safe sex between females

[newcummers]

I'm sure this is going to seem like a strange question, I know all of the answers to having safe sex in a m/f situation, but in regards to a f/f situation, I would like to know the best way to be safe and have a good time.

I have not been in this situation before, but am very curious. My husband and I have met a few potential couples that we may meet up with. If we do go as far as playing with them, I just want to be safe or as safe as possible anyways.

I know all about dental dam and all that good stuff as far as oral contact goes, but if there is any sharing of, for example, toys, etc... I am worried about the safety issue.

I am going under the assumption that these couples, probably do not use protection when being with one another, as they are married. I know everyone was says they are d/d free, but I am not trusting anyones word on this.

I would appreciate the advice of anyone who has been here, or at least has more info than I. And please keep in mind that I am brand new, if you are thinking "what a silly question"

Thanks,

the female side of the newcummers

[newcummers]

Just wanted to let you all know that I did not fully explore this site before positng the above message. I just found a plethra (sp?) of informaton all about "safer sex" on another part of this site. I would still appreciate any advice, and realize that this thread may need to be moved to another area of the board.

Thanks everyone!

[Miss_Piggy]

Welcome to the board.

Sharing toys? I think it's probably a good idea to avoid sharing toys with play partners. But I don't know, is this that different from unprotected oral sex - which many people are okay with doing? (I'm interested in what people think on this one).
I guess to be on the safe side you should just have as many toys available as possible so that there is no need to share.

~Piggy

[MrsBliss]

You say you know everything about the dental dam and safe/oral sex.

Please tell me about it because I am curious about that.

[BradAndJanet]

Originally posted by newcummers
Just wanted to let you all know that I did not fully explore this site before positng the above message. I just found a plethra (sp?) of informaton all about "safer sex" on another part of this site. I would still appreciate any advice, and realize that this thread may need to be moved to another area of the board.

Thanks everyone!

I did go ahead and move this thread (it's easy and no big deal!)

As you have likely discovered, it basically boils down to a personal choice about how much risk a person perceives and is willing to accept. Everyone is different in that respect.

-B