Birth Control In The Lifestyle - Page 2

**Alura** · 10-22-2003, 09:22 AM

It really doesn't matter much why the lady is pregnant. She is.

It really doesn't matter much how the couple feel about the pregnancy. The one who is pregnant must decide whether or not to abort.

My hope is that the three will welcome and love the baby. The child's existance is the result of actions by all three.

Mr. Alura

alabamafuntonig · 10-22-2003, 11:24 AM

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As for withdrawal being recommended as a reliable means of birth control..if you use a condom it is, if not the odds are not good. I agree with Deb, its not a good idea to suggest withdrawal is effective for birth control. The gentlemans post did say withdrawal with a condom and as long as that point is clear I agree with his post, if he meant without a condom then he's wrong.

yes i did say in a swinger situation withdrawal with a condom would be a great form as far as with your spouse withdrawal is fine ..unless you have no control or have premature ejaculation! then i suppose this method would not suit you!

but even with a condom on the failure rate for condoms are 12% vs 18% for just withdrawal...not a very large margin!

withdrawel method is a suitable form of bc as long as you have control...are married .....and see a exceptable risk of having kids...
if not ..get your tubes tied...get the big v .......use a sponge....nox9....the pill.....and wear a raincoat....

DeesireCpl · 10-22-2003, 11:43 AM

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Originally posted by austxmark
One last thing, PLEASE use spell check. I mean, perfection is not required but damn.

Is that for me that comment ? Spell check is for whimps I like to rough it !! lmao

Brit_Pair · 10-22-2003, 12:25 PM

Short of a hysterectomy, it seems that the only sure method of birth control is abstinence.

Which - of course - isn't much use to those people wishing to participate in the lifestyle.

DeesireCpl · 10-23-2003, 10:27 AM

Radical but true !!!
Chances we all take but I am more aware now after meeting with this couple , I will make sure that never happens to me or my partner. Just be careful out there

Elusive BiFem · 10-23-2003, 01:11 PM

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Originally posted by DeesireCpl
Radical but true !!!
Chances we all take but I am more aware now after meeting with this couple , I will make sure that never happens to me or my partner. Just be careful out there

How are you going to make sure?

-EBF

DeesireCpl · 10-23-2003, 03:30 PM

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Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	It really doesn't matter much why the lady is pregnant. She is. It really doesn't matter much how the couple feel about the pregnancy. The one who is pregnant must decide whether or not to abort. My hope is that the three will welcome and love the baby. The child's existance is the result of actions by all three. Mr. Alura

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