Swinging and Birth Control

cumply21 · 08-10-2004, 04:29 PM

I'm have an IUD, but that is just so that I don't get pregnant. We always use a condom for any vaginal penetration. I don't like them for oral, and we only do anal together, so that's not an issue.

Mrs Spoomonkey · 08-10-2004, 05:07 PM

We are both surgically fixed so birth control isn't the issue. We always use condoms because STDs are the issue.

Just a side note . . . some of you mentioned using and IUD . . . I got pregnant with an IUD. A little heads up warning there.

Mrs Spoomonkey

CplBeginners23 · 12-13-2004, 09:25 AM

Sometimes used withdrawal, but swinging will always be with condom.

xxoticangel · 12-13-2004, 11:52 AM

We are both fixed so birth control is not an issue. We use condoms for most encounters strictly as safer sex.

**good times** · 12-13-2004, 03:35 PM

We are both surgically fixed so no birth control worries here, we use condoms when they are requested.

LadyHawke · 12-13-2004, 08:09 PM

A question for the ladies...when you say that you are "fixed", what does that mean for you ? What kind of procedure can you get done ? I am interested in any info that you can pass along to me. The only thing that I've ever heard of for women is a hysterectomy. I don't know anything about it, really and as I understand it, it's not something that doctors do much electively anymore.

**good times** · 12-13-2004, 08:47 PM

I'm not a lady but I think the most common elective form of female sterilization is having your tubes tied or tubal ligation. Mrs. Gt recently had it done, the doctor makes a little incision Usually in the naval (belly button, if you grew up where I did) and in her case he inserts a laproscope with a laser and cauterizes the fallopian tubes.

Southern Lady · 12-13-2004, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyHawke

A question for the ladies...when you say that you are "fixed", what does that mean for you ? What kind of procedure can you get done ? I am interested in any info that you can pass along to me. The only thing that I've ever heard of for women is a hysterectomy. I don't know anything about it, really and as I understand it, it's not something that doctors do much electively anymore.

I had a hysterectomy, hubby is fixed too. Ladies can get their tubes tied and done like the men. But that does not always work, I know a lady that had twins after she had her tubes tied. I would say the best thing is not to have the parts.

LadyHawke · 12-13-2004, 09:50 PM

Southern Lady, I have to agree with you on that. The only thing that will truly set my mind at ease and allow me to freely engage in play (and that includes with my husband) is to "not have the parts." I'm sure that we will always use condoms with others, but it sure would be nice to not have to with him when we're alone and not have to worry about getting pregnant. Has always been a HUGE issue for me. I think it has kept me from having as much fun as I could have in the past.

LadyHawke · 12-13-2004, 09:51 PM

Thank you btw Mr GT

Annamal · 12-13-2004, 11:02 PM

This was an interesting topic since I have wondered what others do about birth control too. I know its a big issue for me and is always on my mind. My husband is not fixed and I am not either. I dont take the pill anymore bc it caused me to have elevated tryglicerides. So I went off in September. Now the question is: Do I feel safe enough with just the condoms? I sometimes worry about that. I mean peopke have become pregnant before due to incorrect condom use as well as breakage! I dont ever ever want to be faced with a pregnancy and not know whos baby it is. That is one of my biggest fears. One time we got carried away 2 years ago during a full swap encounter. I wound up letting the guy go bareback and my husband thought that he saw the guy cum in me. I was not sure since I had been drinking. So the next day we called my gyn and got a morning after pill prescription. I dont want to deal with this situation anymore... so for now it is condom & withdrawal even tho the guy is wearing a condom. For me I have had 2 unplanned pregnancies when I was in my early 20's/ I feel I can never be too careful

Mrs Spoomonkey · 12-13-2004, 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyHawke

Southern Lady, I have to agree with you on that. The only thing that will truly set my mind at ease and allow me to freely engage in play (and that includes with my husband) is to "not have the parts." I'm sure that we will always use condoms with others, but it sure would be nice to not have to with him when we're alone and not have to worry about getting pregnant. Has always been a HUGE issue for me. I think it has kept me from having as much fun as I could have in the past.

LadyHawke, I have my tubes tied . . . we he actually cut and cauterized the ends. They have different proceedures for it, I feel most comfortable this way because it's less likely anything will get past the burnt end of the tube

Also, there are other issue that I would have worried about with getting a hysterectomy. The whole hormone thing, and I've heard more horror stories about that than the fear of getting pregnant again.

I guess it boils down to your own person preference and what you and your doctor decide is best for you.

Mrs Spoomonkey

LadyHawke · 12-13-2004, 11:35 PM

Wow Annamal !
Did you write that last post or did I ?!?!?! Seems we have a lot in common.

Also, we're in NC too. Charlotte. Where are you ?

cutecplco · 12-13-2004, 11:47 PM

Our main method of birth control is condoms with spermacide. We have a few no sex days each month as well. And if she is going to give another guy a bj, she has a sweet trick of putting a flavoured condom on him using only her mouth.

Annamal · 12-14-2004, 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyHawke

Wow Annamal !
Did you write that last post or did I ?!?!?! Seems we have a lot in common.

Also, we're in NC too. Charlotte. Where are you ?

We are in the Raleigh Durham area of NC

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08-10-2004, 04:29 PM	#16 (permalink)
cumply21 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 37 Location: Colorado Springs, CO Status: Couple SLS Name:cumply21	Re: Swinging and Birth Control I'm have an IUD, but that is just so that I don't get pregnant. We always use a condom for any vaginal penetration. I don't like them for oral, and we only do anal together, so that's not an issue. __________________ Aimee __________________ Want to come play? ;)

08-10-2004, 05:07 PM	#17 (permalink)
Mrs Spoomonkey Disney!All rides are open Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,755 Location: Ohio Status: Married SLS Name:spoomonkey	Re: Swinging and Birth Control We are both surgically fixed so birth control isn't the issue. We always use condoms because STDs are the issue. Just a side note . . . some of you mentioned using and IUD . . . I got pregnant with an IUD. A little heads up warning there. Mrs Spoomonkey __________________ Love is friendship set aflame

12-13-2004, 09:25 AM	#18 (permalink)
CplBeginners23 Registered Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 5 Location: Kranburg	Re: Swinging and Birth Control Sometimes used withdrawal, but swinging will always be with condom.

12-13-2004, 11:52 AM	#19 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 362 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple SLS Name:xxoticangel	Re: Swinging and Birth Control We are both fixed so birth control is not an issue. We use condoms for most encounters strictly as safer sex. __________________ Multiple orgasms are proof that God is a woman.

12-13-2004, 03:35 PM	#20 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,415 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: Swinging and Birth Control We are both surgically fixed so no birth control worries here, we use condoms when they are requested. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

12-13-2004, 08:09 PM	#21 (permalink)
LadyHawke Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 18 Location: Charlotte, NC Status: Couple - Female Half SLS Name:LadyHawke	Re: Swinging and Birth Control A question for the ladies...when you say that you are "fixed", what does that mean for you ? What kind of procedure can you get done ? I am interested in any info that you can pass along to me. The only thing that I've ever heard of for women is a hysterectomy. I don't know anything about it, really and as I understand it, it's not something that doctors do much electively anymore.

12-13-2004, 08:47 PM	#22 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,415 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: Swinging and Birth Control I'm not a lady but I think the most common elective form of female sterilization is having your tubes tied or tubal ligation. Mrs. Gt recently had it done, the doctor makes a little incision Usually in the naval (belly button, if you grew up where I did) and in her case he inserts a laproscope with a laser and cauterizes the fallopian tubes. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

12-13-2004, 09:50 PM	#24 (permalink)
LadyHawke Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 18 Location: Charlotte, NC Status: Couple - Female Half SLS Name:LadyHawke	Re: Swinging and Birth Control Southern Lady, I have to agree with you on that. The only thing that will truly set my mind at ease and allow me to freely engage in play (and that includes with my husband) is to "not have the parts." I'm sure that we will always use condoms with others, but it sure would be nice to not have to with him when we're alone and not have to worry about getting pregnant. Has always been a HUGE issue for me. I think it has kept me from having as much fun as I could have in the past.

12-13-2004, 09:51 PM	#25 (permalink)
LadyHawke Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 18 Location: Charlotte, NC Status: Couple - Female Half SLS Name:LadyHawke	Re: Swinging and Birth Control Thank you btw Mr GT

12-13-2004, 11:02 PM	#26 (permalink)
Annamal Active Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 17 Location: NC Status: M. Female	Re: Swinging and Birth Control This was an interesting topic since I have wondered what others do about birth control too. I know its a big issue for me and is always on my mind. My husband is not fixed and I am not either. I dont take the pill anymore bc it caused me to have elevated tryglicerides. So I went off in September. Now the question is: Do I feel safe enough with just the condoms? I sometimes worry about that. I mean peopke have become pregnant before due to incorrect condom use as well as breakage! I dont ever ever want to be faced with a pregnancy and not know whos baby it is. That is one of my biggest fears. One time we got carried away 2 years ago during a full swap encounter. I wound up letting the guy go bareback and my husband thought that he saw the guy cum in me. I was not sure since I had been drinking. So the next day we called my gyn and got a morning after pill prescription. I dont want to deal with this situation anymore... so for now it is condom & withdrawal even tho the guy is wearing a condom. For me I have had 2 unplanned pregnancies when I was in my early 20's/ I feel I can never be too careful

12-13-2004, 11:35 PM	#28 (permalink)
LadyHawke Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 18 Location: Charlotte, NC Status: Couple - Female Half SLS Name:LadyHawke	Re: Swinging and Birth Control Wow Annamal ! Did you write that last post or did I ?!?!?! Seems we have a lot in common. Also, we're in NC too. Charlotte. Where are you ?

12-13-2004, 11:47 PM	#29 (permalink)
cutecplco Active Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Colorado Status: couple SLS Name:cutecplco	Re: Swinging and Birth Control Our main method of birth control is condoms with spermacide. We have a few no sex days each month as well. And if she is going to give another guy a bj, she has a sweet trick of putting a flavoured condom on him using only her mouth.

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