	Re: Swinging and Birth Control I'm fixed (via Vasectomy) and she's on The Pill. We also use condoms with everybody except two other couples, and we only go bareback with them because their hubbies are fixed as well and we know then pretty well. __________________ "May God be with you."

05-19-2004, 02:49 PM	#12 (permalink)
Mcpl4fun Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 2 Location: Martinsburg WV Status: Couple	Re: Swinging and Birth Control I am on the pill, and we Always us protection with any penetration. I know there are some who don't like using condoms, but every time you play with someone who don't use them is another chance you are taking at picking up something unwanted. Everyone says they are honest and don't have or havent ever had a VD, but you cant take everyones word for it. We have never had any diseases and don't ever want any. We want to enjoy this lifestyle and be as healthy as possible. We always get tested every 5-6 months just to be on the safe side. I also puts your mind at ease! You can never be too careful!

05-19-2004, 03:03 PM	#13 (permalink)
pairbond Active Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 156 Location: USA	Re: Swinging and Birth Control Vasectomy for me, menopause for her. Birth control isn't the issue. STDs are the issue. So it's condoms until/unless we know a couple exceptionally well and they become "regulars." paribond

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07-11-2004, 12:14 PM	#14 (permalink)
ionsawmill Purveyors of Perviness Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 273 Location: Southwestern Alabama Status: He's Bisexual She's still thinking about it. They are happily married! SLS Name:ionsawmill Blog Entries: 1	Re: Swinging and Birth Control For health reasons (hypothyroidism), D.E. doesn't use any chemical birth control. We only use condoms and, because we still may have children, I'm intact. __________________ IonSawmill@Yahoo.com He is "Tainted Homily" - She is "Deal Earner"

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Jenny&Thomas Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 2 Location: Ahaus Status: Couple	Re: Swinging and Birth Control Hi, with hubby we use condoms for birth control and sometimes we use the withdrawal method. With other couples we nearly always used condoms if he was not fixed; with the exeption of some rare occasions in which I really trusted my swinging partner to withdraw in time and went bareback. Jenny

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